Should i ignore his phone call?

AKAO4D

Yes ignore his calls. Eventually he will get the hint. You on the other hand should tell people you 're too busy to do the requests they are asking of you. Do this, and you won't have the issue of avoiding people.

Positive vibes

Why the heck did you give him your number?

smithlette

Well that's a really crappy thing to do to someone. When he calls just tell him you don't really want to go to the movies. What's wrong with being honest? If a guy did this to you, you'd be complaining that he was lying or blowing you off.

Arquestian

Well I think you should have considered all this before you gave him your number. Now grow up and tell him the truth.

Satriani

Don't ignore his phone call.Just find something to say to him with compassion and tell him the truth on why you can't go with him Or just go with him just once and leave it at that.No more commitments after that.Let this be a lessoned learned from now on.Remember it's okay to say no.

Stephanie

explain to him that you're not interested in getting involved romantically with him. i'm sure he'll play it off like it wasn't his intention but chances are he'll be too embarrassed to call again.

mosaic

tell him that you appreciate the invitation but that you have to decline. Don't give him a reason... there won't be any that will make him feel great. Just politely decline and he should get the message.

sweetie

How do you know the guy hasn't changed. People do change. If you go with him and get to know him a bit better you may actually like him. If you just really cant go out with him then I would say tell him that you aren't interested in hanging out with him and just be truthful.

BeeElle

What you need to do is scare him away. It is a really bad idea to hang out with someone with that description, but you are clearly wise enough to know this, but too sweet to put an end to it in a harsh manner.
so tomorrow when he calls, don't hesitate. just tell him that you are seeing someone and his work hours are unpredictable, so it turns out that u can finally see him this week and wont be able to make it to the movies. Apologize and say u'd make arrangements for next time.
OR you can just go, but bring a friend along. he will get the hint that you are not interested in being alone with him.

J K F

Well, you could say:

1. You just changed your mind due to the fact that right after talking with him you coincidentally ran into your long lost love and you have decided to pursue that relationship instead.

2. Or, you are going to join a Convent tomorrow.

3. Or say to him what you have originally said here in Yahoo Answers.
Be honest and tell him you don't do drugs, aren't into people who lie, and run with a different group of people (referring to fact he doesn't appear to bath on a regular basis). Steer clear of him, sounds like trouble to me.

4. You could always have your phone number changed.
Next time, when in doubt, give out a phony number.

Sounds like you are a person who is a 'Pleaser,' and at your own expense. You create problems for yourself that way.

Littlebit

Well you could always answer the phone and talk to him bout things since you knew him in high school i would just bring up a conversation like what have you been up to since high school and then if he still doesnt interest you then just tell him how you feel and be honest with him. you will find it will make you feel better that you were honest bout it..i dunno if i helped but i like to try.

Miss Honesty

i say give everyone a chance as a friend. he may have some great qualities about him...and i dont mean anything romantically. there is no harm in being friendly to somone but i would definitely recommend you do not go out on dates with him. dont ignore his phone call...thats childish and insulting. your eventually going to run into him again. you could just be straight forward and say that you dont want to go out on a date with him but its cool if you guys keep it casual...maybe grab lunch or something. but with age should come respect and honesty...dont ignore him. that truly isnt a nice thing to do. it would have been better to reject him the first time. but thats not what happened so make the best of it.

sss

Just tell him how you feel and if that doesn't work tell him ur gay!

Renzo ~N~ Brook

when you speak to him again make references to him being a good friend. throw in casual comments about new guy you got your eye on. he'll be to high to notice you're blowing him off

Brunette wife

If your not interested in him then why did you give him your phone number?

If he calls just be honest and tell him that your really not interested in being in a relationship with him.

Gypsy Red

First of all this question has nothing at all to do with marriage and divorced, it should have been in the singles and dating category.

Second, don't lie or play head games. When he calls, just tell him that you are sorry but that you really aren't interested in dating him at this time. If he starts to ask why, just say that it's just how you feel and to please understand that it's your choice at this time.
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aston martin

u hav mentioned all his bad qualities then y r u thnking take his call..jus ignore it

iluvmyman

Well why did you give him your number in the first place lol. You shoulda just gave him a store's number or something lol. You shoulda told him you were seeing someone. Just tell him you are in relationship and its complicated and you shouldn't have given him your number and ask him not to call anymore.

BRIDE 2 BE

you could do that. or just tell him something came up and you have to work or something.

mÏƒÏƒÎºiÎµ

its just a phone call

its not like he's trying to qo out with you

if you dont wanna talk to him just tell him that then

if you dont have the heart have someone else do it for you

but me personally i think that childish if you have someone do

somethinq like that for you

--mookie;*

Katie

dont ignore the call...that would break his heart.. tell him strait out.. "i dont wanna hang around with a pothead"
text him that.. or somthing

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