Should I stay or should i just let go or get cousleing?

my husband and i live in different states. I'm not working and he's collecting unemployment and we have 2 kids together and he has a son. I don't like thinking negative but, recently I've been having some mixed feelings about my husband. I'm always crying, were always arguing and I'm trying to fight to make our marriage work and he said that "HE DOESN'T"T WANT TO FIGHT FOR IT" WTF.. I'm pissed I've been dealing with his stupidity for a very long time and he hasn't been around to help with our 2 girls. He always in New York hanging out with losers. I feel like i shouldn't even try anymore. But, I n my family we don't believe in Divorce.. I will like to make our marriage work..

Raul L.

I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this. No offense, but your family needs to realize that all marriages don't succeed. I don't believe in getting a divorce once I get married, But it happened to me and I knew that I did the best that I could. God is my witness. In two weeks it will be two years since I got divorced. The good thing is that I found someone better. I wish you the best on what you decide to do.

iyamacog

You can try counseling. But it doesn't sound like he'd be interested. It does take two to really make it work. A long distance relationship is difficult as well.

IceT

It would help if you were in the same state!

j92cool

Get a divorce. It sounds like it is not worth fighting for. You will feel better when you have closure at the moment everything is up in the air you need to make a firm decision either way and stick to it

RuthAnn

Any long distance relationship is hard. With kids even harder. And with someone who is not trying almost impossible.
If he has already thrown in the towel, then get a good lawyer and get the best settlement U can. A father who does not want to be around is no fun. U can try counseling, but each counselor has their own style. Some are good while others are not. I feel badly for U.
The husband has to want to work on things for there to be a chance.

toy

what are you hanging on for? i could understand if he were out of town at his job or something. sending you money for your household and taking care of home. sweetie, you have no marriage and he is not a man. hanging with losers you say? hanging with losers will make you a looser and unfortunately it seems thats exactly what he has become. you can do bad by yourself girl.he already told you that he dont wanna fight for your marriage, so why should you? it takes two to make it work. its impossible to do it alone. easier said then done but PLEASE MOVE ON

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