Should I tell my husband that If he dont call the lady that is suppose to have a child by him in front of me?

jude

u can buy a dna teat and see if the child is his, but they aren't legal and u can't let the mother know your doing it without her okay. but this is a man who cheated on u, and regardless if the child is his, he still slept with her while married to u.

Shannon

English please.

Littleshellwoman

Are you saying your husband cheated on you and got another woman pregnant?
Shame on him for cheating.
Shame on you for keeping him.

Kyle F

I don't understand the question. Should you tell your husband what?

Collette L

He is your husband and has a new child with someone else and you are still with the cheater?

Forget the phone call - pack his bags and drop him and his stuff on her doorstep and walk away.

Then find a decent man to make a life with.

I doubt she is his first time cheating and I doubt it's the last.

goldie

You can buy paternity tests in your local pharmacy now... Why waste anymore time wondering?

Silenceâ„¢

Tonya, your husband is a loser. He didn't even care enough about you to use protection. I would divorce him. He's lucky the girl only got pregnant and didn't give him then YOU a STD. You deserve much better. You're a Queen, you don't need his sh..!

Good luck with everything.

WOWZA!

I'm confused...your husband is having a baby with someone else and you're only mad that he won't call her in front of you?

meohmy

You don't speak clearly. I'll assume you want him to call her in front of you since he has nothing to hide? if so yes. If you are looking for him to call her regarding she thinks it's his baby & he wants a dna test then yes again..he needs to at least make sure & clear his name if it's not his end of story. I'd find out 1st.

je t'â™¥

why can't people take 5 seconds to read over their questions to make sure they make sense? if you actually want anyone's advice/opinion, you gotta be able to communicate your problem to them.

standingeagle

Tanya,
Clearly your husband has cheated on you, and you have decided to try to work through this, so you are to be congratulated for that, not an easy decision and not an easy task.
You are well within your rights to make any demands upon him you feel you need to get over this. The question is, are you prepared for the results what ever they may be. Surely you must be aware that there is a high probability that the child is his, so what are you prepared to do if that is the case?

There is also the likely hood that the mother is going to require child support for the child, and I would hope the father is going to want to be an active part of that child's life. Now you have a lot to think about,
And you have to decide if you can live With this for the rest of your life. If you can then insist he do what needs to be done,
If after you have considered all the possible outcomes you decide you can't live with it, then it doesn't matter.

Now assuming you decide to stay together you had better go get some counseling or you will experience this again.

This situation is a symptom of deeper problems in your relatiosnhip and must be addressed and dealt with or you will have bigger problems to worry about.

good luck with this and to your husband I can say you have a hard road ahead so I hope it was worth it. and if you want to keep your marriage you have alot of work to do you have to try to rebuild the trust yiu have so easily sacrificed with your wife.

good luck to all of you.

best wishes.

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