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Should i contact my x wife.?

i have a nagging feeling to contact my ex wife. by the way i have had three. she was my seconed she doesnt live far but she ran off with the postman . i still have feelings for her but domt know to what extent. we have spoke when passing but not about anything serious. i could get my mobile no to her but dont whant her to think i want anything untoward i would just like to talk . well what should i do ?


    




Erica S
you know you are gonna anyway... so would it help if i just said yes?!


primalclaws1974
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leave it alone. She left for a reason. Im sure you are probably lonely, but don't degrade yourself. You should never look BACK, know what i am saying?


Jack
You shouldn't.

I don't think she'll like to.
It's best to forget about her, and move on with your life.


heywood
Move on, do not call.


Nikki
Let sleeping dogs lie.... put all your energy into someone else, she's an EX for a reason. Good luck.


Thomas
listen, dude...move on! why makes things harder for yourself.


bette69
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dont go there.


snowman
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no move on, if she wanted to talk to you she would call you


Jo
Just give her a call and tell her that you just simply wanted to wish her a happy holiday. She will talk more if she wants to.


Yousif (Joe) R
Naaaah.... go grab a bear and watch TV.


Ollie
I would leave well alone.


jumiboo
leave that situation alone. can you say trouble


manic
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No. If she's not raising any of your kids forget about it.


free_angel
Leave it in the past where it belongs.


Prodigy
Whatever you do, DO NOT contact her in any way. Take it from me, move on with your life and even if you have feelings left for her, dont let her know by reaching out to her.you will only get hurt again. I've made this mistake many times - trying to be friends with ex's or calling them just to check up on them and having it lead to much more and only getting hurt again.She obviously had no respect for you and didnt love you like you loved her for her to go and cheat on you. Don't give her the satisfaction of crawling back to her.dont even call her man.MOVE on!


Marina C
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You should stay away from her as far as you can!! Your "feelings" for her are just hurt feelings. If she cheated on you the way you describe it then she is not worthy of your love. Pray to God to help you find someone just for you. Why would you settle for someone who hurt you? Pray about eveything in life and you'll be ok.


Jamonican
I think you should leave her alone and move on life is too short
to want to dig in the garbage. It's nothing wrong with saying hello, and that's it. I know love is still there but you can love her from a distance. Good Luck.


Babe
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don't......


ferochira
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You should learn to play base ball.....three strikes your out. The nagging feeling is only there cause you miss being nagged, give it time you'll get over it. You dont want her to think you want anything, but you do want something, you just admitted it, you want to talk, that's something, isn't it? Boy are you messed up. You just want to talk?, why is what you want more important than what anyone else wants? If she missed you she'd be the one getting in touch, but she's not so why impose on her? What you should do is leave her alone, she is the one who left you right, does that sound like she want to talk.


zoey1176
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Move on, she cheated once she might do it again, leave her alone.


alphacenturi
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This could be about closure.

Maybe you feel that there's something between you that's not finished or resolved rather than it being you wanting to rekindle what once was.


happydawg
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Move on. Find someone else to talk to


CEILING CAT!!!
The postman? Yea right!!!


Natters B
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Don't call her! you are just setting yourself up for a fall. move on you are better than that!


Grandma of 2
Keep to yourself. She's your EX for a reason. You are trying to recapture something in your past and it's not going to happen. Move on and make some new memories for yourself.


BIG BOPPER
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No.....you'd be better off getting a root canal or a STD. My ex snuck out, picked up a butcher in a bar, cheated on me & threw me out of the house which she got to keep ( along with our 2 sons ) after the divorce.---Luckilly for me---I got re-married to a fantastic woman who still rocks my world after 21 years of marriage. Contacting a cheating ex-wife is like driving you car at 110 miles per hour into a cement wall.


jlh.1988
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that guy wants you to grab a bear =|
wow......


But if i was you i wouldn't worry about it. Stay single for a bit :)


Rob
if you are already married, then you are probably looking for a booty call... sure why not, they make the best botty calls...


Bibsy
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Leave her alone


Boudicca
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Think hard about why you'd contact her. To get together? Have another go? Is it that you don't know the extent of your own feelings? Figure that out before calling. Ask yourself what your motives are. then decide.


L H
You should forget your ex wife, she's an ex for a reason. Enroll in the local community college and take some English courses it will take your mind off your ex, help you to meet new people and get you some MUCH NEEDED help with your communication skills.





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