Should I marry an old guy for money and friendship?
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Should I marry an old guy for money and friendship?
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There is a guy I've had a really great friendship with for years and I can see that despite out age difference we want pretty much the same things. He is youthful and adventurous and wants most of the same things I do. Only difference is, he can actually afford all the things I want. I am close friends with him and feel at home in his home.
However, he is in love with me and he is 62 while I am 26. He told me how he felt and I said it was never gonna happen, and he said to let him know if I ever reconsider.
Is a companionable, loving, respectful, and wealthy marriage acceptable, or do you really need the passion? Also, what are your thoughts on the prospect of being a middle aged widdow?
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cutie!
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omgg gold digger |
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Just me
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Who knows who will die first? Enjoy your life while you are alive. |
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SuperUberBob
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I wish I was the guy you are talking about. |
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ღ3amღ
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Only if you have completely given up on finding true love. If you marry the old guy and then meet someone wonderful, don't go making a mess of things by hurting them both. |
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blossom21
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Do you want kids? It's better to have the passion. |
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PELON
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NEVER FOR MONEY..... |
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Delancey
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if you really love him then yes, you should =]
however, if ur one of those gold diggers who only marries old guys for cash, then SHAME ON YOU!
oh btw people are gonna laugh at u when they see you down the street holding hands & kissing an old guy ~ LOL . |
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Jessta
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if its wat u want then go for it |
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maggie s
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if he can set you up for life maybe consider it |
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tonepoet
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Yeah, good idea. Sugar daddies are a great payoff, like Paul McCartney and his ex-whatever. Just think, he is going to expect for you to take his wrinkled manhood for taking his cash (no one gets something for nothing). Good luck with your business venture. |
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answering
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She take my money, well I'm in need
Yeah she's a triflin' friend indeed
Oh she's a gold digger way over time
That digs on me |
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pepperminttea
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Bad idea, you should marry someone because your in love w/ them too, you can still be good friends with him without being married, your still so young and have so much of your life left, and you should wait to find someone who you love just as much as they love you |
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THE BLONDE WITCH PROJECT
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Go for it.......sounds like he makes you happy....and I'm sure you make him happy, too. How could anything be wrong with two people making each other happy? |
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A.R. Lacey
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Hell yeah, i would trade you spots for anything in the world. You can have my young stupid husband and ill take the nice old man. Absolutely....do it girl. I would in a heartbeat. The passion is nice...but it doesnt even last long in a marriage the same age range. If you take good care of yourself being a widow in your fortys would not be bad at all...you still have alot of life to live after that. |
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the_NUG
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go for it!!!!!! i mean in this economy..shoot i would get with and old geezer myself (woman of course) if the situation popped up! hehe
jus trippin ..nah dont do it..i dont think it would be right! but hey everybody is accountable for there actions! deuce.. |
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WUWEI!!!
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It's your body and your life
Make the best out of it
Do what you feel right
If fortune is what you're after
after all life is short |
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Bec H
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that's STUPID. |
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estetidi
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Were you drunk??? If so, then go for the money... I found that older men are quite active aand frisky... Or keep it a friend and don't go for the money? Do you like him? Is he married? |
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Chaosman
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If you really mean the friendship part then I believe that he will really be happy. If you are fake he will see through it and hurt inside the whole time. Don't do it unless you are sincere. |
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rene1695
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Money can't buy you happiness. But you seem to like this guy.
Age is just a number. If you care about him then I think its great.
It is really about how you feel. |
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sexxie
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omg GOLD DIGGER |
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Myndi R
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you are just cruel and cold hearted !!! |
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>(gentleman)<
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passion for sure, all the way because that way ud b a gold digger if u only marry him for his money and plus what kind of 26 year old r you waisting your life just to have your wants wtf is up with that sorry for being mean but its only the truth yr only using him and that's not good at all i mean come on im Pretty sure the truth is the way to go don't you thin so BUT whatever go to where your heart leads you not were yr wants lead you, and that girl that goes w8 till he dies and make sure yr in the will wtf could you even live with yourself telling a 26 year old to marry a 62 year old that's pathetic sorry aboutt the lack of grammar i just rely cant botherd to keep on pressing . pisses me of back to the subjectect r u willing to spend IKD how many years with a 62 year old man and god knows when he will die some people die 110 or 120 what eva r u willing to waste 38 years of your life married to some one you don't even love. so any way conclusion my answer is NO!! NO!! NO!! NO!! |
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Destiny
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Do you love him? If you don't love him.. don't marry him. If you are just marrying him strictly for money... that's very, VERY pathetic. |
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Vincent C
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if you marry for material objects such as money and cars and whatever sooner or later it will eat you up. it will leave you depressed and unhappy. there has to be love there for a chance to survive. you see and hear how high the divorce rate is .the age gap is very distant and in a short time you both will be looking for different things. best case here sleep with him if you are that attracted to him but with no promises of marriage or a more personal relationship. |
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NICKY
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since you didn't say marry him for money, friendship, and LOVE then i say NOOOO! not judging you at all but trust me without the love, and i mean real love it will not last long and it will hurt both of you |
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JodyWoo
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Companionship is a great thing.
But you need to have love.
(in my opinion)
Passion or not, it needs love. |
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kissinada
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Marriage is very hard. And sometimes people who love each other don't work out, imagine how much harder it will be if you don't love him. Much worse if your not attracted to him. |
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