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kitkool
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Hun, I couldn't have said it better myself... follow your heart... and be happy in whatever you decide.. do not let us be the voice of reason for you. God bless you in how ever long god decides to keep you on this earth and be happy for as long as you can be.
NOTE: For those of you that said wait did you not read the part about her illness..... you should be wishing this woman as much happiness as she can have. Yes god may change the tide at any moment but tomorrow is not guaranteed to any of us. |
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dj s
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If you luv him enough and at an age to marry u surely should.u should spend the rest of ur life with the one u luv.thats really all that counts for u |
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Luv_2_Cheer
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go marry him before u go so u could be happy!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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DrB
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It would be easier to give you some serious advice if you told us your age, his age, and your physical condition. What are the treatment options for your illness. I'm sure that you know that you cannot live on love alone. Also, depending on your condition are there plans for children—how old will they likely be if you leave them. |
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naddel
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Go ahead and marry him if you guys really love each other. Do you feel like you collected enough experience with different people, because if not you may regret it after you married. I say, hey go ahead, if it doesn't fit there is always the possibility of a divorce. Nowadays marriage doesn't force you to be together forever. |
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Whatever makes you both happy...it should be your decision. You'll never know untill you try. Live life to the fullest Mrs. Hawkk |
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nym_psuedo
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i don't see why not. if he has asked you then he wants to so go for it. if he has not asked you, but you think he will say yes then buy him a ring and propose to him. if you think he will say no, then enjoy your relationship as it is, marriage isn't going to change how much you love each other. so enjoy your life!
good luck to you! |
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coyotecoup
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Why is marriage so important to you? It shouldn't be unless you are planning to have children. Without children it is just a meaningless ceremony, an empty cup. Be happy with your relationship and experience it to the full, forget the nonsense. |
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superboredom
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how young are you? if you're under 20 don't think of marrying someone so soon. because you never know if you actually do meet the right person, because most of the teen relationships are puppy love. You're only ready to marry if you're financially and emotionally ready. Also it's not just the love in marriage, marriage is a lot of things combine together, communication, trust, honesty, and have to be faithful, also marriage should only be happening once in the life time, so take these things into consideration and see if you're ready to get married. People think you can just get a divorce if things don't work out, well that means they lied to god when they vowed, people who get divorced they never taken the vows into consideration. Most couples tend to think you can just get a divorce when there are problems, that's why today's society the divorce rate is so high. so please think carefully when you're thinking of getting married. Divorce isn't the answer to everything. only the extreme problems, like.. your spouse cheating on you, or abusing you physically...etc something extreme. So think carefully and good luck. |
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slip_knot_au666
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well im no master on the situation but if you do truly love him wait untill your 18 and if he truly lovex you he will pop the question! |
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J
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if u love him don't wait |
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Angel
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i dont think so..wait in life becasue so much could happedn....life isnt tht easyy i hope u dont mind but i think u shud wait.....tc bye |
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O G
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Go for it if you really love him and wanna be with him for the rest of your life |
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RuneDragon
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If you both feel that the the time is right then why not? As you say your time on this earth is short and if he knows this and still wants to marry you, then that shows he truly loves you. |
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starn06
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I think you should alway marry the one you Love most in life....
So yes you should marry him....Also hope you get better and
I will pray for you.........
from sarah |
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sweet heart
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If you're in love with him and he's in love with you, yes. I'll keep you in my prayers. |
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Mr Cellophane
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I wouldn't hold a gun to his head but if he wants to marry, then go for it. If he has a job, then chances are he has medical insurance, which is something you need. You did not tell me if you were living with your parents, but you need to take the path to emotional and financial security. |
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John W
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That's a hard one. If he would have a chance to meet someone after you're gone then yes. It's kind of hard to find some one when you're older. Think about how it would affect his life after you're no longer with him. |
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adkfoaiefnafedw
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First off let me say I am sorry about your condition. Even though your time is limited you need to make sure this is someone you want to spend the rest of your days with. Whatever is in God's will let it be. He will let you know when the time is right. He will let you know in your heart. |
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cats4ever2k1
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no- regardless of what many doctors say, life is not set in stone, things change, people change, cures can be found, and alas some people overcome illnesses. Dont rush what you have. Doesnt mean you cant enjoy what you have now, or that you cant still love him. But wait for the right time, and he will to if he truely loves you. True love waits. I waited nearly 4 years for mine to come around, and because I waited I knew he was the one for me. Remember that when someone is in love they see things through rose colored glasses. Meaning- things may appear differently then they truely are. But once you take those glasses off and your sure hes the one, then I wish you both much happiness in your future. And I to hope that you live a nice long life as well. |
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Ginny A
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Please don't! I married at 16 and spent 14 years regretting it. You don't want to spend what life you have in a bad situation. Go to school, date, have some fun! Good luck |
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Mama C.
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First of all, I'm sorry about your illness but it depends on how old you are. If your 10 I'd say not a good idea. If your 16 it maybe OK if both of your families agree it's a good idea. Best of luck! |
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gaypride
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uh... |
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Dennis Fargo
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Marry and be happy.
I am only saying this becuase of your illness otherwise being young I would recommend dating more before marriage.
Isn't love grand! |
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anonymous 27
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well life is short and in your case its even more true.....i personally think people should live their life to the fullest while their young and go partying and clubing and pubbing all they want when there young before they ever think about being tied down.......but if your happy the way your living your life and your having fun and you really trully love him then you should go for it.....i dont know how old you are.....lets say your 18 to 20 years old and you got 10 years left and your having fun then go for it......if your that age and you got more than 10 years then think about it more carefully and just go for it.......a lot of people plan their lives but they should do more living in the moment.......so go wild and have a great life |
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goldwing
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I am not sure why you want to get married? What purpose will this serve? Why not just live together...I suspect your life will be more rewarding and the relationship surer. I am not being callous. Try it out to see how it works for a year or two..if good, then go ahead. IF your life is short, you do not want to waste one minute of it in a marriage that goes bad...what a terrible thing to have happen to you. I wish you be very best of luck, but really, marriage is NOT what you may think it is ... people tend to take eachother for granted once that ring is on the finger...IF my life were to be short, I would want the person I love to be on their toes day and night to keep me from walking out. Dear, peace and love. |
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deejayzgurl13093
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Yes definitely. There is no harm in it and if it will make you happy then that is what counts. Of course you need to make sure this person is ok with the fact of your illness. Which I am sure you have already done... and if they can deal with it, then I see no reason to put it off. Best of luck. |
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*Fashiontiste*
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Thats sad! I'm sorry to hear that! Maybe you should do what you think is right do you think you and him can handle a marriage. If you both love each other a lot and you think you can handle it then maybe you should. But don't do something your not positive you wanna do! I hope this helps a little!! |
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Mini
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yes i married my love around your age but now it`s ending sadly. so just enjoy and your bealutiful make love happen. |
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evie_cooper
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If you have to question marriage then that's almost a definite no you're not ready. |
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KO
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First of all how young? If your not legal then no marriage. But if you are of age then what's stopping you? |
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