Should I Tell My Sister That Her B/F Is Cheating?

neethu

I know this is kind of a tricky situation - if you tell,your sister is going to hate you and if you don't tell,your sister is still going to hate you.Because if whatever you feel is true,and if eventually your sister finds out that her b/f was cheating on her,and that you didn't warn her,then she is going to hate you for not helping her.

Just try telling her slowly.Don't force the information onto her.Don't be like in her face or anything.Just tell her that you doubt something is happening and being her sister you felt like keeping her informed.
Tell her that maybe you might be wrong and that just to be sure your sister must keep an eye on her b/f before she comes to any conclusions.

Even if this plan doesn't work out like you supposed it would,you would have a guilt free conscience.You could sleep not with a heavy heart but with a calm mind that you did the right thing,even if it might be wrong.

So,just tell her.Just forget how she is going to react.Just remember she is your sister and that the love and affection you have for her just might help her.

Juliet

Your sis should always come first, and you should do what you feel is best for her, always. x

broncoman_555

I would not say anything until you have concrete evidence. Feelings can be hurt for no reason at all. If you have a suspicion investigate more, but I would not say anything until you know for sure. Your sister will be mad and boyfriend even more.

Sarah S

there should not even be a question u really need to tell her

Complicated

Nah. Don't tell. She probably knows anyway. A leopard always shows its spots eventually.

jackielafemme

I would!..sheÂ´s your sister..be in her shoes,,,if she knows later from some other source, she will hate you more when she comes to terms that you already knew and didnÂ´t tell her,,,that would be more painful.

kshitij s

tell her u will help her ! dun let her life go waste!

Samm

tell her the whole story and see what she says and let her deal with it from there.

Nora D

Well what do you think? Do you think your sister should know about these should she know what is going on with her on boyfriend. I know you might think your sister will hate you but one day she might thank you for telling her. How bad would it be if your sister married her boyfriend and never knew that he had another girlfriend. If I were you I would one day when the time seems right I would tell her. Your sister may even be happy you told her. You don't want for your sister to get hurt do you? Plus he lied to her.

Alicia O

YES!!!!!! Woman have a duty to tell eachother that sh**. Dont you know that. You know her and you need to figure out the best way to tell her but you have to do it.

chanel4lyfe_94

i think u should tell her but not until u no for sure if he is really cheating on her

Blahb.

I'm really big on proving things. I don't believe in rumors unless the subject of the rumor confesses to it. I would never believe anyone that tells me my boyfriend is cheating on me even if it's my sister because I love him too much to believe he would hurt me. I assume your sister would do the same.

I do not think it is a good idea to tell her unless you are completely sure and you can PROVE IT. You have to tell your sister calmly if you choose to do so, you can ask your sister if she would like to be involved in some kind of plot to see if he is cheating like stealing his phone and calling any recent phone numbers.

You don't want to run the risk of hurting your sister if you are wrong. Maybe she even knows the girl. Just decide carefully and be prepared to have proof.

Fee_Slice

Unless you have solid proof that he is cheating, you shouldn't poison their relationship with your theories. "I think" is not good enough.

TrueZein

see you think he is!

dont start something big over maybe nothing

KAR!

No. If they've been together that long, You shouldn't. He needs to tell her himself. because maybe one day he will realize he made a mistake.
If it is continuous for a month or so, and you actually SEE evidence, then yes tell her..

Sarah W

YES! of course i would totally tell me sister if her bf is cheating. its better to tell her yourself than to let her find out later and find out that you knew.

farhan's girl

yes tell her that orange pudding is yummy

Lovely Dolay ;)

tell her what you know
say you dont mean to alarm her but u felt as he sister because you love her so much you felt it was right to tell her
if she is angry then dont worry she will calm down and thank you for telling her the truth because she deserves to know

dont go and tell her YOU BF IS CHEATING just calmly tell her what you saw and let her draw her own conclusions
she wont be angry then

good luck x

Miss Sunshine

yes you should, it would probaly hurt a lot worse if they get even closer and she doesn't find out , or worse she walks in on them, and by telling her your getting her one step ahead on the problem and you can go and try to find out or not.

Jessica

If it were my sister I would tell her.... Just tell her what you saw, don't speculate, leave that up to her. If you give her the details, and then stay out of it, I don't see how she can blame you.

EVL

If you know for a fact that he is cheating then tell her. If you only think so or by what you said don't, mind your on business.

Jaimyn

yes, its worth a try. and you'll feel horrible if she finds out on her own when you knew all along. let her know now, she may reject you, but she may also try to move on if she finds out the truth.
oh also, make sure you are sure and try to get some proof.

DMAN4219

don't worry if she's going to hate you. if you're right about this she will love you forever. i say tell her.

chicken soup

Yes, yes, yes! But in a nice way so she doesn't get hurt. Tell her not to dump him and confirm if he really is cheating on her.

Sunset

Only tell her if you are sure. Otherwise, make sure that you say "I SUSPECT your bf is cheating on you"

tell her calmly so she doesn't get defensive. Women in love think their man can do no wrong.

pregnantblonde03

what you need to do is find out what really went on before you tell your sister. you should talk to him and tell him that you heard two different stories and want to know the truth. Dont tell your sister anything until you know the facts. Save her the unneeded heartache if hes not cheating. if you find out that he is cheating then tell her. if he came to town to meet a female friend then i think he should tell her. Good luck

Praying for A Blessing!!!!!!

of course no question about it shes your sister for god sake

jessa

OF COURSE YOU SHOULD! no, she wont hate you at all. of course she'll be upset but i bet she will thank you in the long run. but its your responsibility as a sister to make sure she knows the truth. you shouldnt say he was cheating b/c you dont know that. just tell her what you said in the details of this questions and let her deal with him about it. let her question him. you just need to do your part. you dont want her getting hurt further from this guy

That girl 85

If you *think* then no.

If you *know*, then yes.

stone

i faced the same thing with my brother, he would not hear what i said. i just let him find out on his own. but i did tell him that she was not doing right by him. he told me to mind my own affairs, so i said he would hear no more from me. once he discovered i was right. he felt like an A**. just let her find out for herself. tell her just a little of what you know, but let her see him for who he really is.

Allison

Jaanet G orange pudding tastes like sewer garbage!!

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