Should i worry about this?

i was going trough my husband phone behind his back and he found out.. he said that i don't give him any privacy and then he went and changed his info so i wouldn't be able to log into his phone account.. should i worry? do i believe him?
ps: last time i checked his record he was talking to another girl, he he stopped talking to her ( when i found out ) but i check just in case i see new numbers.. so know how would i know if starts talking to somebody new?

Purple

Whether he is seeing anybody or not, you will not be able to know it, especially if he is really careful in keeping them from you. He will always find a way, if he likes to. Worrying will just make you look old. Stop thinking about him and start thinking about yourself. Improve yourself physically and socially. You might get his attention then.

iyamacog

It's called trust.......Which appears to be lacking. If you're unable to trust him, you may need some counseling for you both....Before things become unmanageable.

daljack -a girl

You're both wrong.....when you don't trust each other there's no real marriage.

It's not enough to worry.....get some counseling.

KellyR

well its not right of you to go through his phone. spouses still need some privacy in a marriage, but it does sound a little odd that he went to the trouble of changing it. either he does have something to hide, or he's trying to teach you a lesson about going through his phone. my husband and i have no secrets. he has all my email, facebook, myspace passwords, banking info, and cellphone info and i have all of his. neither of us have anything to hide and neither of us could care less if the other went through our stuff.

gina

Trust your instinct.

Dakota Lynn Takes Gun

You are insecure. Why bother being in a marriage if you can't trust your husband no matter who he talks to. Just because he talks to another "girl" does not mean he is going to leave you and marry her. If he does he never loved you in the first place and you should be happy that you know now rather than spend a lifetime with a cheater. Usually women like you who don't trust your man are the ones sneaking around and talking to other guys when the husband is not home. Often times you search the internet for men while hubby is working.

Piggy

I wouldn't trust someone who went behind my back to look at my phone records. He should dump you.

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