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Should i get divorced or stay?

My husband and i have been married for 5 years, We have 2 toddlers.

When ever we argue he always starts calling me a *****. Then he apologizes and says he wont do it again. Then the next argument the does it again. When I bring it to his attention he says "well what about what you did, you throw away my key, or lost my glasses." Which may I add is an accident. Sometimes i have a lot on my mind. He calls me dumb all the time and a bum because I was a laid off my job, (i recently found one 4 months ago) but he makes more so I am not able to contribute as much. It doesn't bother me as much because I know that I am beautiful and he's just saying this things because he isn't happy with his self. But he doesn't want to go to counseling or find a church to go to. Am I wasting my time? Should I leave now or am i over reacting.


    




Queen of Denial
If he won't go to counseling, then you go on your own. You need to make decisions about you and your children's future. Do you want the kids to grow up thinking it's OK for a husband to verbally abuse his wife? Your number one priority is your children, then taking care of yourself. After many years will you start believing the things he says about you? Think about it, but get some direction soon.


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