Should I tell her?????????????????????

Ginny

Wow! That's terrible. I think you should tell her and blame it on her sister before her sister blackmails you!!! Good luck and be as truthful as possible. It wasn't your fault! ^__^

Tyrone Blackfang

tell her. she needs to know.

Could you answer mine please?
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Corine

The time has passed to tell her. You should have told her immediately. I would say forget about it for now but don't hang out with her sister anymore and keep your mouth shut about that night.

mel

Oh dear this is tricky! Well i think you have a duty to tell your gf and i believe in honesty but this is hard,she will always believe her own sister and she may think you are either outright lying or that you consented to it and are trying to shove the blame.

As it is you did not cheat,i would tell her sister that she was bang out of order and that although you are willing not to say anything this time for the sake of THEIR relationship that if she ever pulls a stunt like that again you will,then do all you can do avoid being alone with her in future.

charlesjerrell

wow i would have to think that one over, which one gives a better bj

poomhungry

Yeah I think you should tell her. If she doesn't take your side.. then maybe you shouldn't be with her. I mean you didnt see he till it was all done so it wasnt your fault.

robsmom

You bet.....tell her and then get out of that "family" before someone gets hurt.

Sandy

yes, you need to. it will be hard but if she doesnt forgive you, its her loss because if youre telling the truth about not knowing it was the sister, then you didnt do anything wrong. but its better to tell her in your own way than having it come out later and your girlfriend having some horrible twisted versoin of the story. just get it over with.

Ocimom

IMO you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. If you tell, the relationship is probably over as she won't believe you and if you don't tell, sooner or later she will find out.

I really feel sorry for you.

epizan

You should tell her. If on a long shot the two of you eventually end up getting married that is not something that you want to come out then. Let her know and let her know that you threw her sister out of the room. She will get mad. Trust me she will get mad but in the end it will be better that she know.

Amber

You def should tell, and soon. The longer u leave this, it will look like u have something to hide. You should have told her right away. She will go straight to her sister and I doubt she will totally deny it. You can't live with this secret forever, and how will u be around her sister again since this happened. Sit her down and let her know u didn't tell her right away because u knew it would hurt her, not because u didn't think she would believe u.

Alana

Yes you should definitely tell her. She may not understand and it could be the end of your relationship but this is not something you can keep to yourself, especially if you are in a serious relationship.
Best of luck!

Miss Nicola <3

WOW! this is a hard one techniqually this is not your fault, but if my fiance told me this happend i would be so mad! because i tend to blow things out of proportion... but honesty is the key to all relationships, and if her sister did this she is not a good sister nor a good so called friend just tell her that you had no idea it was her sister, and you thought it was her. and you love her and would never want to be with her sister, and that you are very confused and dont know what to do but wanted to be honest.. i would definately tell her bc if not her sister might tell her and then your gf might break up with you beacuse it will seem weird that you didnt tell her and she will suspect things!
good luck! and if she breaks up with you over it.. tell her that its not your fault this happend and i would flip out on the sister!

tell her the truth its wrong what her sister did
talk to the sister

Suzanne

Ok first off I totally do not think you are telling the whole truth on here!! LOL! I might be able to believe that you did not know at first that it was her sister but I do not know of any man who just lays back with his eyes closed and hands back while getting a BJ!! NOt the whole time anyways....So if your looking for advice on how to save face I think you're screwed. You either shut up or you fess up. Just remember EVERYTHING Comes out in the WASH!! I think that if you are being honest you should of ran out of that room hollering right then LOL!!

Army Girlfriend

yes she is going to royally be mad at you for this but if you love her you need to tell her now. She needs to know what her sister did. Tell her the truth tell her you thought it was her that came to bed.

SUSIEQ

Do not, repeat, DO NOT absolutely not tell her.

Georgio (I'm a dude)

I say keep your mouth shut and enjoy that memory. And if you play yur cards right....can you say threesome?

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