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Badkitty
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Yes, you should tell him. But you should call the Jerry Springer show first and do it on there. That way he can meet your boyfriend too...... |
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Cristina M
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You should tell him. And, if you are willing to date others it's probably time to talk about a divorce. |
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junkman
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You need to divorce before dating. You are considered to be cheating. |
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sassy9mexican5girl
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yes! but you should get a divorce |
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just me
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best rule in this case.... don't start up a new relationship until you are done with the one you have been in.... that means get a reality check on your "marriage". |
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Audi S
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Well, you should really speak to him about a divorce, then. there's no reason why you should be with him if you've already moved on. |
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Meow
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yes you should i guess. and also ask him what he wants to do about your marriage cause its strange to have a 3 yrs long seperation without talking about divorce. are there any kids involved? if yes, you really need to divorce your hubby before starting dating again. but then again thats my opinion. its your life, you do what you think is right. ciao |
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simpleminded
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You should come clean to not only your HUSBAND but to yourself as well.
You are hurting several people in this relationship ( whether you are legally divorced or not ) and you will be burned in the process.
Don't you think you deserve to require the time to recuperate before getting into another relationship ??
Not to be so hard on you, but, You do deserve some time alone to figure out your life and where you want it to go from there. |
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jason
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I think that if you have both been separated for 3 years you should get a divorce and tell him about your bf. It is only fair for you to be able to move on with your life with your bf. That is not very fair to your bf...what if he wants to marry you? best wishes do what is right for you. Not trying to be rude, but it IS cheating when you are still married those wedding vows and promises are still there, separated or not, he doesn't seem to have intensions of getting a divorce if he isn't talking about it, so he is probably thinking it will work out. |
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¸.•*´`*♥ ♥Lenka♥ ♥*´`*•.¸
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If you have not been together for three years, get a divorce and spare him the details. Unless you still have feelings for him?? |
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PLM
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If you've been separated for 3 years, then what purpose does it serve? |
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giallorossi
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Lucky You...and No dont bother telling..how many girlfriends he had so far...? |
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Melody M
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I would definatley start the divorce papers... Three years is excessivley avoiding the issue. |
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beautiful stranger
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no you dont nee d to be telling hiom anything and you need to get a divorce. |
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blueeyes
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Just get a divorce. You don't need to tell him. |
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Real Love Is Forever!
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I guess it depends on how close the two of you are. I hid it from my "husband/ex" for a long time before we were divorced, being we were separated for 8 months before the divorce was final, and then after wards. I didn't want to slap him in the face. Funny, cause he caused the end of our marriage, but I still had to be the better person and not purposely hurt him. It's all in where your relationship is. Heck I'm the same woman that posted a question about having my ex pop up at the bar last night, which ended with my friend, me, my boyfriend and my ex husband sitting around a table having a beer, so hey, it's all in how you look at it. I wish you luck, get that divorce done, and good luck!! |
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-Kat-
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yea... |
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Classy chick
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Why not the could become Pool table buddies and then when your out with the girls those two can go out and swap stories about you or better yet come over to your place to watch the game and have you serve em beer and dip.
What is the point Sister? do you gain something from it? Some satisifaction? Stop and get a divorce and concentrate on things that are important okay! |
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pinki
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yh hun a problem only gets heavier wen the only 1 carryin it is u so get a divorce an it will be out ur way |
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gypsy g
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I don't think he'll care any more than we do. |
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Jordan M
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Your decision...no one really cares that much. |
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**$Cati$**
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Dump your boyfriend and go back to your husband! It is for the best try to work things out and if all dose not go well then get a divorce and keep on living! :) |
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Princess M
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well you need to go ahead and go ahead with the divorce since obviously you dont see yourself with each other but I dont really think that you have to tell him, its not really his business |
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Mitch S
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hahahhaha, no |
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friendlyadvice
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You should tell your husband about your boyfriend and your boyfriend about your husband. When you talk to your husband, you should both agree to get closure on your relationship and go through the process of getting a divorce. You are both legally and financially tied to one another until the divorce is final. If one of you is careless with money, the other's credit rating will suffer.
Emotionally, neither of you will be ready for a serious relationship until you finish the old one. What are you waiting for? |
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aunt_webby
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what he doesnt know won't hurt him, so why tell him ? |
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brad_temp
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You should tell him and than get a divorce.
b_t |
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Sonya
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Personally I think you should tell him. If you are serious about your boyfriend and are wanting to take it to another level. But for the life of me I don't see why you don't just get a divorce and save yourself the trouble down the road. Good Luck with whatever you decide. |
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Love in Paris
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it really doesn't matter but why would you be separated for3 years and not divorce I hope you have a legal separation and depends what state you are in but you could be held responsible for any debt he is incurring etc. Get a divorce |
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