Should I leave my husband?

luv e

I think you sholud stay marriage vows did say for better or worse, pray to god and ask for peace in your marriage!

karen c

I don't know how long this has been going on, but you shouldn't have to live like this. But leaving your husband might not be the answer either. Would he try counseling? If not (most men who are bullies won't) you should try it on your own. He can change, if he realizes he may loose you. But if all fails, ask yourself the famous Ann Landers question: "Would I be better off without him or with him". If you're newly married, think about spending the next 40 years or so with this man.

Suzy Q

yes hes asking for out. he must hav found someone else and this wont' help you. hes lying ot you and its sure. i think its sad but you dont' need the bum.

notyou311

You should see a marriage counselor. If he won't go, it's over.

belladonna1386

you should leave him. sorry.

william w

putting up with that is hard but if you truly love him youll have to work it out together alone or with a counselor if he aint willing to hear you out alone tell him we either see a counselor or else we try a trial seperation and if things dont get any better then just end it there are other fish in the sea.
good luck to you and yours.

Joe C

If you feel that you must leave (a last resort), separate, but don't get a divorce unless he has been unfaithful.

Do NOT waste your time with some egghead marriage counselor, whose personal life and marriage is a failure in all likelihood.

walt631

Ask your Doctor to recommend aomeone you can talk to. You are suffering from depression

sunkissed525

I feel for you girl, he sounds like he's the type that wants you to hear what he has to say and doesn't want to listen to you...You should not have to try to make HIM happy, he should want to work with you to make you both happy. He's being selfish and hard. You two should talk to a counselor unless he will sit down and hear you out. A relationship can and at times will be hard but it shouldn't hurt or make you feel angry all the time. Leaving should be a last resort, but if he won't put forward as much as you will for your relationship maybe letting him go is what it would take to make him see. People have a tendency to take for granite the people or things we have at hand, but when they are gone we realize how much we miss them. I hope things work out for you sweetie.

sabby

As someone who has been married for 12 years, let me tell you that mental and emotional abuse are the worst kinds. And it is possible to get seriously ill from being depressed and stressed all the time. In the end you need to think about whether the good things out-weigh the bad. Trust me, life is WAY TOO SHORT to let someone make you feel worthless.

Jazzy Faye

He needs help baby run like hell!!!!!!

â™¥ Sarah â™¥

Girl, I went through the same thing for almost 3 years. He put me down and lied to me all the time. And when I did cry he would call me a tit bag. I started cutting myself to void the pain. Finally, I realized I could do better and got the courage to leave his @$$. I say go for it because you don't deserve to be treated like this. Are there kids involved?

pamlar

well a man whose that insensitive to you has some serious issues you deserve better if he wont get help or dont care its time you dont care it takes 2 people to make any relationship work you alone cant do it i hope things get better for you. good luck

"Chreece"

GET OUT NOW.

kathyw

Tell him you can't take his hostility and you two need to work out what is on his mind that is making him so hurtful.

Sondra D

He's abusive. You need to leave. You can't be OK with being treated like a dirt bag. And he mocks you; so he doesn't care and will not change. What else do you need to know.

Ava

Leave. Sounds like a real S.O.B. and you don;t need this extra stress. I went through this with my ex. Stayed 'cause I thought when I got feelin better we would be happy again . While I was in the hospital, he moved my friend into our bedroom with him.At the divorce proceedings, he even tried to say he hadn't done this.Best thing I ever did was to get him out of my life. Was heart-breaking at first for me but I got through it and I'm sure you can too ! Best of everything and remember, no man is worth going through hell for.Especially if he is the one putting you through it.

Leslie C

That's verbal abuse in the simplest form. I would have said he was overreacting to his own stress from your illness, but I don' t think that's the case. I would leave him yes, leave tonight, and run fast! Pack your bags and move in with family or friends that want to be there for you, and support you through these rough times. It'll never get any better.

JesÃºs Ernesto

I do not think u should. Love in partnership needs to be creative. Be new every time. Yourself never feel an expert, he might in time do same.

GKR

Separate from him and see how things go if he really cares and loves you and will try to work things out. Especially through your medical condition. I honestly feel that hes cheating.

*/-Puss-n-Boots-/*

do not let him treat you like a piece of meat you are a human being and have feelings walk out and tell him to kiss your a**, take it from me he will never change, mine did not and he beat the hell out of mean because I thought I could change him

Pansy P

talk to him and tell him how you feel. Then, give it some time to see if he improves his behaviour. Leaving him is a last resort.

Good Luck

ultrasexy_247

As much as you don't want to, you should leave him. You need to think of yourself and your health. To be honest this doesn't seem like a healthy relationship and in if you let it continue you will only be hurting yourself.

Starla F

yes!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mel

Life is just a game!

sunshine

you both need to learn how to communicate with each other without hurt each other's feelings. i would say talk to a therapist and if that doesn't change anything then it would be time for you both to separate. give each other some space and if that doesn't work then get a divorce and move on with your life. you can only do some much and that's it.

feysunny

I would rather live a day of happiness instead of lifelong abusive and agrumentative married life.

Nothing is more important than be happy in life. Divorce him if he has no love and respect for you.

Good Luck and I hope you feel better soon.

don n

Having just heard your side of it I can only guess that if one were to talk to him he would have a side also.

I think at this point the two of you should split up for a couple or three weeks. Could you go visit your parents or a sibling for a couple or three weeks? Could he go for a couple or three weeks?

If this isn't an option then you should probably go see a marriage counselor or a minister or someone to act as a mediator to solve your problems.

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