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trevorborden
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seek counseling first. if he can change his bad habits, marry him, if he can't time to move on. |
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tibblethwaite
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Definitely not. I married a man I absolutely adored and worshipped, but after 3 years, the drinking dominated everything, and he did get violent, more than once. It won't be worth it. He'll walk away at the end unharmed by the relationship but you'll never be quite the same again. |
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Allinwiththenuts
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If you have to ask then no. I remember just before the marriage ceremony with my first wife asking myself if I was doing the right thing. I thought it was just cold feet. We were divorced less than a year later. When my current wife and I got married there was not doubt in my mind that it was meant to be. |
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brenny_boo
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He's awful to me - but I really love him???
Are you crazy!! It's fear of being alone that makes you stay with the creep! Alone is a lot better than together and battered!!
Get Out Now! |
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My midpt. in life.
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if you have to ask us, the answer is NO. |
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amerizim
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You already know the answer. Don't marry someone who takes his frustrations out on you. Any bad habits he has now will still be there after you get married. You can do better. |
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Anna F
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No do not marry him. He needs to treat you with respect and treat you like the valuable person that you are. He wouldn't do that if he truly felt that way. |
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David M
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no |
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~MB~
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Look how he treats every person around him, including the least favorite, realizing at times you'll be the least favorite. |
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silly billy
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love means nothing if you can't handle the way he is. He will never change and if you are already at the point where you can't stand it.... DO NOT MARRY HIM!! |
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nikki! <3RDJ<3
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DITCH HIM |
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Ask Me
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Just from experience it gets worse after you are married and have kids. If he is drinking and yelling now when you are married and have kids and the stress of family life it will only get more intense. If you can't handle now get out before you have kids and have to go through a divorce. |
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Jazzy
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why will you want him!! Aim sure your mom cry every night thinking if if the son of bi#### killed you or not.if you have no self respect for your self do it for mom........take it from me get out while you can.....&good luck darling.!!!!! |
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She She
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NO you should not marry him. If you he does things that bother you now they will REALLY bother you later. Save yourself and him the heartache and say NO! |
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klutz ;)
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no way jose! |
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Niko
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Bad habits shouldn't necessarily be a make or break decision maker - but that's just my personal opinion. I think for every bad habit he has you probably have one to match, no? I mean everyone has their faults.
BUT the yelling and the "taking his anger out on you" situation is not something I recommend staying around. If it makes you uncomfortable then tell him that - if he can't work some other way to let his anger out then you should really consider if you want to spend the rest of your life having to be verbally abused! |
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General Custer
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Hit the road running. Now is as good as it ever will be. |
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lee911
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Only you know if you should marry him. "Look" into your heart. Is he the ONE? Can you spend the rest of your life with him? Make sure or you will be sitting in a courtroom going through a tough divorce. Good Luck! |
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sunshine23511
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tell me how you feel. If he is willing to get help and fix the issues...it is a start. If he was like this since jump start, then you need evaluate what you want from a guy |
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cyber_music
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Get counselling before making any big decisions. He sounds like he might need some anger management. He won't change his ways until he is ready to admit he has a problem. |
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older&wiserforit
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No, you should NOT marry him. It will only get worse after marriage. Find yourself a man who is going to treat you with respect. Your not getting it from him. You deserve better than this. And..... this is not love. |
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Common Sense
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Find a better man..
Do not settle for someone you already know has problems.. |
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DeeLicious
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well the fact that you are on here asking this tells me that deep down you really dont want to. So listen to your heart and do the sensible thing.... |
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babygirl
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Tell him that he needs to stop taking his frustrations out on you and tell him he needs to stop smoking and drinking. If he loves you he would at least try to stop drinking and smoking. It's really hard to quit. Don't marry him just right yet because if he is yelling at you and taking his frustrations out on you then he might get abusive when you get married. Tell him that you don't like his bad habits and he needs to make a change. If he really loved you he will at least try to stop smoking and drinking and stop yelling at you. My moms boyfriend did the same thing yelled at her when he had a bad day then they got married at she started getting abused. See if he makes a chang and wait another 2 years before you get married because if he just makes a chang for a year then he'll just turn around and start doing the same sh** again. WAIT! Good Luck! |
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Miss Thang723
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Let me answer this with a uh---no. He might not be abusive now, but after a couple years he might. If you marry him, then you making the biggest mistake of your life. |
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grant l
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if u think there is abetter 1 out there then no |
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Rakel
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I have a question how old is he?
Listen deep down in your heart u know that he is not good for u, and don't think that once u marry he will change, because he wont, the drinking will get worse and he will became violent towards u.he will say I'm sorry i shouldn't have done that i was DRUNK i didn't mean it, and u will forgive him. YEARS later and kids later u will realize the HUGE mistake u did and the kids will be the ones paying for it. |
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ºÅrctîc þrînce§§º
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Before you even think about marriage..seek some type of counseling , or just talk to him about what he does |
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Audio Godâ„¢
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For the love of God.. NO! |
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Alexandra
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if your having problems dating him why would you marry him? I think you answered the question yourself when you said "i dont think i can handle it anymore "
If you love him that much that you still want to be with him, get some couples counseling, perhaps that can help you both. |
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madcrazycow1
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if your already asking this question then NO |
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