Should I tell a girl how much money I make, I do not went to find Miss Gold digger.?

Ga_Christie_04

No. Then you will never be sure if she is with you for your money or you. Plus there will always be someone else with more money. Unless you are in a LTR then why would you disclose how much you make?

Cory H

First of all, they're almost all gold diggers. Some are more subtle than others. I wouldn't suggest flat-out telling them how much you make at first because it might turn off the woman, not because she isn't a gold digger, but because you acknowledged her dirty secret. It's hard to con somebody out of money when they know what you're up to. She'll also probably think you're trying to buy her if she's not a pure gold digger.

They can probably figure it out on their own unless you've got it all holed up in the bank and are still living in the trailer park. After a while, let them "accidentally" find a pay stub or something. After they figure out you have money, most of them will inevitably spend some amount of time trying to act like they're not interested in your money. The best thing you can do is let them know you have money, have fun with them, and spend very little of your money on them. You will weed out the extreme gold diggers very fast by acting somewhat stingy. To them if a man has extra money he's not spending on them, it's a major insult that they just can't get over. The good women will stick around.

On the other hand, the good women that are equally attractive are harder to find. So if you can afford it, it might not hurt to pay the premium for a short term fling with a gold digger. Drive down the streets with AC/DC's "Love me for the Money" playing and have a good time. Be careful not to give them the opportunity to get knocked up though.

Donna M

Then you setting up yourself for her to like you for the money. You wan't be happy anyway like that.

msmidnight1986

Yes if you trust you her.

whattodo

money can be lost, and if you end up in that position, what will you have left? My point, do not disclose your financial $$$, and focus on your other attributes such as personality, humor, family values etc..

johnnysunshine11

Its a tacky thing...if theres real hope for a relationship it wont matter.

trinaboo

houstonfinestangel_584

NO A GIRL SHOULD LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE NOT FOR WHAT YOU HAVE SO YOU SHOULD TRY YOUR HARDEST TO IMPRESS HER.
GOOD LUCK!!!

misydoll

No, only tell her when you both get real serious.

r.d

no. its never a good idea. half the time they turn out to be gold diggas. only tell her if she ask u.

roseannetb@verizon.net

That is the worst thing you could do, that is no ones business but your own. If you have to use money as an advantage, then you are open for a whole new ball game. Just be yourself, be confident, and things will work out for you.

partylitebyterra

y does she need to know

superboredom

there wouldn't be true love, if you use money to win her over. She has to feel something for you, not feel something for you for money.

Cholita

No, money should not be important in your relationship.

cheetah7

If you did that then you can never be sure if she's with you just for your money and not anything else. Dont' tell them anything. If they want you they will go out with you for you, not what you have.

precious mami

no dont tell her... you dont want her to pick you over alot of guys because you have money that means she wants the money not you

johnnydean86

Using money as an advantage has it's disadvantages. Ask yourself if she would still be there if you were broke. If you can buy it...you don't need it (long-term).

slipperypiggy5

only if she asks u what u make, and be honest, because if u lie, that could give u some problems between you two

nkingdom2000

Bro a balance amount will not woo a girl.
Confidence and respect will get her.
If you have bank you wont need to tell her, she will know.

Willnotlietoyou

No, and No

girlqueen

NEVER!!!! Just take her out and do spend what you want on her,but don't go overboard.You don't want her choosing you for the wrong reason,because if your money ever runs out....so will she.

yes_nik_06

never tell that if she ask she is not the right girl for you.

chrisbrown_222

A fellow Engineer in Houston made his money in real estate. Engineering was mostly a hobby. He met a stunning woman. Went out and bought a used VW bug. Took her to fast food joints, counting his money carefully. They dated for almost two years. Finally he proposed. She accepted and a party was planned at a "friend of his mansion". He picked her up in his "Friend's" Mercedes. We were all at the pool cabana when they came in. She still didn't know the truth. She got the message when the maid asked him for the wine cellar key. Talk about an uproar. There marriage was a social event of the year and all's well. He had to know the truth before he committed. This was before the pre-nup craze. None was needed. Take hie advise. If money gets her, you don't want her.
Vaya con DIOS

xX.R.e.b.e.l.Xx

NO money should not be used as in advantage at all!! i have had SOOO many expierences about money not being able to buy happiness. The girl needs to like you for you. When you find the girl who does love u for u, she will be pleasently suprised about the money---but DONT show her the money first. You will TURN HER INTO a gold digger. Trust me, be your sweet, hot, smart self im sure you are and you will get a girl in 5 seconds without the money! I mean im dating a half homeless guy who is 17 (i am to) and i think im really in love with him. Good luck!!

lil cutie

wannakno

That is like throwing bait. The only reason you would tell is to have advantage over others that are interested. You need to really think about this. Because, relationships can become love and you want someone to love you for you. Money comes and goes buy love endureth forever. And even on level as a friend you want to keep people around that are genuine and care about you.

*Â·.Â·Â´Â¯`Â·.Â·* jay *Â·.Â·Â´Â¯`Â·.Â·*

if she really likes you or even love you... money shouldnt be the problem. She should like you for who you are and whats in your wallet.

amygirl9333

So then test her and tell her you make half as much as you do... If she sticks around, you got yourself a good woman... :)

puresatin

if you want a relationship based on her valuing your financial wealth as a bonus to her.. sure. Just remember.. you'll never know if that's why she's with you. AND trust me, money alone will not ensure that she stays with you forever. And as far as the 'hot' thing goes, even hot women age. Good luck with what you seek
*that just sounded like a fortune cookie

parnormaa.

no she might dump you if she thinks you dont make enough money.

ive_just_had_2

hell no, in fact act real poor, then you know if she sticks around its not for the money, dont buy her, ur not that desperate

Nnamdi

Please l need a woman that is beautiful,caring,submisive,god fearing,wealthy 4 sorporting always wen needed. not 2fat 5feet3inchs bwn age 25 to 55 4 marriage.from canada or other american country4along lasting relationship nd4evero1@yaoo.com.

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