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hairstyle
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now now you guys and gals, ive had this situation with a friend but the other way around, the husband had the child, and the wife chose to forgive him. It has certainly not been anything close to easy, but with faith in the Good Lord above they have made it work. With god all things are possible, POSSIBLE.........NOT EASY OR FUN!!!!!!!!!! |
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Short
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Yes you should tell him and he may or not forgive you but you should face the consequences of the decisions you decide to make. |
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eejonesaux
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Hi,,, oh brother...... what a hoot !!! You have some real decisions to make here,,,, I would not think that your husband is going to be very warm about you being prengant by someone else....
good luck,,, you need it..... |
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cowboy
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Hell no, He should leave your @ss. |
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Gypsy
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your going to have to choose who you would rather be with now .If you choose your husband you need to tell him and ask if he forgives you im sure it will be hard maybe even end up in a divorce but you need to choose first .Then if you find out your pregnat and you choosed your husband you need to tell him the baby could not be his.Some men will stay some wont.But if you choose your affair over your husband then make sure you get a divorce but what if the baby is your husbands and you chose your affair . will he want to raise a child not his ?this is things you will need to figure out . |
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honey
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There is one very good saying: "Keep your waters to yourself". If you ever open your mouth about that, it will be the most stupid, dumbest thing you have ever done. Whatever happened - already happened. Don't make your situation worse than it already is. It is not about your "honesty" anymore; it is about life that the child, produced by you, will have to live. |
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Dan
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And the purpose of getting married was??? |
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curiousandsmiley
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Contact him through your attorney... |
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mel
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Here's your sign
http://www.mistupid.com/people/page013.htm |
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ricky
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tell him all and beg for forgiveness. cook him a potroast dinner. |
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Nana
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tell him, the truth can come out sooner or later. and even if it doesn't ur guilt will bother you. good luck! hopefully he forgives you! |
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Rawrrrr
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Well, can you live with not telling him and/or lying to him and your future child? If you can keep a secret like that, go for it - because it's gonna cause some major drama. But, if you are pregnant, it's not fair to your baby or your husband for you to lie about the paternity of the child. |
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joechelle
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Yes! you should tell to your husband, and you should explain why did you that.. An ask forgiveness from him, and if he forgive you you promise him that you will good wife to him.. |
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JDs Mommy
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Oh honey! Jerry Springer said give him his show back! |
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crack_rock_84
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okay the guy you slept with does he kind look like your husband? if so then you can pass his kid off as your mans. and i wouldn't say a word you have gotten away with it this long. some things just shouldn't be told |
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alwayscurious
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Yes, you should be honest, even if it is too late, he deserves it. He should have the right to either forgive you or leave you. You obviously don't take your marriage vows seriously. |
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Hea Dude !
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HELL NO !! |
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Patrick Bateman
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F!ck no! Get your azz to the Jerry springer show |
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T
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Get it together lady |
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rvogelpohl2001
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In response to your former question...
This is just an add-on.
You are feeling guilty as heck and you need to come clean!
Period!
You totally screwed up and you need to face the music!
If you think this other married man is going to be there for you, especially now that a child is involved, you are seriously disillusioned.
Just hope you don't end up as a single mother to boot!
Think about the young life you are already influencing! |
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berry
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He won't forgive you. |
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Miss G6
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take them both to the maury show. |
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Mr. Bugsme
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Well, let's see. I need more details: Do you have a bullet proof vest? |
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RunBabyRun
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well here is what will happen.
you will tell him.
he will ***** you out.
he willl divorce you.
you will cry.
you will get over it.
you will have ur freakking affair baby.
and live happily ever after with this other man. |
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GoddessLil12
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Not in this world lady. |
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Deshawn & Keshawn's mom
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i think you should tell him no man should go 9 months thinkin a baby is his when it may not be..heartbreaking....if ur not in love you should get a divorce if he cant forgive you. you will have a guilty con.....if u do not tell him and hide it...well good luck with ur baby and ur marriage....best wishes |
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Jack T
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He may forgive you with the affair but may not forget. But with another person child? Hmm.... that wud be really tough unless there is a miracle. |
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pb_pony
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NO and NO |
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