Should I leave my husband?

flowerkid17

Before leaving, ask him if he will consider marriage counseling. Divorce is horrible on a child's emotions, so I am thinking of your daughter. I am sure this is a very traumatic time for you- both being pregnant and finding out something this heartbreaking. Don't give up too fast though.

Kay D

This is something that's going to take a lot of soul searching for you. You have to make a choice ,not based on you're kids ,but based on do you what to keep your marriage and does he plan on spending the rest of his life with you . Sit him down and ask him point blank what do you want to do.

Charley G

God I feel so sorry for you. What a **** especially when you are pregnant. I think you should put your foot down and tell him to sling his hook (for a while at least) if you can't do it for good. You are in a vunerable position and he knows it.
Does he think you are stupid?
What an Ar$ehole. You deserve better than that

mary m

sweetie go now.

baybeegrl5

maybe if he could come up with better lies, you could stay, but since that's not the case, LEAVE and don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya! Good Luck 2 u

D-man

First off he is lieing obviously. I am sorry and this happens too often but maybe the best thing to do is leave him. If he can't keep it in his pants and doesn't know what he wants then its obvious that he does not want a family nor to be a father. Move on if its possible and try to make things work on your own. Hopefully you have family around and close friends because they will be your support for right now.

Red

You have a lot of soul searching to do. Is this a first time thing or had he done it before. Do you have a normally stable relationship? Did he want this child, or was it an accidental pregnancy? If it was accidental is he feeling pressured because he really didn't want another child? There are so many things that can be going on in his mind that you don't know about. Ask him to go to counseling with you if you really want the relationship to work out. If he refuses then you know he is not ready for a lifelong commitment to both you and the child, then I would leave as it does more harm than good to bring up a child in a home built on distrust and lies.

afvet3471

tell him goodbye and to not let the door hit you in the *** while he is leaving.

Sarah127

i would try marriage counseling for the sake of the kids but if in your heart u truely feel like it is over then u need to make the next move and leave. good luck

Jenny C

I think the answer is pretty clear. You should leave him. No questions asked. Let him try his 'LUCK' somewhere else. What you should ask yourself is how much your staying with this man is damaging your daughters view on relationships? Do you want her to take this kind of behaviour from a man twenty years down the line? To think that this kind of behaviour is acceptable? And no matter what you may wanna tell yourself, children know what is going on...

Think. Leave.

honeybee

LEAVE HIM. It seems he's avoiding any kind of communication with you - communication regarding the condom issue to be more specific. He already has so many secrets and lies, would you be able to forgive him? Would he forgive you if you did the same thing?

Try to talk to him one more time, and if it doesn't work, leave. It's better to leave now and sort your life out, and settle down for the arrival of your new baby. Things could get worse, and it's better that you leave, rather than him telling you to go.

My heart goes out to you and I wish you all the best - hope things work out for you, and good luck with your second baby :).

dlo

girl i think u should stop having his kids and get out on your own and show his mom his diary. how embarrassing what is he mr. T with a too too. screw his *** no really screw his *** in jail and feed lis diary to bubba and then run him over with your moms car so u wont get caught then make him pay childsupport. dont forget the diary thing show it to his freinds and stuff

cassie12

Get a lawyer, change the locks and move him out before he comes back from his trip.

gypsy

You & your children do not need a person like this in your lives, get shot of him and please don't beg him or even try contacting him. Remember he has made his choice !

honey, you need to ditch that man!

misydoll

Leave. Either accept that he sleeps around or leave him. Move on and be happy again.

rachael s

Morning Mate
First of all i'm would like to say how sorry i'm that you are being treated this way.
You defently need to stick up for yourself here, send you daughter away for a weekend to grandparent of something and sort it out, whatever you do don't take this on your own. Stress is not good!
How cheeky and inconsiderate of him to do that to you.
I don't know why men think they have the right to hurt a pregnant women, as soon as your pregnant they don't care all they do is get scare of the thought of no s*x for 9 months, cowards!!!!!

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take your children and start a life. This man has problems. FIdelity sounds like one of them

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Ollie

He is obviously a serial cheat.kick him out & make a new life for you & your children.Goodluck

poison21

Ä± know this is not sth very easy but you should try to be yourself and leave him.

Rock_N_Roll_Chicky

oh i am so sorry. please divoirce him and get an aids test. you are too good for this bum

bbqcat

Find yourself a counselor and buy the book BOUNDARIES.
Then try to imagine lliving this way for another 20 years in addition to the effect it will have on your children.
Go find someone that cares about you and your kids, or else you are going to continue to be unhappy and full of doubt.
This is his choice and his problem. You have to decide if you want to live this battle or move on and get a healthy life.
Hope the best for you. Don't let him manipulate you. Take control of your own life, because your partner is not respecting the relationship you have.

to_retarded_4_u

i dont know what to tell you ive been there i was 4 months pregnant with my first born i chose to stay and were doing alright but he still talks to ***** so does that make me stupid i beleive in honesty and that he was and thats why i stayed.

Kimberly T

I feel sorry for you, what a creep!! It's time to leave, he's a lawyer, a cheat, and what does he have to offer to you??? Get a lawyer, and get rid of this***** Wish you all the luck.

Masood

It takes a lot of confidence on your part to pack and leave, but if he doesn't show any interest I don't know why you would want to stay?

gjv24

This answer is so easy that even u know the answer.......LEAVE!!! he thinks u won't 'cause u are pregnant and it would be hard 4 U...But girl.....Prove him wrong...Don't call him, don't pay any attention to him, and he will be begging u...But even if that happens....DON"T COME BACK!! I know it would be HARD as hell, But u have to have dignity and self respect...for U and Ur kids!!!! Good Luck and think about it.....There are still some good man out there...They will be willing to take U and Ur kids!!!! TRUST ME!

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