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On balance, since your friend is not married yet and there is still time for her to walk away, I think you should confess to her, but you must realise that you have already betrayed her trust and destroyed your friendship with her. Believe me, this Garry is not worth having. He too has betrayed her trust and if he can do that to her, he will almost certainly do it to you - if he has not already done so. Are you sure you're the only "other woman" in his life?
I think you should tell your friend, break things off with Garry and never see him again, and arrange to have some tests done as soon as possible to make sure Garry has not given you any nasty infections. This is a very sad situation. You have lost your friend who should have been far more important to you than Garry could be. And worst of all, if you have any self-awareness at all, you have done some serious damage to your self-respect.
If I had done what you've done, I would have to move away to where no-one knew me, and try to build a new life for myself, resolving to maintain better standards in future. |
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T
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If you didn't want things ruined, you should have closed your legs! |
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BabeHeart
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Well, you're quite a piece of work, aren't you? What goes around, comes around...you'd better get ready! |
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Whatever
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You call yourself a friend? You're pathetic. |
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lita
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YES U SKANK STOP SLEEPING WITH OTHER PEOPLES HUSBANDS YOU WOULDNT HAVE A PROB SHE DESERVES BETTER FRIENDS AND A BETTER HUBBY THAN U2 |
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♫SecretღMermaid
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hope i never make friends like you, lady |
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PennyPickles17
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she is obviously NOT your friend if you have been sleeping with her fiance'. Tell her the truth and go find a man who isn't taken already! |
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Sweetteach
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Um yes.....and you should stop sleeping with him. |
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SundaeG1rl
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Nasty. Just nasty. |
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tink24mls
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Ouch. Sorry but no matter what happends nothing will ever be like it was before. I personally have no respect for you or him at all. What a bunch of low lifes. |
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cereal_killer034
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Yes you should tell her and you ahould also have some video tape it when she beats the crap out of you! I would pay to watch it. |
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Lanani
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No, what you SHOULD do is stop seeing her husband immediately and think long and hard about what a terrible friend you are. Then apologize to her profusely, express regret, and prepare to lose her friendship.
You should be ashamed of yourself. |
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robtheman
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If you didn't want things to be ruined, you never should have slept with him. I'd tell her because it will hurt her less now than later. She'll probably alienate you and him. I'm not sure why you would want things to continue with him either. Once a cheater, always a cheater. The best thing would be to tell her, and everyone go their separate ways. |
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pinniethewooh
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You should tell HIM he needs to tell her and that if he doesn't, you will. |
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chamster
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stop and then tell her |
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Maia B
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They're already ruined. Just because someone doesn't consciously know something, doesn't make it not be true. Do what your conscience guides you to do. |
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deb452295
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well you should av thought about that earlier you deserve all thats coming to you |
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Justsyd
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Yes, you should always be honest with your friends. Especially when you're sleeping with their husband to be. |
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Baylin ♥
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Aren't you a great friend... |
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misydoll
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Yes, tell her. |
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General Custer
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No and stop sleeping with him. Duh |
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Common Sense
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No...
But you need to tell Gary that things are over... |
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concretebrunette
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If you slept with her husband you are not her friend. No matter whether you tell her or not, you've lost a friend and will probably lose Garry because you "tattled" and "ruined everything." Anybody who cheats on their spouse has an "it's all about me" viewpoint on life. He doesn't care about you.
Leave town. |
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confused
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Why are you sleeping with your 'friends' husband? I just hope its not the Garry i know.. because if it is.. then its my sisters husband!!!!!!!!
Nice friend you are! yeah tell her |
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Thomas
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You have ruined things between your friend and you, and you and Gary, and yes do tell. You may just get what you want Gary, but guess what he cheated on your friend, he will cheat on you... |
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smile4u
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With friends like you I guess she doesn't need enemy's. What a friend. I think your motives are more to sooth your soul and make her feel bad. Stop sleeping with him. Move on with your life and hopefully she will see what kind of man she is marrying and what kind of friend she has. |
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Kimberly H
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Are you kidding, get out of this situation now! If you tell her, either she will hate you forever or get revenge on you or Garry. You don't have a chance of staying with Garry anyway. If he really wanted you he would have left his wife before coming on to you. Also if you tell, he would just lie, he might say you made it all up, and are crazy, or that you were the one that started everything. Remember he is a cheater, cheaters always lie. He will lie about you, she will hate you. This is a no win situation. |
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mollieb
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Stop stop stop stop stop seeing him.How can u say youre her friend when u are sleeping with her husband to be. That is really out of order and i think deep down you must know that. Sit down think about how you would feel if you were here and found out. Then take action.stop seeing him and find yourself a new single man. If i were you i wouldnt actually tell her because it may all blow up but maybe u need to put some distance between yourself and her and not see her or her husband for quite a while. That is really out of order.... just think ppl dont expect their friends to do things like that to them!!! have a little more respect for yourself ...he obv wants her if he is gonna marry her... leave him |
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cheyennetomahawk
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Well, it would be awful if he went ahead and got married. Why is he getting married if he's sleeping with you? She's going to find out and the better she knows before the marriage than after. She needs to break off contact with both of you because you are both betraying her. So- you might as well tell her now. If you have any shred of decency in you, you won't allow her to marry him without knowing what's going on. Do the right thing! Imagine if you were in her position. Would you want to marry the guy? |
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marie
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Yes i would then RUN, If i was her i would be affraid of what i would do to you, What comes around goes around watch your self |
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