Should I trust my husband?

Dicky Snapples Hides Apples

Sounds like he's having, or about to embark upon, an affair. Stop being naive.

Chris M

I am a man. This is a mail which tells me he has something going on with this girl. Of course he is up to something.

kooola_d

even if he did edit some of it , its still no way for a married man to talk to a female co worker

janicajayne

Why does he have another woman calling him babe? That's not "just friends". Find a marriage counselor or a divorce lawyer right away. Your choice.

greeneyedvixen

If he misses her and is calling her "babe", sounds like an affair to me. You haven't been married very long, get out.

its_me

mmmmmm that doesnt sound like a friendship why is he telling her he misses her???? n why is he calling her babe???? that sounds suspicios to me.

Dancingsun

I would be making a visit to his work place around lunch time. Look nice and be very pleasant.

Sxoxo

This is so wrong!! NO! dont trust him.Would a co-worker talk to another professional this way.Leave him.

BiancaVee

Even just reading this it doesnt come across as an innocent friendship only conversation. Id do a little more digging, but Im sure he has already desstroyed any and all evidence. Keep your eyes open.

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i wouldnt trust him..not in this situation. of course he probably cut some stuff out of the email. u should try to find the truth urself because he's not going to tell u

Sharlala

He is treading on very thin water...if he hasn't already crossed a line then he is about to. Yes I would hack into everything he has to get to the truth..start with your cell phone online. You can pull up all calls and text messages as far as who they were sent to and who they came from. And yes, I would read all his email. MOF, I don't believe is having passwords protected..why should he? Unless he is hiding something?

tomimegi

There is nothing confusing about that e-mail. Something is about to happen or already has happened between the two of them.
I would not trust him. I would confront him and even her about what is going on.

la.bruja0805

I wouldn't trust him but it would be better if you could force him into an honest conversation rather than snooping. If he finds out you snooped he will probably find a way to turn the tables & make you feel guilty!!!!!!

DO NOT TRUST HIM!!!!!!!

cindy_cee13

You poor woman. Open your eyes. Confront him and make him realize that he might just lose you. If he says, "OK" then divorce him

canteloupesweet

I wouldnt trust him sounds like cheating to me or about to.Have a talk with him. See what he says. I dont trust so i wouldnt believe him anyway.

Don't trust him.

anthony f

I would`nt trust him its quite obvious there`s something between them. hope everything turns out ok .

'chip!

Break into his email things. Its not very polite, but he is not telling you the truth. There is obviously something going on between these two. Find out what.

whoenisch

I would not go through any more of his stuff unless you are prepared to find out what you already suspect.

I was with him on this until "babe".

You two definitely need to talk about this. He is not being faithful, even if it is non-physical.

mcfifi

I'm sorry to say this, but if it was my husband I would be stalking him day and night - mobiles, emails, getting my friends to follow him when he's out.

But then I'm not a very trusting person......

AAed

I have always been a flirt, but I don't remember telling another woman that I missed her (------------------------) this much. I worked at a place that women outnumbered men 8 to 1 and although there might be occasional banter, I don't ever remember anything like this exchange happening, because I think I would know what was on the woman's mind if she said it. I certainly wouldn't trust her. And as much as I hate to say it, there is NO way this is harmless because it has already caused a rift that may never be fixed....so here is my advice. Tell your husband that you think something is going on, and you are trying to come to some decision about what to do about it. Ask him what he would do if he read the same dialog between you and another man, and last, don't let him cop out, but if you love him and want to keep him. stay firm about telling him that you are trying to keep this from ruining your relationship, but don't force an answer from him that you don't want to hear... In other words let him have the benefit of the doubt, but not for a while. Hopefully if something did take place, your "deciding time" will scare him enough that he will never do it again... fool around OR flirt with someone and cause you pain.... and there is the risks that if you carry it too far and he is innocent of an affair........
BUT he is guilty of hurting your relationship...conversations that should be carried on between a man and his wife....
Tell him you don't want to ever read or hear anything about this woman again. You want him to write her and email tonight and send it to her telling her what he has done to the two of you and the email be clearly written so there will be no communication between the two of them that is no related to business and you want to read the email before he sends it.... If what I think happened did happen, I don't want it to ever happen to the two of you again and I do want your marriage to work and be a happy one, and the only way that can happen is for you to be persuaded that he is not interested in this woman in any way... the email will do that
Good luck and I hope things work out for you...

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DO NOT TRUST HIM !!! this is how i found out also my husband cheated on me...and he lied to me about it for a whole year, i assumed he cheated on me but i wasnt sure until one year after i first found him emailing some chick he worked with also... guess his conscience got the best of him and me accusing him all the time that i knew he had an affair when really i didnt....If you really want to know the truth do the digging and find out on your own hopefully the outcome isnt a bad one.

ladyluc39

Nope, Don't trust him. He's a dog

Macky

I have to say, it seems like this sort of thing's been going on for a while now. Tell him to break this off.

sugarsweet852001

If you have the doubts then you have your answer. You now need to decide if he can own up to his actions and chose to work it out. Or move on.

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