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Should I tell my wife I've been cheating on her for years? It drives me crazy not to be able to tell her that

everytime she cooks her "special" lasagna, I cheat & grab Wendy's or McD's before I get home. She always mentions how little I eat those nights. It's been about 10 years now.


    




S K
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Be prepared to eat sh*t after you tell her.


iknownothing
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Sometimes things are better left unsaid.


metallicachic82
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This was good...lmao!!! I would quit getting meals from others places, before you get home. Or she will see the ketchup on the collar, and freak out and fess that the lasagna wasn't homemade....it was Stoffer's. :)


Selly
Don't tell her. I think my husband does the same thing.


AuntieEm
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I'll keep your secret - I suggest you do too.


uncle billy
no, stay on the down low.


Wifa 4 Lifa
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LOL!! I would'nt unless you wanted to end up in the dog house!!!


Drey M
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The next time she makes it act like you got heartburn from it. Suggest that maybe she change a few ingredients and hope that it tastes better. Enjoy.


lola
Tell her if you love her! It is harder to live with a lie than to fess up you will feel better!


jackson32s
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OK I must admit before I read the whole story I was about to tell you yes. But why do you cheat? Answer that question first. Depending on what kind of person she is, Do you think she will be upset if you told her or would she understand and find some other "special" food for you to fall in love with? If it was me I would want to know I may be hurt that you keep it from me for sooo long but I would only focus on making you happy so yo want cheat anymore.


CarolinaGirl
Hahahaha I don't know. If you tell her you better expect hurt feelings. I would probably think it was funny after I got over it though. It could become a joke you can tell your grandkids together ;-)


~just_jd~
oh i see....just have to tell her you don't really care for the meal she has prepared.


shondak
So you don't sleep with another person, right? Well, then it's okay. If you don't want to hurt her feelings, you don't have to say anything. Although, I'm sure she would rather know. I mean, how is she supposed to make it better for you, if she doesn't know?


nwnativeprincess
you are funny!!!! thanks for the 2 pts.


You call that CHANGE?
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Ohhhh you are bad........!!........lol


shirleykins
Next time, grab a bouquet from the grocery store, some truffles or a bottle of wine, and say, "Honey, tonight after supper we need to talk." If you've got a fireplace, go there. Snuggle. When the time is right, you say, "Honey, I just hate that lasagna!"


hope_a_long52886
It is ALWAYS better to tell the truth. No matter how small a matter it is. So tell her.


Joesmoe
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On the nights you know she is cooking lasagna, buy flowers and bring them home and when you guys start making out accidentally knock the pan off in the floor, then you can go out to eat.


Ormoz
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It's better to tell her you don't like her "special" lasagna


Michelle Lynn
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Nah, let her have her glory of feeling like she is making her man a yummy dinner. I know it would hurt my feelings if husband told me my lasagna wasn't any good. He once told me my stuffed green peppers weren't as good as his moms and every time he asks me to make it, I say go to your moms for dinner, cause I will never make that dish again!
Good luck.


The Mama
Of course you should ! Be honest , sometimes the truth hurts but she at least deserves that much


Styll
if your just talking about lasagna then don't it'll just hurt her...but try to gently steer her away from doing whatever it is to the lasagna you don't like..for example 'how about we try it without the garlic this time" or something like that...if your cheating with another woman...another matter entirely


JJK789
she's your wife. she deserves to get nothing but the truth from you even if it hurts. you should have told her the second time she cooked it to change the seasoning or ingredients..please tell her. the longer you keep lying to her the harder it will be for her to forgive you. because she has no idea what else you've been lying about. this was bad judgment on your part to keep this from her and you need to get the problem squared away with her. even if she gets mad at you. you deserve it...


monics_mommy06
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If you can't tell her you don't like it tell her your favorite is something else. Praise her alot for other food maybe she'll just give up making things you don't praise her for. That would work for me. I hope this makes sense to you.


I know, I know!!!!
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Nahh dont tell her. might hurt her feelings.


kopguy5000
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Wendy's or McD's on the sly? Is that what they are calling cheating on your wife with a dude these days??


lee lee
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Crazy is just another name for guilty conscience messing with you mind.Yes you should tell her & then ya'll should talk about what your gonna do OR NOT GONNA DO! STOP CHEATING!!!!HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF IT WAS YOU??????? Your better fix dinner that night!


Christabelle
LOL Next time she makes it, eat a little, and then make a dash for the bathroom. Act like it's making your stomach hurt. Tell her it must be the lasagna. Chances are she'll stop making it and you won't have to cheat anymore.


libralov3
me..too.. I was getting ready to blast you..but i am glad that I dont have to now..you should tell her..but she might get upset..
tell her that sometimes you eat out before you get home





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