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pdevans1963@rogers.com
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Opposites attract. nothing wrong with that if its all there is to it
but if it's because you don't like black men for some particular trait you see in them, or as an act of rebellion against a parent then stop the train.
all guys share the same flaws and virtues in varying proportion. getting away from black guys because you dont want this attribute or that is just not going to work .
We white guys are just as capable of being all the bad stuff as black guys are capable of being all the good stuff. If that's all its about then make a decision to stay on your own for a while and decide what YOU want from a guy and while you are thinking about it he will probably walk right up to you
Please consider your reasons carefully but by all means go with your heart when it comes to love. they say life is too short. but if you hook up with a guy for the wrong reasons it can seem really long and you just want it to end. |
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momof3
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Follow your heart... |
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AsianPersuasion :)
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Love knows no colours or races. Marry who you love. Seriously, in today's society, mixed couples aren't uncommon at all. |
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Cinoi1551
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You should marry who you love and who loves you. Race should not matter. |
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The_Smak_Daddy_SMACK!!
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Who gives a crap what anybody else thinks. Its your life and if you love each other...why not? |
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Redhead
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If you love the man and he treats you right - then yes - there are good and bad in every race - if you find happiness out of your race - then good luck to you - life is to short - and it is not a rehearsal. |
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Michelle H
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That's solely up to you, but race should not be the deciding factor in who you marry. As long as you love them and they love you. Hopefully, you will find someone who will be your best friend and lover, and who will value you for the person you are. |
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shelly v
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why do you care about what others think? follow your heart.. not someone else player hating. |
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i know it all!
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It's all up to you. I married inside my race, but that was just my choice. You have to make that decision........ |
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c p
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I married outside of my race and have to agree with other poster that stated that race should not be the factor on which this type of decision is made. Actually I married not only outside my race but also outside my faith. Have been married for over 19 years. Do have to fore warn you that some people might be rude or give you wierd looks but if you love the person it does not matter. Not that it matters I am White and my wife is Asian. Just thought would add that to let people know that the looks and comments are made no matter what mixed race couple you are. |
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mickey g
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it shouldnt make a difference WHAT race the person is. |
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why would you ask such a question only you can answer that, your going to do what you won't to do anyway. If you wont too marry a Black, White , Gren , Pink , Yelloww , Purplle then so be it ..I wish you well.............. |
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Erin
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If you like the guy race shouldn't matter, i would say go for it. Good luck. |
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makeyourselfsick
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love is something that is not skin deep. You love him right? Then what does it matter if he is a different race? You can't help who you fall in love with. WHy marry someone whom you don't love just because he is your race? It is like marrying someone only because they have the same hair color as you, or in fact not marrying someone because they don't. Listen to your heart, forget what other people tell you, and the color of people's skin. |
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Shayla
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Marry for love, not color. It shouldn't matter what ethnicity the man is as long as it real. |
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waytoohumble
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It doesn't come without a price. If you choose wisely, you can be happily married for the rest of your life, regardless of race. Just remember that there will always be friction from people who disagree with your choices.
Short version: If you are strong (thick-skinned) and he's the 'right man' for your life, go for it. |
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littleman
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I'm a white guy married to a hispanic woman and the only thing I would offer you is remember that you guys aren't just marrying each other, you're marrying INTO each other's families. You're fmailies have to be accepting in order for there to be harmony... |
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msrandom
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how would you know that you are going to marry out your race ????? but if that is what you want to do then go ahead your family also needs to support you |
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diamondbullet66
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I have dated and married outside of my race as well as inside. ( White, Asian, Black, Puerto Rican. ) I don't understand why some one is so exclusive about another ones race being a issue unless it is to stay with your own. You are selling yourself short. I am attracted to women I find attractive, period. |
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smt
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Yes. You would have beautiful children. |
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alioopisme
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Race is skin color. Would you marry someone of your own race if they were extremely darker or lighter than you? Looks fade and change. Look for traits that are inside for good mate choices. |
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nychic
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If he is going to make you happy, then who cares what race he is? Do not let people talk you out of it. I myself am biracial and I am not treated any differently than anyone else. I always date outside my race, unless I would be able to find a irish-jamacian guy(lol) Trust me , do not worry. YOur family will love you no matter what. Even if they do not feel positive about tihs now. THey will get over it. Trust me. Different is always the way to go. |
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sheru
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lifes too short..yes marry who you love and dont listen to anyone but you...you know whats best for you...be happy...and live well |
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TheTruthHurts
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If you're happy with the person, race shouldn't be a factor. |
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justme
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I dont see why not. if you find someone that you are compatible with and loves you dearly and you return that love. Go for it. |
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tigger
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Why is this ? You should be marrying for love and friendship... Only then. If that person happens to be a different race, great, if not you are still in love with your friend and partner in lifes adventures... |
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Klingon
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If he's the one for you, MORE POWER to you.GO FOR IT! |
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1TON
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Talk this out with the person you are marrying first, then family, then friends. Talk about family, kids, lifes issues. They are the ones that are most important in your life. There opinions matter most to you. You should marry whom every loves you and makes you happiest. Good Bless and Good Luck. |
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Flavia L
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I married someone outside my race, and we have many many many issues becasue of that. But because we love each other, there has to be a compromise. It's very hard though!!!! |
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morena
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race is just a color if hes going to make you happy do it |
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Gun Dream
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Just as long as the racial differences are not very strong (traditions, religion, customs, etc) yeah, why not? As a biracial child, I grew up with the best of 2 races. Yaaaaaayyyy!!! |
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