Should I wait up for my husband?

just being helpful

LoL. Sounds just like my husband. He went out with friends a couple of weeks ago with out me (I was tired and chose not to go). I didn't care that it was 3am when he came home. What bothered me was he banged around the bedroom until he woke me then thought I wanted to talk until he finally fell asleep around 6am..grrrrr.

The best advice I can give you is to go to bed and get what sleep you can before he gets home. :)

jet-set

Take yourself to the spare bedroom girl, and hang a 'DO NOT DISTURB' notice on the door!

nease174

go to sleep and lock the bedroom door.... OR fall asleep on the couch.... OR call him and tell him that if you are asleep dont wake you up.. even if you are on the couch.

Sassy OLD Broad

Lock the damned door and get a good nights sleep. He'll be in the car in the morning.

Ari A

Stay up, go to bed....what does it matter? The result will be the same.

l'il one

Go to bed... but leave him a note somewhere he'll find it. *I'd prefer to have waited, but I needed to make sure I could wake up in the morning [and I didn't know how long you'd be]. I love you, good-night, and here's a kiss 'till morning.*

ascoile

You get in the bedroom

get in the starfish position

and wait for him.

John S

Well if he loved you he should have invited you to go with him, so you could have a wonderful tiem too. But the best thing to do is go to bed and sleep because if you have to go to work you need to sleep. Even if you sleep for about 3 or 4 hours at least you won't feel too tied. SO get some sleep and don't wait up.

tonal9nagual

go to sleep in another room, and lock the door! Tell him just like you did all of us, the reason you are doing this , because he stinks and snores and you have to go to work!

lucki_mel

Just go to bed!!!

QuietRiot<3

go sleep!

chels20092000

go too bed hon,nite nite n sleep well xx

rebel

get your head down

mince42

Sounds like a no win situation.
If one of the kids are young enough, on these evenings they can be with mum and the man can bend his knees a bit in a smaller bed.

kitycat

If it s just one day then go to bed & try to wake up once he is home to see him try to stay cool.God bless u

Steve B

well honey...if this is happnin often,i would be suspious for another gal.................good luck.............

she devil

You need to go to bed and if he "paw" at you, you need to tell him that you have to go to work in the morning so we can have food on our table, clothes on our back, and a roof over our head.

BikerChick

You should sleep on the couch - don't wait up for him.

China

No just go to bed and lock your door that way he doesn't wake you up.

beautysexychick

go sleep in another room n lock ur doors, that way he wont be able to disturb u...

kiki68

the problem is not your husband, its where to find the guts to say all the things churning inside each time he comes late.

my husband does the same, comes staggering back in the wee hours of the morning. i solved my problem (mostly!) by discussing rules when he was in his right mind:) kept it simple so he could remember- when u drink, no touching. to keep the point home i sometimes make him sleep in the guest room or i move out and sleep with my 8-year old. then the next day HE has to answer the question "Why did mum sleep in my bed?"

mudfish

your already awake now but ive started to answer soi will finish.
I wouldnt have waited up, try and get into a deep sleep before he comes home all smelly and noisey. I think its nice that you still think about him that much to ask the question obviously still very much in love

Phil B

Go to bed , But 1st make sure you put some bedding on sofa for him with a note saying he has to sleep with dog for the night as you need your sleep?

laplandfan

I'd also go to bed. And whn he wakes you up give him a peppermint breath freshener or say you got a headache!!!!

violatordepeche

lock him out!

the wise one

stick on a sanitary towel, smear a bit of tomato sauce on it and leave a packet of pain killers next to your bed..
tell him in a large letter you have your period and your stomach is really sore

good luck

xyz

What about letting him know that you will be going to bed before he gets home and would appreciate it if he would just come into bed when he gets home and try not to wake you so you can get your sleep.

hollyb20

Go to bed and sleep.
But tomorrow, lay some ground rules down as to what will happen if this situation arises again.
Its unfair to disturb your sleep when you have work in the morning, so suggest if he intends having a night like this again, he sleeps in the spare room or comes in at am agreeable hour.
Night night

teeth hoover

Go to bed and get a good sleep! Leave a note for him telling him you love him, and if he loves you not to wake you up stinking of curry, lol! Nighty night.

Kim H

Go to bed if you want to be well rested - do something for yourself. If he wants to see you he can always wake you up.

Jenny

Stay up and give what for. How dare he.

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