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Should i cheat on him for revenge?

My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months ago and i cant get it out of my head. He said he only kissed this girl but we had only been together for a 2 months at this time and i had just moved 40 miles from my home to be with him. He doesn't see his actions as a big deal and now there is this really nice guy at work who is showing me a lot of interest. He slipped me his number yesterday and asked me to ring him tonight. I want to but don't know whether to tell him about my boyfriend and i don't know if i will just feel worse anyway if i do ring him. I love my boyfriend i just want to make him feel as bad as i did and still do. Please Help!!!!! x x x


    




tonybowling_1990
No


redpeach_mi
revenge never makes you feel better and it will only make you a cheater also. you have only been together for 4 months. let him go.


Dr.PhilwithBoobsDueInJune
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From early childhood we are taught two wrongs don't make a right, just move on.


Foot in mouth
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Sounds like you should just break up with him. You don't really love him if you're considering this,and he doesn't really love you if he cheated to begin with. Time to move on.


†Evonne†
NO.
Why would you stoop to his level and degrade yourself?
Have some dignity.
The best revenge is leave him and not look back.


Machzy
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It sounds like you still have a lot of resentment built up because he cheated on you. Honestly, I don't think getting revenge will do you any good. It'll probably leave you feeling less of a person. You should probably just break up with your boyfriend.


♥ Sweet Tart ♥
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no!!! revenge is NOT....NEVER the right answer.


needs a vacation
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Noooo don't cheat on him for revenge...Just break up with him..Revenge isn't the way.


Mexican Gangsta
Two wrongs don't make it right. At least break up with him first.


QT4U2NV
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do not seek revenge. you shouldnt want to stoop so low


Jelly Bean
Why be in this relationship at all?


mandurah mum
cheating is not the answer - break up with him if you cant get over it


JM
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no because what about when he decides to cheat on your for revenge, then you cheat on him for more revenge then it never ends. why would you want to even be with someone who doesn't think cheating is that big of a deal? dump him and go for the work guy!


Sean C
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yeah fight fire fire with fire! that'll work!

Firemen for centuries have had it all wrong.


in otehr words, no. the best revenge for you is to let him go or forgive him and work on your relationship.


skdshfjhfha
Your relationship will probably never be normal or even work out because of this. How is cheating on him going to make it any better? You guys should just break up, honestly.


Marty
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No two wrongs never make a right. It is your boyfriend not Husband just leave him now that you know how he is.


The Wife
If you can't get over that he cheated on you then leave him. Two wrongs don't make a right and if you think it does, then you guys are going to be cheating left and right to get revenge on each other. Thats no way to live.


lillibut
NO it will make you feel worse!


The Great Gazoo
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If you are considering it you dont love your boyfriend as much as you think you do.


Hot Blooded Diva
Dont lower urself to his standards, find someone better who will treat u right...


hunny♥bunny
Don't. Act more mature than that. You'll regret it in the long run.


BabeHeart
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Revenge is likely to blow up in your face, bring you bad karma, and why would you really want to lower yourself to being a selfish deceiver just because it was done to you?

If someone murders a family member of yours, are you going to murder one of theirs to make them feel as bad as you did? C'mon? Use your head...

You won't forget what he did if you cheat, you'll remember he cheated, and that you did too and that's a double whammy. If you're still so bugged by it, split up and move on. He won't appreciate you more if you cheat on him, and I doubt he'll see it as a fair trade because of what he did.

That's not how mature people handle relationship issues.


sandy c
revenge won't get you anything except and ex-boyfriend. you should really talk to your boyfriend about how it still hurts you so that he knows where you're at. Cheating on him will make you feel 100 times worse


Shannon
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No. Be the bigger person. If you're still angry with your boyfriend, you may not be able to get over it and the best thing might be to just break up.

But two wrongs don't make a right. Don't cheat.


ndnqt1966
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Very mature thinking there..give yourself a pat on the back! Seriously....do you really believe that this kind of revenge is going to help a relationship where the trust has been broken?


Ugly
Dont cheat on him, it's not nice to play games like that. He did cheat on you but if it hurt you real bad you should have broke it off. Dont be immature by making the same mistake as him if you prefere to date the guy at your work at least have the decency to brake up with your boyfriend first.


Meg
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I say ditch the present boyfriend. A friend of mine had something similar happen... only she moved THOUSANDS of miles to be with him. She broke up with him after she caught him cheating, then returned to him.... and he cheated again.

It's not worth the trouble. Dump the BF and see if this other guy is any good.


*VAMPTASIA.*
neither of you are ready for a commited relationship.seperate and go do your own thing.


Steph
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time to get out





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