Should i leave him ?

Gary L

I think you two should sit down and talk. in an ideal world things will just sort itself out but this isnt an ideal world. you say to us you no longer care or love him does he know this? how can you two live amongst each other you need to communicate. tell him how you feel but just as importantly listen to him also, you may find things you never knew before perhaps there is another way, if there isnt then perhaps its best for you to go your seperate ways, seek a neutral friend someone who has no real judgement on things where you can take a day out maybe you could do that put each other on hold and see if tha is what you want, i honestly dont know how long you two have had your relationship but see if there is anything that can be worked out babe, like i said explore every option see if its what you two really want.
I hope this helps.
#good luck honey
xxxx
i can be IM if you wanna ask anymore

baybeegrl5

this question hits too close to home! i read some of the previous responses and most of them said something about talking to him. I don't know about you, but in my situation, I've talked 'til I'm blue in the face. I either get accused of "denying my true feelings" or just telling him what he wants to hear. when the lines of communication have broke down, it's time to go. I know that's easier said than done, but how much more of your life are you going to lose trying to please someone else? (that's the frame of mind I'm in right now) I hope you can find the strength to do what you have to do! Good luck 2 you

veronica

i think u new the answer toyour question before u asked it
infact why r u still with him
just leave him and be happy

zo29

If your not gonna sort things out between you then yes you should leave him. Have you tried talking about how you feel?

shadow

yes! you should leave him and don't put it off!

Dan O

.........get out now! Its easier than now, than if you leave it til later!

Titch01

Life is too short to live like a recluse. Ditch him and spend fun time finding someone that appreciates your worth

pinniethewooh

It doesn't sound complicated. You're in a loveless relationship with someone that doesn't communicate with you. Either get counseling or move out.

angelfire

You shouldnt really stay with him if you honestly say that you dont love him. That is unfair on the pair of you.

You definately need to talk though - maybe you should make the first move but you will need to be brave and say honestly exactly how you feel.

It may come as a complete shock to him that you feel that way or he may admit feeling the same way too! You need to confront him about how you feel though and listen to his side, then decide what you both want to do about it; i.e give it one last try or separate.

Relationships can lose thier spark over the course of time and both parties need to make an effort if it stands a chance of lasting the course.

Life is too short! Do it tonight!

Amanda SSS

exactly. live life, don't let it slip by don't something you don't want to do. only you can make your life what you want it to be.

Jumble

Life is too short to live like strangers, i think its time to call it a day and move on you deserve better girl you really do!!

Aztec2000

If I were you, I would leave. There's no sense in pretending that there is something there that isn't. Move on girlfriend!

Don

talk to him, and then leave

friskpurple

sit down and talk to him heart to heart if that doesn't work tell him that you are going to walk out that door

filmstu

Leave him!!!
Whats the point being with someone who doesn't communicate?
If you don't love him then you really are being untrue to yourself and him!!!

horsegal

Sounds like you have made up your mind, if you are sure you don't love him and do not want to work on the relationship then leave him, there is no point making yourself miserable because you feel sorry for someone.

Good Luck

towerlad

no point staying in a relationship cos you feel sorry for him you will only grow to resent him if its over and your 100% sure then go why should you both be unhappy life's to short to be miserable good luck

xovenusxo

I was in your shoes for ten years.....i wish i had that time back now. Leave now while you have not wasted a lot of years.

Nicki

You mean just goes to his chair and just sits there without talking
about anything. I'd be out there so fast even his chair would turn over. Your 32 and don't be saddled with a complete bore. I knew a girl her husband worked as christian disk jockey. She said he had worn out 5 rocking chairs, rocking them chairs listening to all that christian music. No way I'd look like superman flying out of there. WHEW!!, she said she loved him and stayed, well, I could never love someone that big of a bore.

â™¥pandyâ™¥

The best thing to do is talk to him about it all. Tell him how you feel

george

Do what your heart says. If you are not happy, try doing something about it. Only you can make that change.

I haven't heard his side of the story, but he sounds like a real party pooper. Go out have some fun see if he changes to and go from there.

Don't sound like he would miss you if you were gone anyway.

Yeah yeah yeah

You need to have things in common hun. If you don't got that you don't work. The best relationships are the ones where the couple love to do things together. You could try and inspire him. Make some arrangements. If he continues to resist then just move on and don't waste the rest of your life

if u tried talking to him and still things are the same then u are too young to just let your life go to a waste
do something

miggs

exactly - take a deep breath and talk to him and tell him you are leaving.... see what happens! you can't lose!

eagledreams

Maybe councelling would be worth a try.....is he suffering from depression......did you ever talk...if you did then is it worth the re kindling of the reasons you are with him. He may be having issues in his lie you do not know about....communication is lost...but does not always mean forever.

Baps .

First of all talk to him, tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. You never know he might feel the same way. Then why don't you suggest a weekend away somewhere to see if that makes a difference if it doesn't or if he decides that he's rather sit in his chair then perhaps you could suggest a trial separation and see how he takes that. If there is no response then you might as well end things as you said what is the point and considering that you have said that you don't love him. Move on and find yourself a man that will appreciate and excite you

SiLKy

if you are not talking you don't know what he is thinking. It could be that he loves you very much and thinks that you are happy and nothing is wrong. talk to him. I've been there. On his side of it.

teeth hoover

Talk to him about how you feel and tell him if things don't improve that you're seriously thinking of moving. Give it a few months or so to see if the situation improves and if it doesn't, leave as life is too short belive me.

russellhamuk

maybe her doesn't undertand himself and doesn't know who he is yet.

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