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Mignon F
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I wouldn't play hard to get because it doesn't really solve anything. I'd get some extra foreplay with it!!! |
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Jazzy
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be straight what made him do not intimate.
both are making same foolish things is not good.,
u should be first to know why he was not intimate.
enjoy the time and make out of a good marriage |
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cfoster001
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I think you two need to stop playing games with one another. If you two want to stay married, then you two need to meet each others "need". You give him what he needs and he gives you the same. Stop playing games!
Consider reading "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage." |
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Barb Outhere
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Why do so many people think Tit for Tat actually works? It seems to me that neither of you are going to get what you want, with that attitude.
You are supposed to be a co-operative couple, working TOGETHER to ensure that you BOTH get what you want. Where's the give and take? Where's the gift of love? Where's the desire to make the other happy? I can't see it lasting long with that attitude. |
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clr9798
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whatever? |
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sAm cbt
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Yes. This is Your opportunity to take control. You could start by using "tease & denial" get him hot and then You say not now. Using the gates of hell or similar restriction device will train him and teach him discipline.
You could set tasks for him to do that, if done properly would him points toward intimacy; BUT, failure to do the tasks correctly or fast enough, or not at all will result in discipline. Of course You and You alone are the Judge of whether he gets points, or disciplined.
You have the power to control him, please take it now and educate him that You are his controller!!! |
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dragonfly
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you should not play games ever not with that |
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Proud Mommy of 3
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Ummm, I guess you could tease him a lil', but give in and give it to him! Also, see why he doesn't give it to you when you want it! He has to be fair, LOL. |
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vincepac601
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why do what he does, wouldn't it be better if you set the example of how to be loving and nurturing. treat him the way you want to be treated |
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Kitty
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Are you keeping score or something? If you want it, take it - if you don't, tell him so. A marriage is not a poker game.
P.S. No pun intended!! |
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Willy
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just do wat your heart tells you to do and if he loves you so much he will wait for you to be ready to make love in bed. |
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Lizzy
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No, you might be playing with fire and could end up losing your man. Careful.. |
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Delilah
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Hell yea, make him work so hard until he gets on his knees. Don't give it to him so easily. |
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Joe S S
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Sounds to me like a pair of high heeled black boots and a whip are in order here!!!!
Straighten him out!!!! |
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aggie babe
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hard is good......I would stay away from the "work" part though and think about "play" |
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Red Scorpion
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Dear Hinmai...
After a long time I m able to come to Net and your innocent answer was the first priority set by my heart. You know the meaning of good and bad? if not then I 'll tell you...
Bad > means a person denies to what others need from him while s/he has got the capability to give it
Good> means when you are asked for something by whom you 've been refused earlier, you open heartedly give it to him/her. s/he 'll then not only be ashamed of his/her attitude but also be greatful for you in his/her heart.
I 'd like to advice you to try making things easier for you and your husband because its not the matter of your own lives but also of your children! Try being Happy and keep others happy too!
Hope you will get into enchanting smiles... keep there Hinmai!!! |
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landrewlion11
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Try teasing him. Make him want you even more. lol |
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poodle mom
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oh thats a way!! play games. and what was your age again? |
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SuJu
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Give it to him. Don't ruin your marriage for something stupid. Giving what your husbands wants might change your husband as well.
I would have done the same thing. My age is not much (17) but I think that you can have everything by giving something. That giving brings more love and it will strengthen your marriage. |
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Txgirl23
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No cuz you'd be lowering yourself to his level. But do make him realize he needs to respect your needs and wants too! |
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Buddy Love
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give it up |
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*♥Beauty is pain♥*
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Be glad you get it when you can... |
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Rudy
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Just let him have it... He works so hard all day making your life hell... GIVE HIM SOME CREDIT... There are many other women out there complaining because their men dont work... Yours at least is an a$$hole and that takes alot of work...
PEACE OUT BABY!! |
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