Should i get married?

The pink panther

No. There aren't too many marriages that survive when a couple marries too young. You both need to concentrate on careers and what you want to accomplish in your life before you settle down. Don't let your emotions tell you what to do. You can be best friends and still date, but you definitely don't need to get married right now.

Sean C

Don't do it.

After 3 months how could you possible know that much about him. You're in puppy love stage right now.

Don't rush into this, chances are you will grow to het him. He's obviously rushing into this for the wrong reasons too.

This is harder than it looks?

live together first... you can be engaged for a long time while you figure things out... I would not rush in to it.

I am 26 and I can't even begin to tell you how different I am now than when I was 18.

give yourself time to be who you want to be... and if you are together after all of that... then it is meant to be.

A.D.D. Hero

You likely still have a lot of personal development to do.

lady_phoenix39

No. Go get a college education, a job....a life....adult friends....and figure out what you want from life before you settle down with this guy.

You'll thank me later.

mcwife2

No I dont think you are ready. You are too young. You need to get an education (college or trade) and discover who you are. You are entering a new phase of your life. You havent figured out who you will be, so therefore you cant know who you would be to someone else. I am not trying to speak with you as a child, but you will change so much over the next couple of years. Its good that you love him and he obviously loves you. So why not wait a couple of years? If it is meant to be, it will happen. I promise.

ignoramus

No. Wait another 2 years to see if you are still friends. If so, then think about it.

Mrs. February

Waite in till you have graduate from College.. Focus on yourself and develop yourself to be a college women. Your views and your thinking are going to change. I didn't get married in till i was 30 and I'm so glad i waited. Your twenties are supposed to be exploring yourself and developing what you want in life

bunny

If you don't know the answer to this critical question dear, you AREN'T ready. I would suggest you two continue your relationship and you gently tell him you would prefer to spend more time with him in a relationship before you commit to marriage - reminding him that you are only 18 (and you don't say how old he is, if he's out of college/school and is working, etc.)

Sincerely,

Grace

Packersgrrl0923

If you have to ask, the answer is no.

Wait until your sure that's what you want

Ed G

My answer or advice to you would be NO. First, You won't believe this but live alittle before getting married. I am not going to say 18 is to young, but there is a lot you can experience before getting married that might even make you a better marriage partner. Second, If you ask then there is doubt and I would rather error in waiting.

Chanel >(Deleting this accoun

Your still pretty young and you have been in a relationship with him for 10 months!!

Do you think your ready to be married!??

Laurie G

no just because he proposes doesn't mean that you should say yes go with your heart its ALWAYS right

Bob

Personally I don't think you should get married until you are at least 30, too much to see and do that becomes limited once you are married. 18 is very young, I would give it more time - around 12 years.

ladycalli69

NO WAY....... you have ten more years of school and partying, concentrate on you only. Get out and have fun.

dreamer

I think you should be together at least a year before you get engaged, plus you're both really young. Plus the fact that you have doubts isn't a good sign.

Brandilou

If you are not sure you should certainly wait.

Jersey Boy

You are young, keep dating, go to college and continue to grow. I wanted to marry my first serious girlfriend to ( I was 19). We did not get married and she wound up getting married three time and cheating on each husband. I was glad to have avoided that bullet.

Expecting #1

IF YOU HAVE TO ASK US ON THE NET IF YOU SHOULD GET MARRIED THEN I THINK YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART THAT YOU ARE NOT READY. IT DOESNT MATTER HOW LONG YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE. WHEN IT IS RIGHT YOU JUST KNOW YOU DONT HAVE TO ASK ANYONE AND WHAT OTHERS THINK DOESNT MATTER TO SAY THE LEAST. I WAS WITH MY FIONCEE FOR 4 MNTH THEN HE PROPESED AND WE ARE NOW GOING ON 1 YEAR AND 6 MNTHS. WE HAVE BEEN ENGAGED FOR 1 YEAR OF THAT. AND WE ARE PLANNING TO GET MARRIED THIS COMING UP MAY. AND I DONT CARE ABOUT THE LENGTH OF TIME. I LOVE HIM AND IF YOU LOVE YOUR GUY AND HE LOVES YOU HE WILL WAIT!! GOOD LUCK

Lili K

no, ur too young. u'll regret it for the rest of ur life

ZCM

If you have to ask, then you are not ready. You 're young, give it some time. What's the rush. You will know when its the right time because you won't have any doubts.

dhallkb

People change a lot from 18-25. Trust me you are not the person you will be in 5-10 years. I would not get married now. Feel free to stay with him, but you should have time to figure out who you are, what you want to do, and enjoy your late teens/early twenties before getting into that type of relationship and commitment.

Owen E

Wake-up your dreaming finish your schooling and get a career and then maybe in another 4-5yrs consider marriage. Your too young.

Sarah H

I would say no. i got married at 21 and I was too young. i would say if you love him then say yes but tell him you want a long engagement. Have you ever been with anyone else? I hadn't and I ended up cheating because I was curious. I'm not saying that would happen to you but if you are asking then you probably already know the answer.

Racin

No... oh shoot I only read the question.

Aria

You're still young and haven't even been together very long. What's the rush? I would wait. It's always better to be safe than sorry.

ms.tasha

Sweetheart I do not think you are ready just yet. I say wait a little while longer. Just remember you are never to young for anything. If you think he's the one go for it. If you are unsure go to a pre marriage counsel.

Kiss ME

no your to young!!!

Hello

Make sure that is definitely what you want to do. Marriage is a lot of hard work.

Kazem B

i prefer to wait for some more time to be sure

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