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Vyctym
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Dude, she's not your woman anymore and apparently hasn't been for a while.
Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, take a deep breath....
...and walk on. |
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oracleofohio
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HPV can be dormant for years. Not a good enough reason for divorce. Try again. |
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.::♥Miranda♥::.
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HPV is the human papilomavirus... it can cause cervical cancer...
you just need to be tested...
Men are the carriers and most of the time don't even know it... so unless you were actually tested for it, how do you know? And if she had slept with anyone before you were together it could have been from one of them... |
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married with kids
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Okay first education yourself on HPV 3/4 of the population has this. She could have gotten this many years ago in highschool. It is not a death sentence. You could have given it to her. Seriously read about it. |
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joecool
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Mishkin is the only right answer on this one. HPV or human pappiloma virus could have been from you. Takes a while to present itself and you could be a carrier and never know it.
It is treatable and your lucky guys usually are unaffected. Talk it over. |
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blueeyes
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Ya think???? |
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MommyB
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Your grounds for divorce, should it come to that, should be because she cheated, not because she is sick. I think that if you want to stay with her despite the fact that she cheated you should try to research her illness and help her deal with it. Not kick her to the curb b/c you are afraid to get it. |
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Miss.Madison-Marley
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NO!!!! That's the problem now people so quick to jump for divorce papers. You 2 should just get therapy.. And have a big conversation about the issues between the two of you.. Find the root of this problem, it just don't stem from one day of b.s.If it don't work from here do what's best for you. |
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Tyler Durden
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If she got the std while you were married (even if separated) you should def. get divorced. This chick sounds kinda nutty. |
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Ashley
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you've been separated for 5 months - why have you not divorced yet? do you see a reconciliation in sight because 5 months is a long time to be apart then up and decide to be together again? aside from that and to answer your question - i would find out first if she really has cheated on you. maybe she had the std before and didn't know it or maybe you were carrying it and didn't know it. it's possible. if there really is cheating then i say yes, that's grounds for divorce. but you should find out first if you're only concern is the std. |
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rosejrrj
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I don't really believe in divorce but if you guys have all this issues i really recommend you ask God for guidance can no one really help you with that. then again it could of been worse maybe its a sign that you need to run as fast as you can thanks god its not aids or HIV. I really hope you didn't get infected yourself. |
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Hoping he will bless me with #1
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To the poster above, you don't get HPV from a toilet. HPV is definitely an STD. However, she may have had it for a long time and didn't know it. The only way they can test you for it is through a papsmear, and if the papsmear comes back as abnormal then that's when they start looking at the possibility of HPV. I say it's not a reason to divorce because just because a person has HPV doesn't mean they will have it forever. Sometimes the abnormal tissues and cells will regrow and correct themselves. Sometimes all they have to do is remove the tissue and cells and it's over and done with. You're not providing a lot of information, so I can't really say if it is for sure a reason for divorce in my eyes. Did she flat out tell you she slept with someone else? |
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Terry
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Ask yourself, "Do I love her?"
If yes, then a std should not be the end of a marriage.
If you want your marriage to work out, talk to her, ask her how she feels about it. Marriage improves the second the couple begins to communicate.
Things are up to you, because you are the one holding the happiness of you life in your hands. Maybe even your wife's.
Good luck. |
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Cure for your blonde addiction
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I AGREE with Loner -- leave her. It is 99% easier for a women to get an STD than a man, obviously she has been cheating on you or you have been carrying something and gave it to her and her symptoms are just now coming out. But if you know it's definately NOT from you LEAVE her. Get checked out just in case. Best of luck to you! |
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Beth
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That std can be in your system alot longer than just your time frame you are telling us about. It can lay dormant for a long time. 90% of people have it. If this is the only problem you two have I might give her a break. You could have it too and not know it. Unless both of you were virgins both of you could have it way easy. People can also be carriers and not have it. It could be from you. Get tested. You two need to talk |
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mishkin
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did you not marry her "in sickness and in health"? forgivness is a good value to have too. you could pick up some of STD's from toilets you know.
btw you could have hpv too but it would not really affect you
in fact you could have given it to her and not even know you did |
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emmy
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Don't jump to conclusions. Read up on the disease! It can lay dormant for years and most people don't know they have it. A lot of the time, there are absolutely no symptoms. YOU may have been the one to give it to HER as you may have contracted it from a previous partner. Do some research... |
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laura1977
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If you read through the answers of people that are actually educated and don't jump to conclusions...just because she has HPV doesn't mean she screwed around...she could have had it for years and it just now is showing up. Women can have it for YEARS and have no symptoms. Educate yourself about it and then make a decision. But it sounds like you already have made up your mind anyway because you are asking this question before you know anything about HPV... |
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kirk m
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HPV is carried by the male but the female is affected. She probably got it from you. You need to find out. If she was messing around I wouldn't be interested in remaining married. If it's from her past, "in sickness and in health" man. |
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Temba
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Don't forget about your girlfriends,take her to your nearest clinic,they must pump her with all sorts of injections-antibiotics.
Then keep an eye on her boy,have an Eagle's eyes boy.
STD is treatable.
Warn her to close her shop to these SHARKS.
GUD LUCK MATE |
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buddhist_20
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Definately divorce. sorry. |
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getmymackon
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HPV or HIV?
If you want to become another divorce statistic then sure bail out, if not then you seriously need to talk with her. |
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Sweet
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Yes you should especially if you know she didn't get it from you |
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justin_I
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Over the course of their lives 80% of women have had HPV. Its not a serious STD, but in some rare cases it can lead to cervical cancer. Men cannot catch HPV, but can carry it.
You shouldn't leave her over a minor STD. But it sounds like you have a lot of other problems. Maybe you should take a step back and look at your relationship and then decide if you want a divorce. |
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man4u2know
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hell yes |
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this_girl_loves_the_80s
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Sadly, yes it's time to move on. Not because she has HPV, but because the relationship isn't working. . . |
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Sunshine
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Hmm! I don't really know what to say but I have a question to ask you too.Do you still love her?Marriage is based on mutual love and not on our strenghts or weaknesses.No man would be happy to hear this from any lady especially his wife.However to err they say is human but to forgive is divine.Everyone deserves a second chance 'cos no one is perfect.If you still love her don't divorce her but she needs to change.If she doesn't want to change and wants to keep messing around you're free to do whatsoever you want. |
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