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JJ
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Hell no |
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arrocket8
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no, he's being stupid..... |
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Michael V
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Nope. Theres a problem. Why is he looking elsewhere for a connection?
bum...bum ... bummmmmmm....... |
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Slippy
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What you got against pen pals? Oh wait, IM pals. |
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christina.teague
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DUMP HIM! |
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sugaree
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yeah, you should be upset. i wouldn't kill him or anything, but i'd make him wish he were dead! |
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geekyneerd
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I'd be mad too. It's as if he's ashamed of you or preparing for an affair. Watch out for any "business trips" in the future. |
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politicaladvisor2
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dump him now |
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T°
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Talk to the girl through IM and act like you are him and see whats up. |
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Bekah
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Um, ladie, you have every right to be upset. That has to be stopped. |
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Bob Fleming
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Your husband is out of order, he should recognis ethat this situation is distressing you and put a stop to it at once, if he values your relationship |
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dee2zo
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He has proven a few things..
#1 He is a liar.
#2 He doesn't care about your feelings
#3 He is sneaking around without you knowing
Run for the hills, he is not worth the heartache. |
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jmu_dukes08
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i would be pissed too. no offense but your husband is being an ***. |
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boomboom
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No. |
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Shasta
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You absolutely should be upset!!!! I don't care if this girl he's talking to is online 5000 miles away or lives next door. For him saying you're stupid for being upset just shows how immature he is. HE is the stupid one and if I were you I'd make sure he knew that if he continues you will pull the plug on the computer and take it out of the house. If he doesn't stop talking to her, you need to tell him to go where the sun don't shine sweety. Good Luck! |
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the renegade angel
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No, you are not stupid for being upset. You should be angry at him. I mean, how would he feel if it was you flirting with some guy? |
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sufferingdaily
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you have every right to be upset. I have cut the computer wires and destroyed our dsl to show how mad I was, cause in my case, talking wasn't working. However, talk it over with him. If that doesn't work you need to think about how important your marriage is and if he feels the same.
That is still cheating. It's lies and secrets and going behind your back having another relationship. Doesn't matter if there was touching or not, his heart is with another. |
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nease174
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He is missing something from your relationship... if he was 100% satisfied he would not be trying to find it somewhere else.... Has he been trying to tell you something and you havent listened?? I think in order to save the marriage you need to find out what this woman offers him that you cant seem to... talk to him calmly and non threatening.. If he isnt willing to talk and continues to treat your marriage this way then maybe he wants out and doesnt know how to do it maturely... either way you need to talk and see whats going on..good luck |
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odysseyxltd
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beat him up |
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kds5862
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I would say he is a liar and untrustworthy. Tell him you have a boyfriend and you told him you were single. See how he likes it. |
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CindyLu
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No you are not and if you do not nip this in the bud you are in for a whole lot more problems. You have a bigger problem then him IMing some other girl. He is disrespecting you with his response to your very reasonable request. It is going to come down to his IM girlfriend, and that is what she is, or you so you might as well put it on the line and get it over with. Tell him you do not appreciate him having a girlfriend and ask how would he feel if you were IMing some guy on a regular basis. His response is gonna tell you a lot about how your future is going to go and then you must take it from there. Put your foot down about this now. |
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tannedknight45
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Your husband is out of line, you shouldn't feel stupid, in fact you are very smart to call him out. |
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guamtinkerbell
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You've gotta leave him now girl. |
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No, he has no right talking to her in that manner. He should have told her from the beginning that he is married. He's wrong, he knows it and so should you. Do something about it now.... |
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thatb23
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Hell no
He's cheating point blank.
a not only with her
check your next door neighbor and his so-called female friends
Men think they're so slick it kills me. |
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Sasha
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No!! you have the right to be upset. He lied about your marriage |
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Switch
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No. Your stupid for still being married to him. |
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mighty_mom
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stay calm... i know you wanna blow up right about now. so, its a game he wants? you can play too. its not hard at all to find a cool, desperate guy to chat with. then see how your hubby feels about it. |
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theartisttwin
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Do the same thing and see how he likes it. |
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