Should I or shouldn't I?
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Should I or shouldn't I?
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There is a girl that I know and have been thinking about asking out. The only thing holding me back is she come from money and I come from pennies and dimes. I'm afraid if I start dating her, she may expect a lot like dinner at nice restaurants, trips, etc. like she is use to. She takes a number of trips a year. I can't afford this since I'm a full time student and don't graduate till next year. Do girls who come from money expect this?
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shy2008
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It depends on the girl. Some are spoiled and expect everything handed to them. If she turns out to be one of those, then don't worry past the first date. On the other hand, if she a young woman of morals and substance, who enjoys people for who they are, then you could have a wonderful thing going. Once you get to know each other, she'll find out more about you and your financial situation and could not have a problem with it at all. It wouldn't bother me. Ask her out and don't think about your places in life...just enjoy! |
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AbbyLayne22
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Don't worry about money, if she say's she want's to go out, take her to mickey D's. And if she want's a trip take her to ur back yard. But where ever she want's to go, take her to it, but like the EX. I gave. Tell her about ur $ situation. Hopefully thing's will work out! |
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Barry D
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Some do, some dont. Take a chance and ask her out, thats the only way your going to find out. |
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Valen
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Well, money is VERY important to most women. They judge a man's worth by the money he makes. So right there you're screwed. But even if she would be different (that exists?), it would lead to awkward situations since you won't be able to follow her everywhere she wants to go to. Many activities will be banned in your relationship for as long as you won't be making any money.
In short, it isn't a good thing in this world led by money. Sad but true. |
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tango bailado
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It depends on the girl, and it depends on you.
Try and see. It is the only way to discover what she is like and how she feels about you. Not everything is about money.
Good luck. |
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remember4131
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No, not all of them. I feel for you. I dont come from money either but have always felt embarrassed when I dated guys who did.
There is alot of other things you can do to show her how you feel that money cant buy.
You go after her with everything you got and if she doesnt fall head over heals for you, you dont want her anyway. Plus you have nothing to be ashamed of, you are about to finish school-you are making something of yourself.
Hold your head up high and be proud-you may not have came from money but everything you get you will have worked for and that is much more respectable and rewarding then being born into it! |
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Mr.Mysterious
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not them all,but you should get to know her & let her get 2 know u too.Become friends with her first have a couple of dates 2 feel her out,then u should find out what kind of person she really is, so go 4 it. |
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amare
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You shouldn't let this stop you form asking her out. When you two start going out talk to her about your financial situation. There are lots of ways to romance a woman that are not expensive. Your actions and the things you do for her can be special and mean the world. For example a guy I know always checks on me to see how my day was and gives me suggestions of things I should do when I am sick. These things obviously do not cost a lot or anything but it means the world to me! If you do things like that, that show you care, you will make her happy! I think you'll be just fine. |
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KJ
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see here's the thing.
you're already conscious about money.
you two are doomed before you even ask her out.
cuz with you being conscious about her money, it'll never ever work out. |
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