Should i get married with the guy who earn 5000 per month?
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Should i get married with the guy who earn 5000 per month?
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my parents want me to marry a job worker whom, who might earn 5000 per month. do u think i will be able to adjust as i belong to a nice family, i m only of 20 yr, i m studying bca. infact i m ready to get married but i want my husband to be richer than me and educated. do u think i m wrong, what should i do help me please
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dark angel
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will you get married with his monney or with him?what do you choose love or monney?i think you have to decide cause usualy you cant have both,believe me i know............ |
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Wisdom???
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Things to consider:
a) your still very, very wet behind the ears... this is much to soon to be considering
b) Marrying for money makes this a one-dimensional relationship... can you live with this alone?
3) Parents, while well intentioned, should live their lives and you live yours. Always do what is best for you
4) never be fooled by the adage: "we marry for love". Love is only one aspect of it. People who marry only for love typically divorce. You need to looking at other factors- do we complement each other, is he/she spiritual, will we be able to make it finacially, if he's an MD or lawyer or other busy profession- will I ever see him, where will we live and will I be happy there, how many kids will have and do we agree on this, etc.. Essentially, love is 1 dimension, but not the only one.
Good luck |
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cosy_devil
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Ask yourself following:
1. What is your own socioeconomic status?
2. What is your family's current Income?
3. Which City you live in & where does your hubby to be chosen by your family lives?
4. Apart from the person's current income, what is his education, what is his furthur chance of growth?
5. Will he allow you to be a working woman if you wan to be?
6. If you are a working woman how much would be able to earn?
7. What are your practical aspiration for future lifestyle?
8. Your age is 20 now. Can your family wait for next five years so that you can pursue higher education.
9. What should be your dream hubby's income & how far is this fellow from him?
10. Are you ready to revolt & stay alone on your own?
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Nikki
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If you 2 love each other and are committed to being married.....why not???? That's a lot of money and you can easily live comfortably off of that if you are careful. No debts, etc. Except for normal debt like house, little bills, etc... |
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seek_fulfill
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Regardless of what your parents want, it is your life. I think that you should feel deep love, admiration and attachment to someone before marrying. It does not really matter if he earns more or less than you do. Education is not a guarantee, either, although I think it helps if you are both educated. |
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ckgene
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Marry for love? Marry for money? Which of these two do you think has a chance? |
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Meeto
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You can get married and encourage him to earn more. |
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Barking Lunchbox
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you should grow up before you think about getting married. |
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RoBBy
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The world has a lot to offer - find someone U can communicate with and you will be happier a lot longer - the money will sort itself out along the way |
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SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad
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u decide whether u want to marry a man or money? finance is not a problem once ur bca is complete and u get a job. u should have maturity and understanding beheaviour. Whom ever u get married, if u donot co-operate, comitt to him and understand....ur marriage would not be success. see a person...not money....
All the best. |
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tracemiss
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i think your wrong because your supposed to marry some one because you love them not because of their money, if u do marry some one because of money you'll never be happy with that person |
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Holly wood
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If u are marrying him for the money , or because of your parents .
Don't marry him at all u will not be happy , well u will be but not for long . Just think is this what you really want |
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Brookeo
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only if you love him don't be pushed into anything you dont want to do. |
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dianesomeone
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don't marry anyone that you don't love....it shouldn't matter how much they make....that being said, if you are going to college and trying to make a better life for yourself, look for someone who is doing the same thing....you need to have the same or similar goals and drive in order for it to work well....good luck |
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Elixir of life
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20 years...bca...chose a better guy....sm 1 wid a salary of...lets c...20,000.....its easy...my sisters r married to guys who earn 50,000.....i belong to a nice family too..:)....jus do wht ur heart says....its got nothin to do wid money...every thing to do with LOVE |
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Liz
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You should not get married at all. First of all, you are too young, secondly, you have not finished your own education, thirdly, you should not get married just to please your parents, and lastly and most importantly, your reasons for getting married (money, mainly) are way too immature and shallow. |
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RISHAB Shukla
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hey ,if u both like or love each other than i think u should marry becoz than ur understanding will be good and u can adjust,but if u both meet 1st time than no way wait ask ur parents to find a boy of rich class or ask that boy to try another jobs.if u think boy is not happy hearted(means lazy and not of ur nature)then refuse him.but if he loves u than plz u should except him becoz then he will do any thing to make u happy.lastly i am of 11class and not yet having a job so i cant say that i am right or wrong this u have to decide.best of luck for ur life baby.bye |
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Sunlight
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Well, if you are ready to get married then, work on "How you people can improve your income". You can encourage him to get a high paid job, job change, may study after job hours for career enhancement or promotion.
Since you are studying bca, you are technically skiller person, you are not a dumb. You can make your career and support your family, if you like that.
Best of Luck |
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bling bling
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if you marry him for the money only and nothing else you will be unhappy your entire life...so marry smb that you really love |
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random_killer312
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if your asking us do you really think your ready for marrage? |
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mhp_wizo_93_418
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gold digger,,,, at least tell the man that is why you're marrying. |
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mad_integer
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You will only be able to adjust if u love that guy. If u dont there;s no way u can adjust with him even if he was a bilionaire...
Stop being so commercialized and only seeing people's bank balance...try knowing that person and see his inner persona and see if any intimate feelings r evoked.
Good Luck! |
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sweetsal
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marriage is hard when you love your mate.. marring for money will not work |
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catsclaw
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how much money he earns should not be important, true Love is what is important. |
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Cdn_Superdave
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Your 20 and a student. I think you should finish your education and get a career off to a good start first before making any permanent plans. |
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lol_des
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You can marry a Guy who earns 500 a month on year and 20000 the next it is not money you should be chasing. It is when the times are tough something else will pull you through...like commitment love and admiration for each other. |
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~*Jenny*~
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what does money have to do with it? You marry for love NOT MONEY!! Can you say golddigger. |
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RICKY
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Hi Shreya,
Dont look for money at present.
May be his luch favours him after marrrying you & he might earns 500000/- Instead of 5000/-.
Take a chance atleast if u love him.
Convince your parents atleast.
Best of Luck
Take care
Regards...
(Ur Friend) |
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Ken Machine
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i don't believe in marriage. If two people are truly inlove & have a mutual unspoken understanding that there will never be any1 else for either one, then you don't need a piece of signed paper or a metal symbol on yer finger to make it so.....it already just 'is'.
DON'T MARRY FOR 'ANY' REASON! especially not something as superficial & shallow as money! |
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VASU 87
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okay if a guy earns 50000 a month but does not love or care you and hook with others then is it okay for u to live with him
Look for the heart not for the money. |
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