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claire
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You can't do it if you have any doubts. You may end up resenting him and even yourself. Give it some time, if you are married and love each other you have plenty of time. Keep thinking about it and only do it if you want to 100% in your heart. Talk it through with him, tell him your worries. If you do decide to do it, set rules and boundaries. Good luck. |
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misydoll
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No, just let him keep it as a fantasy. |
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Sheik Yerbouti
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I wouldn't go there. It's great fun if all the people involved are unattached, but now that you're married, I think you're just begging for trouble. |
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my sheds on fire
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Sounds like you would be playing with fire. Probably not a good idea, |
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CMA
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Nope....let it continue to be a "fantasy" don't do it. Its not going to be worth it....then he will want that all the time and not you. Its a huge mistake by the time its done. Just tell him if he wants it THAT bad then "there's the door".... |
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Social_D
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You never invite another woman into your bedroom with you and your husband. It gives him the signal that other girls are okay for him. Ask him how he'd feel if you wanted another man in the bedroom with the two of you. He most likely would not be okay with it. Unless you think it's okay for him to cheat on you, don't do it! |
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Gigglez
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i would NEVER EVER allow another person into my bedroom, house or anywhere....its not that i dont trust my husband, i just wouldnt trust the other person........dont do it......you'll regret it later when they run off together..... |
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Douglas D
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Here's the simple truth. NO! |
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Rica 82
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If it won't bother you then go for it. However, just remember, that your relationship with your hubby will change. If he pushes you off to the side and leaves you watching, how will you feel? Will it still be his fantasy? If your hubby is constantly pushing a threesome, you should tell him how about another guy instead of a girl, just to see how he feels about having a threesome. Most likely, he'll get mad and not push the topic anymore. Unless he really don't care. |
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Violet Pearl
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Only if you can be sure you're not introducing herpes or warts or some other STD or emotional pain into your marriage. I mean, what kind of woman agrees to do a married couple? A skanky one, right?
What will you do when your husband wants it again. And again? And he reminds you that you screwed him with another woman last month? Then what? Are you going to be to forgive him when you remember seeing his weeny someplace other than you? What if he likes it so much, he gets 2 other women if you won't do it? And brings home herpes. And on and on.
PS
where do you go "get" another girl anyway?? On the internet? Ask your friends? |
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SouthernGal
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I wouldnt |
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KNOWALL
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He will love it at the time but he will hate you afterwards and blame you.It could be the ruin of your relationship. |
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westfield47130
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What is intended to make a relationship more spicey...often has the opposite affect. It can open the virtul Pandora's Box.
In 9 of 10 such acted on fantasies, marriages end in divorce.
I can assure you, how you think you will react rarely is how you react. Picture watching a woman in your bed... being done by your husband..... almost oblivious to the fact that you are even there... You could react any number of ways. Even if you survive that..... what happens when you find out... he made arrangements to meet on the side with the girl, without you knowing... how will you react then.
I can assure you that no matter how well it works out or how bad it works out... your marriage, as you knew it, is over. It is no longer the loving, dedicated and committed love that you once had.
THINK about this.... RU willing to risk everything you have for a fantasy? |
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aleym
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if you do thats fine i guess but really think of all the things that could go wrong him leaving you for her, him wanting to do it all the time, just think hard and make sure thats something you want to do cause it could hurt your marriage |
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roy
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you let it happen once, he will want it again... |
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Why not me
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let it continue to be a "fantasy" don't do it. |
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theirs a fool born every day what do you think fantasy is for tell Him to tuck it back in his brain |
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floridaman39us
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Don't do it Martha. He will want it again and again....Without you..... |
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lu4one
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first you are both consenting adults??
if you do decide to do it make sure to have ground rules before even thinking of doing it what's permitted and not if you do decide to do it.
best thing is to do it with someone you don't really know if you want it to be a one time thing!! |
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mindtelepathy
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Do it!! When a fantasy becomes a reality, it stops being a fantasy. |
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Just Surfin
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Is he serious about wanting to make the fantasy a reality, or is it one of those "yeah I've thought about it but the reality probably wouldn't measure up"?
If you're uncomfortable with the idea, or if you have *any* jealousy or self-esteem issues, my recommendation would be no, don't do it.
You need to look beyond the threesome and into the aftermath. How will you feel? How will he feel? Will you wonder if he's wishing he were with someone else instead of you? Will you be upset if he pays more attention to "her" than to you? Where are you going to find another person for a threesome that you'd be comfortable with in bed, and how do you know she's disease-free? Can *she* be just a "bed buddy" and not want any sort of strings or emotional ties to your hubby?
I'm thinking "If you have to ask, the answer is 'no'"... |
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Jazzy
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it will become a habit,trust me ......you have to be open&willing to go for it all the time.......so good luck. |
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Candilaria
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You should only do something like that if you really want to do it. If it makes you uncomfortable in any way, you should not consider it. However, if you do decide that this is something you wish to do, lay down the ground rules: if you only want it to happen once, make that a ground rule along with anything else that you want or don't want to happen. Prepare for any surprises you anticipate arising. |
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kristy
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i can see if you were not married then i would say yes but if you are married then you can just be asking for trouble in your marriage good luck with what ever you decide |
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sexy_love_vi
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it will become a habit, tell him think of something else ( sensible) |
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Ole Whoopsie Daisy
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you're a good egg. marry me. |
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tysgrandma99
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that is how alot of wife's wind up leaving there husbands and going total gay,,so really he has more to lose then you.... |
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Vampira
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Sure, if you want to screw up your marriage. Your hubby's a pig. Don't do it. |
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