Should I trick him I am pregnant?

jaredsmommy2004

Are you being serious?? Obviously for the normal people in this world .. the answer would be NO! You really need to take some time to grow up some. If you can't handle a relationship with honesty, but can only use little games .. then you shouldn't be in one.

Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel

myheartisjames

life is too short to play games.......
so no...you shouldn't trick him...

relationships are built on trust and honesty...how can he trust you if you would lie/"trick" him about something as important as being pregnant?

due july 28th with baby girl

grow up! people like you give women a bad name.....

belle

Thats a horrible trick to play on someone. What if he decided to play a trick on you and tell you he gave you an STD or something, would you think its fun to play with people then?

Billy!

No. That's wrong to do. Just ask him what he would do or think if you were.

How would you like it if he was asking his friends "Do you think I should tell her I have AIDS/a wife/am dying? You know, just to see how she would react?"

It's wrong.

Renae

Interesting to play with other people? You are either very young, or very immature. Either way, my guess would be that if you actually have a "man", by that I mean an adult male companion, you will lose him soon enough, whether you play this joke or not.

vanhammer

That's a serious thing to say to someone and I don't think most men would find it to be funny. Don't put that kind of stress on someone. If you play with someones feelings expect the same in return. Be ready to lose your man if you mess around like that.

supatdav

Women ruin their lives and the life of their child/children when they play this game. You are playing a deadly game when you try to manipulate a man this way. You should never have to play this game. A man who willingly wants a child in his life is more willingly to be an active part in this child's life. You risk raising this child alone. If you love yourself and even the idea of a baby you will give him or her the benefit of having a stable home with two loving parents who are committed through marriage. Don't play that game you end of losing and so does the baby.

I had a friend who tried this with a loser live in boyfriend. She had five children with him. Her life is a struggle. He kicked her out and the children. They have and on going court battle for legal matters. Is this what you want for you a child?

If you have to play this game then the man isn't worth keeping. Don't ruin your life. Personally I am worth more. The man I have a baby with is going to do so willingly in the commitment in marriage. How would you like if someone bound and gagged you and made you rob a bank? Don't violate someone like that.

ashlesha19

No, dont do that. I was scared whether I'm one. But that all was false n we both were happy. But for all that drama I got serious scoldings from him.

So u too, dont even think of doing such kinda mischief. They keep thinking over it if they are seriously committed. Dont do this lady.

Love, care & understand him.

Dont play with his feelings.

GrnApl

Definitely NOT! If you are willing to do this then what else are you willing to do. Someone should warn him to run from you as far and fast as he can. How about if he told you he had AIDS and slept with you? Would you think that was funny?

passionparties_by_suzanne

NO!!!!!!

Sassy H

well I know alot of ppl are against it, and so am I now cause I did it, and I tell you it ruined my life, I told the guy I was with at the time, cause I knew he liked someone else better, so I trapped him, well I was with him for 5 yrs, and every so often when I would start my periods I would break down and cry and say I lost it, and he would feel awful, I knew how much he really wanted a child ok, and one day I went to the hosiptal was feeling really sick, and guess what I was pregnant, the guy I was with found out I lied to him and thought I was lieing to him then, left me, 9 months later I had our child and he did not want nothing to do with me or his new born daughter, and now I am single with a child who is 12yrs old, she knows who her father is and when she does get to see him, he turns the other way, and it kills me inside to see my daughter without her dad, and knowing I caused it, so pls think before you say something stupid and you get hurt, better yet a little one that will get hurt, no reason to trap a bf when he does not want you.

COWGURL_UP

You are not a very nice person are you!!!
No dont tell him you're preagnant if you're NOT...

Josie31

Thats wrong.

Michael

Girl tried that on me once. Had her killed. Turned out she wasn't really PG. Jokes on her !

Waynes Angel

stupid b**** dont do it that is just wrong

heaven o

poor fellow

...mr2fister...

don't even play with a subject like that!

Jenny

never

Kitty

No, I would never do that... This isn't the thing to be joking about.

Jinkies

Well it seems like maybe you are needing a reassurance that he is really really into you the way you are with him, like maybe if he thought you were pregnant he would think wow this is gonna be MY babies mother.

or it could be that maybe you want to see him frightened by it, but then by telling one lie it leads to another as in woops i lost the baby to get his emotional reaction that could be very sad. its not fair really to lie like that, its only going to make more lies and you'll probably feel bad bout it later so don't do that please.

gsschulte

well if a girl "tricked" me with that im not sure what i would do i know i would break up immediatly apon finding the deception but not sure that i could do anything else. what im thinking isnt legal so best not to expand on it.

timestamps

NO,never

â™¥ goddessofraine â™¥

Honestly.... NOOOOOOOO

Sure it might fun to think about the what ifs..... but it isn't very nice to play with someones emotions... it just isn't a very nice thing to do.

Especially after you just said "I am not and would never get pregnant with a boyfriend" If you want to know what his reaction would be, ASK HIM what he would do "IF" - it is asking for trouble to play this mean trick on him =)

Best of luck

olw80

Totaly Bad Idea He will probley break up with you

tysavage2001

Lying to your boyfriend about being pregnant . .hmmm .. There's a feather in your cap ! :)

Julie

WOW! That is so uncool chic!

Tater Salad

Alright...first off, that's a horrible thing to do. "Play with him"? About being pregnant? That falls into the "psycho" girlfriend category. You might lose him if he finds out you were "just kidding". Pregnancy for men has a MUCH different impact on men then women. Our whole world changes when you tell us. It's 2 tons of stress placed directly onto our shoulders out of nowhere. That's like walking up to someone and telling them you just saw their mother being taken away in an ambulance. Not cool.

tysgrandma99

your playing the worst game with Guy's that are out there.stop.how would you like it if some Guy said,i was going to kill myself then you heard a gun shot,would you still play that stupid game,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,GROW UP

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