Should I Get Back with my Ex after 6 months?

Okay I have asked many people for advice. I keep getting mixed answers. Okay well me and my Ex Girlfriend have been split up for, 6 months to the day. Not by my choice, she was the one who asked me to leave. BTW we had been together for 3 years and lived together almost as long. she is 21 right now and I am 25. We had our problems, but I all ways tried to face them. But ultimately she said she felt to young to be tied down right now. Now mind you We planed on getting married. I truly love this girl, Even though she put me threw the worse case of heart ache I had ever felt in my life. So now 6 months have passed. I still am in love with her deeply. And have always wanted her back. but now I ask myself. What if another 3 years goes by and this happens again? I don't think i would survive another blow like that. But yesterday I met her for lunch and, she told me she would be willing to try to make things work. And she didn't realized how in love with me she was til she seen me. She said I gave her butterfly's, But we have done a lot of changing in the last 6 months, I just wonder if we are even compatible anymore. She turned into a party girl, and I joined the Navy. She was all ways faithful to me, that was never an issue. I just don't know what to do. Someone please help me.
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I am just sacred to death of getting hurt again, cause I may still love her. But I am okay without her now. but the day we split up, it was like my family was taken away, we went threw everything together,

You shouldn't be scared of getting hurt. Do you think about that every new relationship you go in? Because you know there is always a chance of your heart being broken. It is part of love. Think of the positive things that comes with having a relationship. And if you love her why not try it. Who knows she might be the one... your future wife :o)
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
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wnc817

Once it is over, it is over. Especially if she has spread her legs for another man any time since the beginning of your relationship until now. Find someone that will love you. She is young and immature.

MoMagic

You have a reason to be scared to get hurt from this girl. She just broke it off, went and had some fun, and now realizes she doesn't want to be alone for the rest of her life so having something more "secure" appeals to her. I don't know her, you do. I will be honest from my experiences... Don't get back together with her, it will end in tragedy again and you're 25 you have lots of time to get married. Get out there and start having some fun and meet some women. Being a military man this may be difficult, either way, if the gut says no... follow the gut feeling.

Paul&Fran

Your last sentence is your answer. Yall are both still young, not sure what direction yall want your lives to head in. Keep in touch enjoy being young. If its meant to be it will be there a year down the road.

Danny G Sam

I dont think shes worth a try again. and the description u have given dosnt portray her to be as holy as u think..

But then u r stil in luv with her.. so wht ever answer u get here wud not change u.. u wil stil giv her a try .. and maybe get a blow again..

John B

I was in the same spot as you, I decided to get back with her and everything turned out great

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dreamgirl28

I know you're really confused because you're afraid to get hurt. But that's life. And you won't get the best of it if you're too scared to get hurt.

If you're just gonna let this pass without trying, are you willing to spend the rest of your life thinking what could have been if you got back together? I know this sounds difficult but it's better getting hurt from doing something than getting hurt from not doing anything at all.

Summer

I don't think that it would be wise to get back together for the very reason as you stated above, that you said you aren't sure if you two are compatible anymore. you joining the Navy is a sign that you are still young and are getting started on life, realistically the one thing you would want is a woman who would be there at home, waiting for you to come home during times that you are away, my husband is in the army, and I can honestly tell you that I did go out, but only about twice a month and not to clubs or anything, it was a movie at most, other men in my husband's unit actually divorced during their deployment, because they knew that their wives/gfs were out having fun, spending their money. I'm not saying you guys can't be together, you are going to do what you want of course, but that's just how I felt about your situation. Maybe you guys can work things out, but don't rush into marriage, until you both are all for the idea, if you are really ready to settle down and she isn't then move on, because you don't want to be waiting forever either, you have your needs that you need to have met. I hope this helps somehow, good luck!

Fred Jones

You can get your ex back. Many people including a friend of mine have done this.

You need to do some things and avoid some other things to increase the chances of getting your ex back.

My friend could get his ex back following this guideline from a tough situation after a nasty break up:

http://www.get-your-ex-back.info

old mother

I say go for it true love only comes along once i been with my other half 25 yrs on and off a few times but believe me if its still butterflies then go for it be happy hurt and heartache are all parts of our normal day to day stresses of life. why be sad and always looking for that one special love when its under your nose my husband and i are now nearly 40 have grown up alot through the years but we are meant to be togehter as it sounds you are good luck you are still young ang you have forever to enjoy your lives together i wish you every luck.

Nina

Are you crazy?
She didn't know she still loved you till she saw you??? Obviously she doesn't know her own mind. Speaking as a woman, when we are in love, we know we are in love. There is no doubt. Unless of course we just see the man as being convenient. Then we will convince ourselves that we are in love.

If she was truly in love with you she could not have been able to stand to be separated for 6 whole months. She would have ached for you.

Look at this logically, she broke up with you, broke your heart and then she went out and partied.

Come on, you deserve better than this. Get some self esteem and find a beautiful woman who will love you as you deserve to be loved.

Just me

What if another 3 years go by and you guys don't break up? If you still love her try it again.

Joy

I sat, give it a try. You will always wonder if you dont. If you arent compatible anymore then hopefully it will be mutual and the split wont be as bad, but if your heart is telling you to try, then you must

Alicia

Well if the problem was that she wasnt ready to be "tied down" and she has changed into a party girl in the last 6 months it sounds like the problem will be just as bad as it was when you were together the first time. I wouldnt get back with her unless she seemed more responsible. Or just take it slow. Dont throw yourself back into the feelings you had for her. Good luck

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