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perro.faldero
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Depends on whether you trust him or not! |
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georgiablondie
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only if he's okay with you having other guys numbers in yours |
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amykdx200
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Why are they in there and when is he calling them? If they are people he works with or the wives of his friends then maybe it is okay. However, if he is calling them at weird hours or behind your back something might be going on. |
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Torontoman
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I am married and have many girl's phone numbers on my phone. I have many work place colleagues who are female. My wife has NEVER had an issue with that because she trusts me and I trust myself not to betray our love. |
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rhonda c
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I wasn't and currently divorcing over it I feel if he wants to have female friends that is fine but you 1st need to feel comfortable about it and 2nd they need to know about you and you know about them and 3rd they should be able to have the house number and if you answer the phone they should be comfortable talking to you and asking you if they can speak to him. If he has to hide it then there is something wrong. |
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Linda1314
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it depends... what's the connection between ur husband and these girls? are they like co-workers are that sort of stuff.. if it is, i think it should b fine. if they dont have any kind of connection.. then it also depends on how much u trust him and how mysterious is their relationship.
wish u the best! |
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woodenturkey
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how immature to say "delete them now" etc, just because he is married doesn't mean he stops being friends with women. I trust my wife and her me. I went and saw a band last night with a girl-friend, my wife knew, did not care, why? because she trust me. putting him on a leash will make him resentful |
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ChocLover
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Absolutely no way whatsoever! |
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speddy
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I did what Cirrea S did and found out she was cheating on me i would ask him to decide either me or them if he loves you he will choose you and not them . |
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Phil K
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Yes, you should be fine with it. So long as he's not always mailing / texting them or chatting to them I don't think it's a problem.
If my girlfriend had a problem with me having my female friends' / co-workers' numbers in my phone I think I'd just tell her to deal with it.
Oh, and Ciera S... you're a nutter. I'd dump my girlfriend in a flash if she did that to me. What's the point of being with someone if you don't trust them? If you don't trust them you should leave- why waste yours and their time? That's not a relationship. |
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marilynfsmgm
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who are they and why does he need them ? after finding out those reasons then i could give a better answer. does he call them or recieve calls from them ? it would show up on the bill , and if he does talk to them,why and for how long ? then i would see what he thought about you doing the same thing. i would be seeking alot of answers. |
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redmuppet
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well i was because i trusted him and they were just friends and oops now his living with one of them,just be careful and make sure you have an idea of what is being said between them,not all women are nice and honest... |
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sweety-pie
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yes if theyre friends its fine, do you have a reason not to trust him? |
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♥Kimchi♥
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If you had other guys ##s in your cell then what would he say? I personally would not like it b/c I know my hubby wouldnt like it either. |
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cindra
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Only if you're a blind idiot. |
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ℓღviє
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hell no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... |
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Natasha
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Depends...are they work numbers..friends..or unsure. If you are unsure of who these woman are...delete them and have a stiff talk with ur man! |
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Cierra S
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write them down and one day when he leaves call them and see who they are |
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leela
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It depends on who the girls are. I would be OK if they were family or co-workers but that would be all. |
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Rover
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What?! Could he not be working with them as opposed to trying to mate with them?! |
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miliy
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will its ok if they r his work mates or if he needed something from those girls & dont worry if he show it to u that means there is nothing just stay close to him |
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ediabullo
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I agree...if he's ok with you have other guys numbers then yes. It could be harmless and you are probably thinking of it in a different sitaution. Don't get too paranoid about it. Sometimes that's what goes through your mind but just be patient and see where it goes from there. Good Luck |
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b n real
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Sweet Pea if it is not business related than it is not suitable. |
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~*tigger*~ **
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do the same~ have a number of guys names in your s and see what happens~ if he gets miffed then say hang on a minute
do you have girls numbers in your cellphone |
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mike t
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no |
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D.lo
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If it's work related sure,but if he's doing suspicious activity late night calls.Taking off with his phone,etc..I'd think the next step is divorce.Obviously,you have doubts usually you're gut is right,though. |
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Charlotte's Dad
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No it is not ok,think you might have problems here |
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Lady Ariana
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Well - unless you don't trust him, why not? And if you don't trust him - Why are you married to him?
My husband has numbers of females he's been friends with for years as well as numbers of females from work - and I know this because he tells me, Not because I snoop! I trust my husband, and until he gives me a reason not to trust him, I see no reason in picking a fight over something so trivial and childish.
Just because you are married, doesn't mean you have the right to go through your spouse's belongings and SNOOP - that's called distrust! I don't care if you are a jealous husband or a jealous wife - that kind of behavior is simply childish.
And being married does Not give you the right to Boss or "make" your spouse do or not do anything either.
A marriage is a partnership, one in which you both work towards the same or similar goals and you compromise along the way to help you reach them.
Best Wishes |
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Xine Olivia
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HELL NO! |
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