Should I leave my cheatin husband?

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Yes you're supposed to fight for your marriage/the one you love but you're NOT supposed to put up with such crap. If fidelity and your health are important to you, you should ditch this guy.

SweetBrunette

Hire a private investigator to provide you the evidence, have your paper documented of the STD, and then get a lawyer to assist you in winning a lot of spousal support when you get the divorce.

wrestlergod

Yeah girlfriend you need to lose that zero and get yourself a hero

You're just as stupid and dumb as him, I would of killed his a**

Ramzi

yesssssssssssssssss
dump him plenty of good guys out there

sugarBear

Yes, leave him. go out and find a better man

shorty

yes girl leave his nasty a** alone because you will be better off in the long run, you have only been married a little over a year and he as already put you through the wind mill LEAVE NOW

jusbizness403

Leave him, next time he may give you something else

zaytox0724

If you don't want to live this way until the day he decides to dump you, then leave him, don't walk, RUN!!!

dasani

you havent been married very long so it sounds to me like this probably isnt the first time.i would say leave him because the longer you stay it seems to get harder to leave

littlemama

That's a silly question OF COURSE!!! You should Have did it a long time ago...I also am a strong believer of making a marriage work but obviously he doesn't care about you enough to cover his thing up and that he puts your life on the line every time he does it. I hope you don't have any kids but if you do then think...do you want them to see their mommy dying of aids?? And if you don't would you want to see your mom dying of it? Think, Pack and Leave!!!!

gsschulte

yes you can divorce him. infidelity is the only reason for divorce.

crazi8red

leave his sorry a@#

jude

what is there to fight for, a deceitful betraying man? who has made u ill, and denies it all. there is nothing u can do to to straighten this out, because he won't even admit it. his response to u show's he isn't interested in coming clean, and repenting. time to move on and get safely away from this situation.

Amy

If you are 100% sure he did cheat on you and brought those diseases into your marriage - I would get out. Fighting for a man that promised you he would be faithful is not in the vows. Fidelity is a legitimate reason for leaving him. He could give you AIDS!!!! Get out.

masterjennjenn

You know there is no cookie cutter answer. It really depends on what you want to do. First off, if he isn't admitting to the affair, in my opinion, there's a higher chance that he will indeed do it again. If he can't stand up and admit wrongness and ask forgiveness, it would seem that he either doesn't care if he was wrong or he doesn't believe it was wrong. That in my opinion makes it so much worse.

As for leaving him. I think its a proven fact that most people who cheat once will cheat again. However, not all the time. You have to decide on what you want. First off can you forgive him. If not you will end up making you life a living hell. His too, but more importantly yours. Second off can you trust him again? If not it doesn't leave much of a marriage.

There are some people that can live with a cheating spouse and be happy with it and there are some that live with it and are miserable. You have to decide what makes a marriage in your mind and then see how the situation compares. Perhaps you won't be walking away froma marraige, but instead a lesson.

Above all I say choose happiness for yourself........

lclaws13

Fighting for your marriage only works if you're both willing to fight. Doesn't sound like he's willing, so you'd just be wasting your time. Get out now before he gives you even more diseases.

Courtney W

If u really know he is cheating on you then yes because if u let him go on thinking that u will be with him forever and he mite take addvantage of you and just use u for money of whatever.

naweb230

LET HIS *** GO!!!!! He's bringing std's in the house. Find a good man!!!

LIZARD

DO URSELF A FAVOR AND LEAVE!!!

lyn

YOU HAVE TO DECIDE THIS FOR YOURSELF. MAKE A LIST OF ALL OF THE GOOD AND BAD THINGS AND SEE WHICH SIDE HAS THE MOST THINGS ON IT. THAT SHOULD GIVE YOU AN IDEA OF YOUR CHOICE. WISHING YOU THE BEST.

yea hon, get rid of him, have you been tested for aids? you might want to consider it

Do you really have to ask? Unless you like being in abusive relationships then this guy needs to be kicked to the curb yesterday!!

Emily L

Ask yourself this question, are you going to be happy or is it going to affect your well being as an individual. Have you ever heard of once a cheater always a cheater.

Can you trust him fully again? Why do you want to be with someone you will not be able to trust.

Are you going to wait until your husband brings home aids to get the point?

ElBee

get out before the pain grows. trust me, its going to be tough but itll all be worth it in the end! dont waste ur time with this insensitive, selfish, insincere, twotiming liar! besides the more u stick around, the more of a chance MR. RIGHT will pass u by! good luck and stay strong!

physandchemteach

You sound as if you have already made up your mind. Go ahead and get out while you have some sanity left. You know you will never trust him again.

Kurt C

Yes, kick him out!!!

Just Me

yes leave him.

uniqueness

I was married to my kids daddy, however he cheated also several times and I was like you trying to work it out, but after it gets to the point your health becomes involve you have to put you first. Love yourself no matter what happens, because all you have is you and marriage dont keep a man. He will cheat if he wants to cheat. I hope I was of help to you

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