Should I tell my friend that her husband is looking at me?

Karla Kay

Not unless you do not want to be friends with her any more. Guess who she will get mad at?

AnaT

Nope. Unless he is outright ogling you...I wouldn't mention it. On top of it you said you think...so you're not sure. It's not worth it unless he does something that makes you outright nervous. She may even try to blame you if you tell her.

benthere

all men will look when u put them out there for them to see

Sicko

No, are you looking for attention. Men look all the time what's the big deal?

Granite

No, I would not say anything. If you are well endowed, speaking as a man, it is almost instinctual to look you over. It doesn't mean he actually wants to do anything beyond that. So I suggest saying nothing, it will just cause trouble, and probably for nothing.

mel

No! Even if he is having what he thinks is a sneaky look that doesn't make him a cheat,he is only glancing occasionally and if you tell her that he is only going to deny it and make you look like a trouble maker and really its nothing to make trouble over is it?

Willbewill

Not if you care about your friend.....tell her only if he makes a pass.

Anonymous

No, you should not tell, for several reasons:

1. She may not believe you
2. She may suspect that you have provoked the attention
3. She may suspect that you enjoy the attention
4. She might suspect that there is more than just looking going on - if you know what I mean
5. You say that you "think" that he is looking - you don't sound convinced
6. It is human nature to notice certain things - looking is one thing, staring is another. How you are dressed can also cause him to be distracted. If you're wearing a low-cut or tight shirt, then no surprise, he will look.
7. What's your friend's chest size got to do with this?
8. If he is looking at your breasts, and you tell her, what good will come of this revelation? What do you expect your "friend" to do about that? Put a blindfold over her husband's eyes?

Marioad180

well it really doesnt matter weather he looks at u or not what matters is if he tells you to do something with him. take from me im a man myself.

Ms. Purpose

No. I'm sure she's aware of her husband's habits. He's not cheating, so I wouldn't bring it up. I know you want to be a good friend, so the best thing you can do is to be conscious of what you wear when you know he's going to be around. I do this in general around my friend's husbands just out of respect, and I like for them to do the same. Your loyalty and self respect is more important to her in the friendship, and you can't do anything about his attraction, behavior, or whatever.

marriedandamom

no.. what is the point. being a real friend i would just watch what i wore and try to cross your arms over your chest or turn your back toward him.. there is not much harm in looking. if he is being ridiculous or making you feel uncomfortable - pull him to the side and have a chat about it with him. that should take care of that!

sant

no need too. im sure she's very aware. just stay faithful to your friend and yourself.=g/l

ArMy WiFe

No you shouldn't. It's in men's nature to look as long as they don't touch

lma

No, as long as he never trys to do anything about it. It will only cause problems between you and her, him and her, and also cause her to be self conscious.

Me!

I was looking back to see if you were looking back to see if I was looking back to see if you were looking back at me!

Get a life! ...... Don't be a busy body! Don't re enact Desperate House Wives.

Girls subconsciously check out my package too when I wear jeans! That's normal. It doesn't mean anything! I'm not going to go and run to some husband...come on!!

Me! :- )

NYism

I wouldn't say anything unless it really makes you feel that uncomfortable. If its tolerable but getting to the uncomfortable stage try calling him out in a way that wont cause a problem. Like "Did I drip food on my shirt" and look down. Obviously they are going to say no, then say "oh because you made it seem like I did". Or something along those lines. That could be a subtle hint to him to back off.

toy

Please don't tell her. Now if he tried to make a pass at you then consider your friendship over. That's just how women are and I agree with everyone up here when they say she will get mad at you. Try to cover up a little when they both invite you to functions. But I must ask are you watching him back? If you wasn't so focused on him then maybe you wouldn't even have noticed. Lol @ Shannon...u r funny!

s.i.l.l.y. s.a.r.a.h

No, why would you want to cause problems. Every man looks. As long as hes not making a move on you or anything dont stir a boiling pot.

wondering

NO, because. Just because your on a diet,doesn't mean you can't look at the menu.!!!

FL StyleN

Nope I mean it's only going to cause drama.

You've never played that game real or fake before? As long as he's not making you uncomfortable/staring you up an down constantly ya know?

GL

Saint Of Saints

I agree with all those who are saying ignore it. So just let him 'glance' but if it it gets any worse then it's your duty as her friend to tell her or at least tell him to back off and think about his relationship. Hopefully she wouldn't go off at you but appreciate your honesty, so goodluck with it.

prettysex1

yes if shes your friend she'll handle him

Dogs-are-cool

Yes, It is better to tell her now and get hurt less, than to let her find out herself and be heart broken!

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