Should I be worried if some of my wife's family don't like me because of my skin color and I'm not rich?

*****

If your wife loves you, that should be all that matters.

jwburton3

Why?

Drew

no, don't let that get to you, your wife loves you that is all that matters

nwobody

Skin colour - that's not acceptable.

Wealth - if you're a lazy bum then get a job.

strech

if they feel that way then it will be a huge challenge between you and your wife. studies show that having the parents permission is a big deal and will effect your relationship in a bad way but there has been people who have made it through. We just went over that in my PFD class which is a personal family development class.

9957_*vsts

No way, if they don't like you that's there problem. You can only do so much to impress people and have them like you. They need to respect you for who you are and not for what you have, especially money. I don't even want to address the skin colour issue, that's a given, nobody should judge you based on your skin colour. We are all God's childeren, created equally.

fbklepper

Yes.

Lunaeclipz

Skin color should not be an issue -if you work hard an you are honest -who cares what they think.They may grow to like you over time.

tom

no, she married you because she loves you so dont worry about her family

Jaco W

NO> You're married to your wife, not her family

Wanda K

Do you treat your wife and kids right? Does your wife and kids agree?

If you answered yes, then don't worry about it. The only problem you might have is if your wife agreed with them, and I'm thinking she doesn't.

You didn't say how long you've been married, where the parent live, how old you each are... All these things could factor in, Young and in love, you'll grow together, and succeed.

Good luck.

The Dark Prince

Yes, Because if they are judging you already because of this the problem will only get worse. I have dated outside my race lots of times and it has always played some role in eventual breakup. Money isn't as big a problem as long as you have an education. With an education, they can see the opportunity for being financially stable. If actual "rich" is what you are talking of get out fast. They are looking for someone with money now. Sad but these two things matter to way too many people.

OOO K 611

What you should be worried about is marriage. Good luck. I hope you enjoyed your relationship it is all downhill now!!!

Coco

Yes, I know your wifes opionon is the only one that counts however; you'll have to be strong to withstand all talking and nagging she is going to get regarding you. Also, hopefully it does not happen when you have your argument that those negatives that they are planting in her head will rise up. Look at it as an outside person. People are always going to talk now matter what your situation good or bad. It has to be something inside that keeps you you.

that hot chick

Nope. People will think or feel about you the way they do, you cant change it and shouldnt try. As long as you know that your a good person and you treat your wife good. who cares about anyone else

karls dream

as long as your wife loves you thair should be no problem. they can think what they want.

HyperDog

It depends on how well you and your wife get along. If there are rough times and she brings that info home to her family, then yes, you should be worried.

As long as you support your family and keep the relationship on an even keel, they haven't got anything to complain about and noting to pin on you, so in that case, no worries!

Matilda

nope. love is blind.

Robyn S

Honestly I wouldn't because they need to like you for who you are... if they don't then thats their problem not yours...

nhilton7590

nope

yea.yea.whatever.

they are racist, so ignore them. your wife married you because she loves you for who you are

ga_el_mi

you shouldn't worry about it because as long as she loves you for who you are and the color you are then nothing else should bother you. if she wanted to marry a man the same color or that was rich then she would of but she choose you and that's all that should matter to you.

jsfnita

If she already married you then she doesn't care. I think in time they will see that you are good for her.

Popcorngirl20

No! Don't worry. Alot of people aren't rich. I'm not rich. All that matters is if she likes you! Good luck!

Poppy

Why worry? Think they might kill you? Ease up dude.

maria

Sometimes family can be difficult but the only thing that should matter is your relationship with your wife. the family will one day see that you two are right for each other and leave you alone. I should know I have been married 13 years and my family is just starting to like my husband. they have finally seen that he is the my perfect match and my happiness is all the really matters to them. and that should be the only thing that matters to your wife's family.

Amirra

Ignore their ignorance.

drdennie2

yes

drankitall

Well depends how much. If alot of the fams, yes. Just because you your race, income, ect. doesnt change you.

If it's like just a aunt or unle or suntin just talk to yur wife bouts it.

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