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Should i let my husband sleep with others?

My husband has not been with many women, and i know sometimes he regrets it. we have been married over 10 years now. A friend of ours has made small advances toward him, and i told him maybe he should see what other women are like, he hasnt done it now but he is talking to her, he is also being honest and telling me,If i told him to stop he would, should i let him have this experience with another women.


    




Andreas
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Absolutely not! There is nothing good that can come out of giving him permission to be unfaithful.


deakjone
Beware... once he gets a taste of something different he'll want to try all the candy in the candy store... and you'll be left in the cold...


JustMe
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I had lost faith in men long ago but with Yahoo Answers I see women are falling in line right behind them. Soon I will be ashamed to be a human being.


smartypants909
Only if your marriage is not important to you. If you allow this it will never be the same. When we were a young married couple our friends were into wife swapping, now NONE of them are together anymore, we did not participate, been married 32 years.


daj11551
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No way. He should be thrilled to be with you every night. And vice versa. You each took a vow. The trust bond between you two would probably take a huge hit if he did this and you allowed it. He may start thinking you are wanting someone else as well...not a good idea.


jesse
you really need to think about alot befor you let him.
what happens if he leaves you for her, then you are going to be hurt. good luck


KokoCutie272006
NO! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? THAT IS YOUR HUSBAND! YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR FRIEND TO BACK OFF AND RESPECT YOUR MARRIAGE! IF YOU LET HIM DO THAT YOU WILL REGRET IT SO MUCH!


starbrite
You have to be an idiot to fall for that. For all you know he has experienced several women....why would he tell you. I mean you are allowing him to cheat!!! Why would you let him be with your friend of all people?? Are you asking for drama?? If you do it you are a complete moron!! Be strong girl, dont fall for the manilupitation.


?
only if you're stupid


metallicachic82
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If he regretted not being with many women before he married you, then hy did he get married in the first place? Do I think you should let him f**k your friend? Yeah, then you will know to blame her when he leaves you...for her. Good one. I love questions like this...let's me know how many dumba*sses are in the world. Thanks for the laugh...lmfao. :)


rkrell
Not unless you want your marriage to end. A man who really loves his wife wouldn't regret not being with other women, he would instead focus on how lucky he has been to have found someone so special and not have to have been with so many other women.


Common Sense
It would be a lot safer if you would invite her over
for a 3some you could watch & control...
Other than than, it may be a dangerous move...


smallpenislongtongue
what do you mean "let" him. he's already doing it, we all do.


Drey M
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Why just limit it to your husband and a female. Why don't you plan something for the three of you. If you are not bi that is ok too cuz you and the female can please your husband together. I bet you will blow his mind. Also that way it isn't like cheating cuz you are there participating. Have fun with this. I know I did. ;)


silly billy
You should have done this before you were married....What if he likes it too much and leaves? I don't think it is all that necessary to have tons of different parters before you settle down. In my experience, the only one that matters is my husband. I barely remember anyone else...so whats the point? I guarantee it will make you jealous and then destroy your marriage. This just seems like a bad idea.


Joshuwa G
No it will probably ruin your marriage.


J W
I would say NO also!! He married you knowing good and well he had not been with many women. Why would you let him 'try' someone else out and possibly take the risk of losing him?? So if the situation were reversed would he let you be with another man just to see what it was like?? I think you're just asking for trouble in the long run if you allow this to happen.


Suthern R
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And when he decides that he likes her better and that she is better in bed than you are and that they rock and he no longer likes what you have to offer, what are you going to do? Have you lost your mind? You just need to be all that he can handle in bed and teach him the things he does not know... You will regret the other choice, of that you can be sure...


B K
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Dye your trim, wear a wig, and pretend you are someone else. To encourage him to screw other women means you lack not only respect for him but you have zero respect for yourself.

Only a tiny % of couples can involve more than 2 people in the bedroom. You clearly are not one of those peolpe.


sexmagnet
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Nope, when he said "I do" that meant he would forsake all others. How would it make you feel if he did go through with it? I don't think it would strengthen your marriage at all. I wouldn't mess with fire.


jwb674
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Don't be crazy. Of course he shouldn't be with other women.

Welcome to Crazyville, I'll be your tour guide.


lisa46151
well...if your ready for thee to be problems in your marriage..then go ahead.....but....if he does...and you aks questions or decide to talk about it...you are opening up a whole new can of worms if you think you can handle it. You are going to doubt yourself..and him......If he says it didnt mean anything to him...then let it go..if you analize it.....you will be sorry. And if he does enjoy it..then you've got even more problems.....This is NEVER a good thing to do if you are happily married.
Good Luck !!!!!


Rachel
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Only if you're completely desperate and dumb. Your husband wants to cheat on you and wants your permission to do it. What a loser! Why would you marry someone like that?


***CHERRIBOMB***
You need your head examined.


kelly w
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what's wrong with you???????


sexyladyinak
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Why not. It could be fun. Just make sure you have the chance to be with other men.


PisceKween
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Ummm, no I wouldn't advise that you allow this to happen. Right now you may feel safe because it seems like just curiousity but what would you do if he came back to you and said he kept certain things from you, met with someone without your knowledge and without meaning to, fell in love with someone else. You would think, wait a minute, we've been married for ten years! How did this happen. Or here is another scenario, what is he brings home something he got while sleeping with that other person? Condom's can't protect you 100% from all the nasty STD's out there!

I think you know the answer to this question.


resi6
You are a good wife





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