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Should I divorce my wife if she gets any fatter?

My wife has put on 30 pounds in the last year since we have been married. I love her, but her fat is disgusting and I no longer find her attractive. Should I threaten to divorce her if she doesn't drop the weight. I have done that in the past and she hasn't got the hint. I have also threatened to sleep with skinny women (even though I already have) if she doesn't lose it. Please help.


    




Waxy
absolutely, I see a lot of insecure women here.


♥The Mrs.♥
Please do. No one deserves to be with someone so hateful.


Mare027
You have this all wront -- SHE should divorce you for being a moron because that's even more disgusting!!! I hope the judge makes you eat the fat.


♥ Heaven ♥ Lee ♥
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Why don't you just talk to her instead of hinting?
Actually, do her a favour and just divorce her. She can do better than YOU!
Cheatin' Loser!!


Lindsay
She should divorce you.


Samantha
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30 lbs, is that it? I hope that she decides to never get pregnant with your children. I know that she should divorce you because of what kind of man you are. You have only been married a year....you should divorce her to save her from you.


Bliss71
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U R A Male Chauvinist Pig.
If you became bald and developed a beer belly, do you think she would leave you???? Are you totally beautiful yourself????


Groucho
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Dude your marriage is already over if your cheating on your wife. You need to get your self-centered head out of your @ss !! She probably gained it over worrying where you were till 3 in the morning, while you were out committing Adultery.

What a poor excuse for a male.

ladies please don't judge us all by this horrific example of a human being.


♥pola77♥
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yes you should divorce her so she can find a decent and loyal partner unlike you!! you kind of men disgust me!


cope_acetic
Sorry, pal...but the guy she's having an affair with LIKES her curvy.


charlie girl
Yes

Bythe way, men who like skinny women are gay,


ml
your just afraid that your smalls wont reach the cushion, thats why your an a$$ about her a@@ getting fat!!


yeahyeahyeah
If you are no longer attracted to her this is a problem. You two need to go to counseling. Being overweight is never okay but neither is cheating. It sounds like your marriage is over anyway.


JohnHancock
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If you've cheated on her, then your commitment to each other has already been broken and it's obvious your marriage doesn't mean much to you. With that being the case, yes you should seek a divorce.


ChildofGod
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You, sir, are a pig. I think you'd be doing your wife a favor. That way she could find a real man.


curiouscanadian
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How about helping your wife lose the weight? For starters no junk food in the house and no fast food or restaurant meals until she is lighter. Make your meals from scratch and help her with the grocery shopping, menu planning etc. Also go out for long walks with her in the evening time and make sure she is getting enough exercise.


shbakergurl
if you were her would ypu want to be divorsed becaus u were to fat. NO. u are a selfcenter little brat omg i hate u and dont know u how rude could u be


xxburgandyxx
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Well for one thing you should love and accept your wife for who she is on the inside and not the out...threatening your wife will only make the situations worse...If your in the marriage for looks only then your not even in love with your own wife, your only in love with looks of a person on the outside and not on the inside...If you want changes out of her then you have to help her by lifting her up and not putting her down...


theonlytufrose
You are a low life scum. She should divorce you for being to callus and stupid.


a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net
What you should do is, have a long talk with your Wife, and tell her that if she does not lose some weight her Health might be at risk, because when you gain weight complications of her obesity might arise, and you do not want her to suffer because of her weight problem.
This is written for your Wife, not for your benefit, because as I see it you really do not Love her, you are only thinking of yourself, and do not care one bit for her.
I hope that one of this days she will wise up about you, and move out from your side, and she will be happier, for it.
I have always said a cheater is always a cheater and do not deserve to be happy with anyone else.


misslady
I think that although you have the right to feel a certain way about her weight, you are doing it for the wrong reasons. It is superficial to critisize her weight for her looks. I dont know what kind of person you are but if you really cared about her you would be more concerned about her health than her looks. I think it is cruel to tell her you will leave her for a skinny woman and personally your not worth anything for her to stay around. She should leave you. If you want her to lose weight to it in a more empowering way. Some people rebel if you do it forcefully. Buy healthier things around the house. Go food shopping together and pick out better foods. Start working out yourself and caring about how you look. It may rub off on her. I wasnt a health fanatic, but watching my husband any mom care about thier health made it rub off on me. Just sit down with her and tel her you guys can do it together, rather than pressuring her to do it alone. YOur team work can be very inspiring for her and bring your relationship closer. I think right now you are going about it the wrong way and thats why thing are not right yet. When you go about it the right way then things will be right.


pearlishell26
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You should be concerned about her health and not the fact that you feel disgusted. You are sorry excuse for a husband!!!


Polly W
She's most likely fat because you are an *** and she's miserable. Go ahead and leave her...do her a favor. She's better off without you.


pay it forward
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yes, you can't say you love someone & care so much about their looks you only care about your materialistic (the body) self. let this women go so she can find a man that really loves her. Subconsciously she is probably gaining the weight cause she is so turned off by you.


Josie Jo
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Why are you using threatening language to get you wife to loose weight. Have you tried to just sit down and talk to her.

If you are feel like divorcing your wife because she has put weight on then your feelings are very superficial and you mustn't have believed in the vows you took. If that is the case then - yes do her a favour and divorce her.


JBrat04
You are such a pig... did you just feel like asking a question that would get a bunch of people angry with you... I hope you wife reads this and divorces your a**!!!


Jenny D
No thats wrong, her outward apperance should have NOTHING to do with your love for her. Maybe if you encourage her to lose weight instead of threatning her she would get your point. Offer to work out with, prepare non-fattening meals together, keep a health journal. etc.


Stick out your tongue, say AH!
Yes before she divorces you for becoming a bigger jacka$$


kapil b
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no but u shell help her to be fit again. but if u wan then ........................................... no one can stop u


marcia f
You mention nothing about loving her. Maybe she is eating because she feels a void and that void is you. You don't love her because if you did, the weight issue wouldn't matter. You sound very immature and self centered. You would be doing her a big favor if you divorced her. You should never be married.





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