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KingAndrew
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I guess I have to go against the populist here, just because. I view this as just using you, he gets mad and leaves, then as soon as he gets sick he crawls back home thinking it is your job to take care of him. I see this behavior as childish and that is not what you signed up for. Remind him where all the medicines are kept, then take the kids on a long weekend trip. When he asks why, tell him that you do not want to expose your children and yourself to the flu. The flu huh! sounds like he was just missing your loving and wants you to take care of him. |
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Michael T
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Spoil him. He probably left so he wouldn't give his flu to her. It can be dangerous for older people to catch the flu. You are young and strong and probably will be OK if you catch it. |
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GUY bein' a GUY
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Who would leave you alone?
Does this man not undersatnd the risk he is taking with his marriage?
IGNORE HIM !
How could he leave you like that?
His mom gets the holy water and you get the FLU?
How dare he? |
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"Arkie Mom"
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You should spoil that man, do it just because he is your husband. So he isn't perfect, something made you marry him. Besides it might might stimulate his immune system for him to get better sooner and out of your hair if he is truly that awful! |
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Eddie Cacciatore, Private Eye
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Face it, you're his mommy now! |
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JoRo
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What do you mean "left?" Like, he disappeared for a few days, or he was leaving you? Either way, you guys have a lot to talk about. I would probably nurse him back to health, if I wasn't too angry, and then lay down the law. Let him know if he ever disappears again, or leaves, that he isn't coming back. Also, I'd suggest marriage counseling, cause that really isn't cool. |
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raynestar3
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Spoil that poor sick man, woman! It won't hurt too much, I promise. lol
Edit: Of course I am assuming he left for business purposes, etc or something of that sort. If that's not what you meant, and he left left, then ignore is silly sick butt! |
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Purple
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I'll need to see a pic. Then I can better serve you ;) |
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redhead27
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i think you should pitch a tent for him in your backyard and tell him he can sleep with the dogs tonight! |
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cs
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whatever happened to being normal? |
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Patricia C
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No, you don't have a right to be upset because all men become total babies when they are sick. |
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Fred D
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JoRo is wise! |
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Sccstewart
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it kind of depends on why he left in the first place. If he left on his own because he was unhappy or just mad about something then no I would not baby him at all. I would just keep on doing what you would do without him there. Let him know you don't fall to him as soon as he needs you & show your independence. ON THE OTHER HAND If you guys are just having troubles with your relationship & not understanding each other from both parts than yeah it may be a good idea to baby him!! Men seem to come to the people they want the most when they are sick or down. I mean he did come home to you instead of staying with his holy watering mom. Sometimes in the weak moments it reveals what you really want & need. |
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He's got me now!
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Screw the holy water. I have a pressure washer and a hose if you need it. |
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daljack -a girl
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There should be something between spoiling and ignoring.
Maybe if you two talk he won't have to leave and go home to Mama....and you won't be upset. |
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Space Cadet #5
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Make some of that nice chicken soup that you do and leave it warm in the crock pot, then fix yourself a drink and leave him alone. I think that's a fair compromise. |
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mjmayer188
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You have the right to be a little upset, but then again you hurt his feeling pretty badly.
It wouldn't hurt to make it up to him a little. |
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Heidi
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Yes you do and i don't think you should spoil him or ignore him be nice but make sure he knows your pissed off at the same time |
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THRINA L
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spoil him duh he's your man. duh |
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