Should I say something to this woman my husband works with?

6@5^&%

yes you shold and also say something to you husband about it. that crazy and wrong

Violation Valerie X

"f*uckable"????

I'd of blown up her freaking car by now.

Mrs. Neil

.... how did she get your husbands personal cell phone in the first place ....?

thats what you really need to find out

Stockton Homeschooler

If it were me I would reply her text from my phone and let her know that I too have received it.. Talk about feeling uncomfortable. put in my own words.. next time your boss will receive it aswell..

Regardless of whether you trust your husband or not, he's the one that needs to put a stop to this. IF he hasn't already he needs to tell her that he is married and he doesn't appreciate her forwardness. If that doesnt' work he needs to tell HR that he is being harrassed.

Ray D

Sure and your husband needs to tell her the same thing.

annita g

I would tell my husband to tell her to stop texting him. Why does she have his number in the first place? Why did he give it ti her?

RAINBOW

Who give her your husbands mobile number?why didn't he tell her this type of communication was inappropriate!!!!!!!!! doesn't matter what her level is no smoke without fire!yes I would tell [ him ] and her!

Keeper

I would tell your husband your intentions and give him a chance to have some input on stopping it. But, absolutely something needs to be done.

Mean Carleen

While its really your hubby who should be putting this woman in her place. I would make sure she knew for a fact that I was aware of her texts...if the hubby doesnt set her straight...he is not being faithful and then I would handle business myself.

Melinda P

Umm, your husband is 100% faithful and you know this how exactly? Before you jump the gun and look like a fool, you better discuss this with your husband (and/or look at your cell phone bill to make sure he's not also texting her). I say this because not many women do this just 'out of the blue'....she's likely gotten some kind of 'green light' from him that it's okay to send those kinds of texts.

Martini5

don't do it, just tell u hubby that, see what he gonna say.
he should tell her that not u, don't go that low....

loulu

I think you should casually mention it to your husband. If you happened to mention it to her and then found out something was going on, it would make you look like the one in the dark. You want it to stop, but if he wants it to stop then make him stop it.

BeautifulReality

How do you KNOW he's been faithful? You should confront HIM first. Why does she have his number in the first place?

Did he text her back? What did it say?

Before you try and check another woman; check your husband first. He should be the one telling her to stop calling/texting - not you.

You sit back and watch your husbands actions before you just assume he's being faithful.

He very well may not be.

marisanj

OBVIOUSLY your husband has given her the room for her to send such messages, so you should talk to your husband first and second, if he is so "faithful" why are you checking his messages??

Nena S

Although psychotic people do exist, chances are your husband has somehow encouraged this woman...

I think you are entitled to being outraged at this, and you need to talk things over with your husband.

IF he has done nothing wrong (like complimenting her or flirting with her) then you should bring things out in the open and tell her in no unclear terms that you are aware of her messages and that you don't want her to continue sending them. (Depending on what she says or how she acts, I'd decide whether to be ladylike or not.)

If she doesn't stop, then call HR and see if they can do something about it.

sincerely

I sure hope your husband didn't text her back! How would he answer that text? If you personally know that girl, I guess it's ok for you to tell her to stop texting your husband especially if it's inapropriate. Tell her that you feel disrespected and I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate it either if her man (if she has one) gets texted like what she just sent. Let her know that what she's doing is tempting a married man and she shouldn't be doing it. There's Karma and if she wants validation, tell her to ask somebody else. I hope you'll be able to talk to her in a very lady like way!

Queen of my Lion

yes, you should,but u should say somthing to your hubby too
he has to know....

april p

i wood ask him if he was see her on the side becse it wong to be doing that

mel_31

i would kick her a**... in a very lady like way of course

pebblesphd

i would ask my husband to talk to her about it and if it didn't stop then we would both say something to her together and if that didn't work i would then say something to her myself after all this if somethings didn't change i would handle it in everyway possible

mezwood

Oh yea...haha..this girl would be getting an earfull from me...stop a future homewrecker now before she does get some poor sap to cheat on his wife...teach her a lesson.

Gabrielle

I would show up as they were getting off work and confront them both about what was going on.... simple as that!

theresa

you should have already talked to both of them not ask us.....get on the phone now and get to talking tell her she is not wanted in your marriage. ask her if something is going on. never ever trust a man. talk to her fast. before something does happen.
stop being so trusting that is the reason most wife's get cheated on....wake up.

nonameblonde

I'd call her @ss up at work and tell her, "between you and me, you need to leave my husband alone, got it? good."

bocasbeachbum

Tell her in a very lady like manner, and then whap her up the side of the head.

Boo Boo Kitty

I think your husband should say something to her. They work in the same place and have to deal with each other. If he is encouraging her behavior then he needs to stop unless this is what he wants. At that point there are bigger problems.

carriegreen13

You mean your husband comes home and shows you his texes, or do you look at them when he is not around???

If she is texing him and he is showing you, great, he is being open, but he should tell her that it is upsetting you, and she should stop and he should tell her that he is not interested in her and married to you.

If he is not telling you about this, then confront your husband and tell him that you are going to his work place and confront her about it, if he does not want you to, and says he will take care of it, he will never do it, even when he comes home, and tells you he did when he did not.

Show him and her you have a backbone and go to his workplace and confront her!!!!!

He is YOUR man, show everyone that you are not going to take this slu**y woman's crap towards your husband, and show everyone that you have a backbone and you will not let ANYONE come near, text, or even flirt with your man.

If he gets mad, at you for doing this, then obviously he likes the attention from her, and tell him he can have her and you can have the house, the car, the money in the bank, and you will get an attorney or a lawyer to get you everything else you are entitled too!!!!!

Go for it girl!!!!!!!

Who knows, maby he already answered her questions already from his text, did he call you or see you at lunch today????

Or was he "too busy"??????

American Beauty

Is there any reason why your husband can't talk for himself, mommy? You can speak to this woman if you want to, but she's not going to stop until your husband tells her to. And just so you know: he's not being 100% faithful, with women texting messages like this. Wake up, girlfriend.

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