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Should I buy my wife a pair of high heels?

She doesn't own any. She is very conservative. We are the same height, 5'8" so with heels she will be taller, which i find kinky. She is a little heavy. When I met her 14 years ago, she didn't own any high heels... i have never seen her in heels but i think she would look great in them.

Should i buy her a pair?


    




mike g
Maybe just take here to a store and try a pair on to see how they look/feel as she would have to wear them


cows_rap
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make sure shes confortable with them first, because she might find it offensive


budzka
sure but maybe she doesn't like them and thats why she doesn't own any.


jessicaaa_yo
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well, if she hasn't owned heels for the past 14 years, maybe she doesn't like them.
you could always suggest heels, but i don't think you sohould go out and buy her any. i mean, i think that after 14 years+ if the woman actually wanted a pair of high heels, then sometime she would have bought a pair.


Alice Cullen
well yes and no, she might like it and think it's sweet or she might take it offensively. she might have sore feet after heels or maybe she likes being the same height as you. ask her first, don't buy them first say 'hey? why dont u ever wear high heels? youd look good in them.' and see her reaction. she'd prolly buy them herself and wear them to impress you anyway girls like buying things that make them self confident.


Amy I
Ask her if she would like to wear a pair and let her know you would like to see her in them.


angel s
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if shes never had a pair she might fall over & brake her leg will you find that kinky


Brown Eyed Beauty
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If you do, I wouldn't go nuts and buy 6 inch pumps or anything. Maybe find a nice 1 or 2 inch heal. That way she will feel more comfortable in them. Then from there you can go taller like 3 or 4 inches. Also, I would take a look at what she already owns to get an idea on what her taste is.


Tara K
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Heels are reeeally hard to buy for other people. Most of them are very uncomfortable. And she probably won't be able to walk in the really high ones, if she ever wears them they'd have to be at a height that she is comfortable with.
I'd suggest something more like, "you have such great legs honey, I'd love to see you in heels" and then go shopping with her. :D


Mrs. Signpimp
only if she wants a pair and it does not seem that she does. if you want her to try them don't buy too high heels


Cebsme
A lot of women are very picky about shoes. Let here buy her own, but you can suggest the idea.


ReadySetGo
No, because if she wanted them she would own them already.

I think every woman should own a great pair of heels, but maybe your wife doesnt agree.


Anjie M
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sure why not! but say something that wont make her think your offending her own conservative style. you could say ( hey hun, just for a little change i bought you some heels???:D i think your legs would look great in them)

by saying that i think she would consider it.


Fudge.
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maybe there is a reason she doesn't own any heels, maybe she never learnt how to walk in heels and its very difficult if you want to buy her heels, take her shopping and encourage her to try on some heels, or buy her heels but make sure you can return or exchange them in case your she doesn't like them. good lucks ;]


Ani Del Franco
by all means by her one.


Complicated
Certainly. Kinky is fun! ;)


Brittany Danielle
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As a lover of shoes, I say YES..YES...and by all means YES!!!

Maybe she thinks you would feel uncomfortable if you were shorter then she, but if you buy her a pair and explain that is not the case, maybe she'd feel more comfortable. Although if she tells you she just plain dislikes them, dont be offended. Maybe she'll wear them just to "play"! ;)

BUT MIND YOU.. you may be opening Pandoras box! Once you get hooked on a little black pair of kitten heels the urges are endless :)


dddd2776
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If your wife is like me, don't do it. I hate heels and I don't own any and never will. The only shoes I like to wear are sneakers. If my husband went out and bought a pair of heels for me, I would tell him he could wear them. If he left it up to me, they would find their way to the back of the closet or lost mysteriously and never found again. The same would go with any he would buy after that.


ღ Isabella ღ
Do it. My partner LOVES me in heels. ;)


carla
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yes


Michael T
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It can't hurt. Go ahead and buy some.


Randy
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yeah every woman should have a pair of high heels


Veni
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Yep and be sure to tell her how hot it makes you to see her wear them


Brokn
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Yes! I think it would be great if my husband went out and bought me a pair if heels. Now, knowing that she is on the conservative side, get something pretty in a one or two inch heel and go for real leather - something good and on the pricey side.


wendy
does she know how to walk in them cuz it might be a problem?


Pretty Wife
maybe she will not like it because she will be much taller than you..

like me, my husband and i were the same height too, i always use flat shoes when i'm with him...

but now he's working abroad, i buy shoes now with heels..





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