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Narkhed
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When you say that there is no future in this relationship then why to continue & invite unwanted tension. As your family background is better so just marry the guy of your parent's choice. Also he himself has admitted that he cannot marry & also not earning & laslty it will be a lifelong problem if you marry him as his family is conservative.
I don't find a single positive thing in this relationship, so its better to move on & marry some other guy of your parents choice. |
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Kato
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Your parents want you to get married but DO YOU? Do you want to marry this person, do you just like hanging out with him... do you have any other options..... This seems to be a very emotional situation for you... But be rational and decide whats best for you, not for your parents, not for your boyfriend, FOR YOU... how would your future be if you break your relationship.. how would it be if you continue the relationship... there are many guys out there.... but only you know what type of guy will satisfy your needs. Good luck.... |
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N M
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very simple move on with ur life....i think u also have the feeling that this present relation will never turn out to be good decision
get separated.to life a happy life one needs enough money along with love |
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a w
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hi, if you love each other fight for it. why not talk to your family and your boyfriends family at the same time? i'm sure they will understand you guys. remember LOVE can move mountains. |
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D D
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Well you a condition where your bf can answer you better if he wants to live with you keep it up with this relation. If you think he loves you more than anything. |
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BF
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You say you see no future in relationshp. So don't wait and break up for better futur. |
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mouni
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Hi I think your BF is right as he is not earning......and you by your self is accepting that you cant adjust with his family......also his mother is against this relationship...........I dont know whether your parents will get agreed or not......but as you have so many prob you can get seprated or if you want to carry relations than be prepare to adjust and face prob...........coz you cant get everything ready made you need to fight for it.........or just leave it and both of you start your new life |
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BAN arranged marriage
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Do one of two things:
1. Break it off for the sake or your families
2. Go it alone and please yourselves without the support of your families. |
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Duffer#1
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Usually true love overcomes all the obstacles, I have few friends of mine they had intercaste relationships and their families dint agree to that. First they tried to convince them then got marriied on their own. After some time their parents also understood them and accepted it. They are living so happily now.
The main thing in these case was that there were problems (problems are in every relatioship) but my friend and his GF could not live without eachother so they fought it out.
I feel your relationship is not that strong but you people have been together for 4 years and still you choose to separate because of things (Family and employment) that can be sorted out for sure later. But once you break your relationship all is lost, no turning back.
You have to take decision on your own what is more important for you. Compromises and understanding are base of every marriage (love or arranged), You should not just expect that if you marry someone else you will be comfortable with his family right away, there also few things you will like and few you wont.
If you truely love eachother fought it out, dont give up. Dont always expect perfact things, sometimes we need to make things work whatever we have got. |
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nandana s
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Please marry a person of the same caste and same culture and language...
i married a marathi and i am a tamilian ...facing a lotsa problem abt it....difference in cast ..culture and anything and everthing is a problem
and u said that they family being conservative u cant adjust with them so forget the relation thats what i would advise....
or if u can sacrifise ur life for the family and the guy ...then u can ofcourse marry the guy...but u will not have peace of mine
JUST LIKE I AM LIVING |
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trishik M
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If your educated enough to get an job and earn then you can become the earning hand and even convince him to get an job even an small job will work and if his parents are not ready to except you which is very unique because mostly girls parents are not ready for marige and boys parents are all ways ready but in your case this is reversed so you should try to convince your parents and he should try to convince his parents .And ask them both to meet together |
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divya n
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time is the best healer if you know that it cannot work then go ahead to break it things can be set right now but not once the marriage is on it is better to have litle pain now rather then suffering whole life. |
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Amaya D
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tthe answer lies in ur question
youi are saying you will cannot adjust in his family
is it worth it?
marriage is hardwork
not having your familys support is onlya another burden over top
and marriage is never guranteed like most things in life this can end in divorce what will you have if this ends in divorce
you wont have your husband and you wont have your family
who will you lean on for support
there aer 6 billion people in this world and if this one isnt going well as he says he has no job at the moment its yet another sign that he cannot marry you rifght now SO WHY NOT MOVE ON
you have signs thrown at u left right and centre |
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inteha_alone
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if u continue ur relation then it might cause problem to u and to ur family along with ur b/f and his family.. so, its better to just ger relaxed and try to spent ur time on ur work what ever u do.. and try to forgot that guy... it will better for u.. caz relationship needs understanding and time to get settled but u can understand his family and his family will not understand ur needs.. so, its better to break the relation...
well we just give suggestions but the main decision is in ur hands..
best of luck.. do what ur brain says not the heart... |
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lucky...manny
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Fight for love and all is bull****. It will be better if u r able to forget him. Believe me , as u have told u wont be able to adjust in his family and he is not earning so ultimately u will have to take help from his family..for time being u will feel like u have done it for love, but later on u will regret. So it is better to leave him and try to indulge yourself in something u like. |
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Dan
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I do not think that this relationship has any chance at all. Break it off now.
Regards,
Dan |
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♥gagan♥
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You r going on a right path....do what u think is right for ur future. |
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