Should I be mad at my husband for...?

Girly

Its a wine glass, sentimental yes but its still just a wine glass. Get over it already.

pulchritudinous

Accidents happen! They're his glasses as well.

WMR

Did he break it on purpose or accidently? Let me ask you, what would you want from your husband if you accidently broke something of his that he valued as much as you valued that? You would already feel bad enough.. how would you feel if he reacted as you did to yours?

Remember... the MARRIAGE is important... not the symbols. I think you should apologize to him for forgetting that temporarily, and ask his forgiveness. BUT... really forgive him, whether that apology comes or not. If he believes he is forgiven for real, the apology just may come forth.

timestamps

OK, so what happens if YOU broke a glass,,, get over it
things will, and do break

Mommyof4

Did he do it on purpose? If he did it intentionally then I would say go ahead and be mad, but if it was an accident you should get over it. It is just a glass. Yes, it is sentimental since it is from your wedding, but it is a glass. The marriage is what is important here, not a glass used at the wedding. Tell him you are disappointed that he wasn't more careful but that you still love him and then go on with life. Life is too short to worry about a silly glass, from your wedding or any other glass.

do not be mad it is not good for you... later on talk to him and say it is nice to apologize if makes mistake .

Guerrilla Soldier

you should make him show you how sorry he is by having him walk all over the broken glass with bare feet. Actually, it's just a glass for one, and for two, if he didn't appologize, maybe he isnt the one who broke it, or three, maybe he isn't aware that something he did caused it to break

sexy_rocker

I think love is more important than any wine glasses

bigrobe

u should have married the wine glass..gee i would hate being married 2 u!!

Annie79513

Yes get over it its only wine glass.

ozman641

It's a glass for crting out loud. get over it. save being pissed for when he does something stupid like having an affair.

la_la_la

I get pissed when my stuff gets broken, so I can sympathize.

You shouldn't be totally upset with him...It was an accident, afterall. An annoying, infuriating accident, but an accident nonetheless!

Ask him to pick out a new wine glass/champagne flute to put in your broken one's place. That way it's something he had to make the effort to pick out, and it will share a new sentimental value.

hey yo

you have pictures of the wedding right? so whats the problem. Those glasses are just items collecting dust. Its your marriage that counts

itsmeee2006

No you shouldn't be angry with him. As long as he didn't do it on purpose. Accidents happen. The wine glass is just a memento. The husband is for life. (I hope)

born to be wild.

well how did it get broke. was it an accident if yes, then no don't be mad. if it was on purpsoe then yes you can be mad.

khansaab

you bugged him last night. Didn't you?

angel_to_ashes

if he didn't mean to, then no, you shouldn't be mad, i can see being angry, but not at him. it is just a wine glass

birdie

Ok, everyone (well, most) are saying dont be mad if it's an accident & of course, you shouldnt, However, I dont know anyone who drinks wine regularly out of the type of glasses I think you are talking about...the ones with your names printed on them. If he broke the glass saying "bride" I'd think its on purpose & be pissed as hell.

irunwithscissors25

its OK to be sad for your loss of a sentimental item its also OK for you to be sad that he didn't even apologies which probably makes you feel like your hurt feelings are not validated in his opinion but to be completely pissed about the glass being broken nah id let it go maybe you can pick new ones together? good luck hope you feel better about it soon

patrickst

maybe he did not want to tell you because he knew you were going to jump down his throat either way.

There are two ways to agrue with a woman (speak or shut up) and neither way works.

yellowsmiley

naturally, you are going to be angry and its only because women have more sentimental value than men. you should let him know how you feel about it, including the part about him not apologizing, because he could have at least, done that. but after you do that, just drop the subject

zeezizzi

Haha! I'm guessing he broke it ACCIDENTALY?
Ok, I s'pose he should've said sorry, but I'm glad people don't go crazy at me everytime I spill the milk!!

Tell you what, just to make you feel better, why don't you ACCIDENTALY smash his windscreen with a hammer?

Sorry if this answers not what you want to hear, but I read your question and couldn't stop laughing!!

Anyone else find this funny??

Oh, and Zing-Zing is rolling round on the floor in hysterics...!

babyboyken_annagurl

ok get over it.

queery

such things keep happening, forget it

yourplaceofrest

Its a wine glass, glass breaks. Yes it holds value but it is not the end of your marriage.

harmony

no, it's an object. ask yourself, is it that important? is it worth to cause a fight? if he's cheating that something else. i'm sure you have better things to worry about. get over it. tell him it's okay. your marriage will last longer.

mr_majestik1

i think you should move on, it was just a glass, i'm sure he didn't mean it.....unless u pissed him off the nite before, in any case let it go.

What's done is done. Now if you found him breaking it while banging the maid then yea you could hold a grudge.

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