Should I seek revenge after a breakup of an affair, I lost everything he still has everything,house $$$ ,etc..?
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Should I seek revenge after a breakup of an affair, I lost everything he still has everything,house $$$ ,etc..?
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it does not seem fair, and I am torn as what to do.I Lost my husband my home and he has it all, a beautiful home a new truck and motorcycle, and I have lost it all. I know I am at fault also. and beat myself up everyday because of it.Should I move on and forget it it or get revenge and tell his wife
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jude
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getting revenge will only keep u tied to the pain longer than u need to be. its unfortunate this happened to u, and my heart goes out to u, but u let it happen. he will get his one day, but it shouldn't come from u because the more u do the more pain u will have. let heaven handle him. u may need some therapy, a good friend, and god. |
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Buzzoff
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Move on. There's no point in getting revenge. Just move on and find yourself someone who wants to be with you. |
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chocolatelovely2002
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I don't understand what your talking about it seems like you were messing with a married man if that's the case why are you upset? |
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Sarafina
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"Hate is always tragic. It is as injurious to the hater as it is to the hated. It distorts the personality and scars the soul."
-Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. |
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thatartistwin
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If you want to get revenge, start with yourself as you are the one who put yourself in that position. Seems the one who got the best deal out of this is your ex husband. |
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mikanajay
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The best revenge is to prove you dont need him in your life. Move on, get a new bf whose not married. Someone who makes you happy and can spend time with you. Be happy and he'll be jealous. If you are bitter and down he'll think he has won and that he has power over you.
Whats the point of telling the wife? She probaly suspects but doesnt want to know for sure, and isnt it better if she catches him out rather than you tell her? How did you have the house/everything to lose if he was married to another woman? |
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billscott92787
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If you were the one that had the affair move on. You have no one to blame but yourself. If he had the affair, file for a divorce and try to get half of everything. |
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