Should i stay with him?

shy2008

LOVE SHOULDN'T HURT! Leave him now, it will only get worse. No man that loves you would hurt you. There's no excuse for it. He is controlling your every move...every breath. Run now before he hurts you badly. Go stay with your family, and if you have to...get a restraining order to keep him away from you. He sounds controlling, jealous and dangerous. Get out while you can. IT WILL GET WORSE!

â˜ {A-True-PuNk}â˜

get away when hes not around and call the police he definitely has issues and its unsafe to be around press charges against his ***

Captain C

dump him fast. especially if hes hitting you

Say it Like it Is :)

He is hitting you and being verbally abusive....so he is abusing you in every possible way. Pardon me, but why the F*** is staying with even an option. He doesn't love you, he won't stop hitting you or putting you down. Get the hell out!!

Cotton

GET OUT NOW!!! If you have any self respect, you leave and go to people who make you happy.

kittysavant

If somebody is hitting you, you do not need to be in a relationship with him. If he is controlling you and hurting your relationships with the important people in your life, you do not need to be in a relationship with him. And if he can't control himself, he should not be in a relationship.

It has only been 6 months. Don't waste another minute of your life on this loser. He does not deserve the love you give him. Look back at what you wrote and know that it is the truth: he hurts you. Remember that fact when he tries to promise he won't do it again (that's what abusive people do, they break you down, build you up, break you down.) If you saw one of your friends in a relationship like this, what would you tell her? Love yourself and care for yourself as you would for a friend or sister.

Get counseling if you have access to it, or at least find some books or web sites about surviving abusive relationships. Make sure you fully understand what has happened between you and this guy so that you don't ever get into this sort of relationship again.

Becca M

break up with him... it may feel like you love him but once your gone you will look back and realize that you didnt diserve that ... you may be sad at first but in the end you will be sooo much happier.. also tell a friend of yours and she will be able to help you through it :)

Wild Bill

Get away from as fast as you can run!

Zaine

Hes a total B**** just ditch him and go for some of
the nice guys you never noticed trust me the nice guys would treat
you like a queen.
i should know im one of those nice guys lol :P

*Beccuh*

yea... break up with him. theres no reason he should hit you and put you down. just leave h im cuz that doesnt sound liike a good bf

bandaid_46

What is there to love? How can you love someone who abuses you? You know what you should do.

Irynne J

NO. Don't. it will only get worse.. and pretty soon you'll start to be very down.. you could have something MUCH better. he's being controlling by not letting you see anyone/// my mom went through the same thing.. LEAVE!

Devon H

you really really need to leave him. don't let any man ever hit you. you need to leave him right this second! and you ll get over him don't worry and you will find a new boy friend one that doesn't hit you.

Lauren

Girl!! Are you really asking this questions?????

Ok why do girls always say things like, I love him but he hits me. If a guy is hitting you, that means he wants to show you that he is the "man" of the relationship and that you're a little girl that can't do anything about it. I'm not saying call the cops on him because if you're asking me this question, then I know for a fact you would never turn him in BUT you need to leave him. Quick!

Look, I was in a 4 year relationship with a guy that started hitting me too and at first i was like you, oh he'll stop, oh I love him but you know what, once they hit you, it's over. Why? Because he lost his respect for you and you should never let anyone disrespect you like that. You need to be a lady and step up and say NO!

Even if you guys do last, you think he's just going to stop hitting you? No, it'll get worse and worse, and then it will turn into cheating and then it will just get worse and worse. I'm telling you as a friend, GET OUT of that relationship!!

carmelo a

no dump his ***

Ms LJ

Girl leave him before you end up dead. Not trying to be mean but he's already hitting on you it will only get worse. Please leave him love yourself first.

mysterion

dump him. He shouldn't be taking you away from your friends and family and he definitely shouldn't be hitting you or putting you down. This relationship isn't healthy for you at all and when you find someone new who treats you right you'll be happy that you dumped him.

JellybeanLOVER

LEAVE HIM!!!

Katia

NO matter how much you love him, physical abuse is NEVER okay, as soon as you get out of this relationship, you will realize how much better life can be once you are freed from something like that. But be careful, abusive poeple dint take breakups well.

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