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Should i leave my wife?

i spent a fortune on her for valentines day. i bought her a bunch of carnations, made her a beautiful fish dinner , and even bought her a teddy bear, and did i get my nuts in................not even a sniff.
she can consider herself dumped


    




EJ
Well, perhaps nxt time you could spend the money on a lady of the night!


mountainchowpurple
if thats the way you wont to be she is better off without you


Lorene
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And what was your underlying purpose for what you done? it seems obvious to me that you don't care a sniff about her, only what the final outcome would be to your gratification..


Lucinda M
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Well if your dumping your wife over one Valentines day gone bad then your really shallow. If you act like this on a regular basis to your wife then no wonder she didn't appreciate what you got her.


steph d
Oh wow, I am overcome by your love for her.


jude
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just be patient with her, why end a relationship just because u didn't get what u wanted when u wanted it. if u leave her, it doesn't guarantee u will find happiness with someone else. have to have faith in her, and not be too judge mental, this is really no good reason to leave her.


甲丞å­
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hey, come on. does'nt that comes to a point that what all you have done is just for that. It would be meaningless,
Unconditional love is the greatest love that is celebrated on Valentine's day.
Dun let that spoil your mood, maybe you did'nt set the ambience, mood or even hint properly, stop blaming


ramesh c
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Just check what's on her mind. Talk to her ,may be something is going in her mind.
Do not be in hurry.


breezinabout
You made your bed! Lie in it!!


APNim
No two persons could have same state of mind ,experiences and mood at the same time so expecting same from your partner would not be good on a first place. Second thing she is your wife and not any girl .You took pledge while getting married to accept her "as she is" ,so how come such a small thing could be the reason of dumping her .Its always better to have minimum expectations in married life because no body is perfect ,even you , there might be so many flaws in you which she never shared with you so that you might not get hurt. So my dear try to accept things as they are and do not try to change it .They will change by itself.


kelsey
I am sure that she will be happy to get rid of the extra wasted weight that has been hanging around her house. Maybe if you weren't so cheap bought her roses insteady she would have given you something


aunt_beeaa
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Maybe it was the delivery of the gifts and the dinner that were a turn off!. Carnations? Why didn't you give her roses? Maybe your expectations were to high.

If you're basing your entire marriage on carnations, a fish dinner, a teddy bear and not getting your nuts off well....I hate to say it but if I were your wife you'd be to the curb with bags packed!!


ff.ford1
Why judge her on just one day?


no2
So you were expecting her to pay you by sleeping with you?even if she is your wife she will sleep with you when she wants not because she owes you


Indy500
Perhaps she is worried about your size Shergar The Stallion!


Elaine B
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I think you should be speaking to your wife about this. Maybe there is a perfectly good explanation.


dlsddc
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before you jump in feet first, why not ask her what the prioblem is first before you possibly regeret rushing in to dump your wife, you married her for a reason, ask first then act, not the other way round buddy.

Good luck....


Janet C
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What did she spend on you.? you are not supposed to give to receive


institutionalized
why you should leave your wife? try to talk to her, maybe?? if you think that you should leave her. well just consider it


Golly Geewiz
The smell of fish made her think of her lover, not you


EVA J
you say you spent a fortune on your wife for valentines day well did you think money could buy love well it can,t and if i was your wife i would be the one to dumped you got it


Crazy Bi Chick
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A fish dinner???? Dude you're lucky YOU didn't get dumped. hehehe! But I don't know what hew taste in food is. I would have preferred a big bloody steak with the trimmings. Then fast for 3 days. LOL


knightlibby
That's a bit harsh? Just because you couldn't get what you wanted so she's dumped? Treat her like that, sounds to me she's better off without you! Stop sulking and behaving like a spoilt brat and treat her a lot better and maybe you'll get more respect not just from her, but others as well!

Do you think buying a bunch of flowers and the usual boring box of chocolates will get you what you want? Grow up!


me
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hopefully, if she has got the sense, she has dumped you first! NO MARK!


spuddylicious
what do you want a gold medal





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