Should married men be chatting with other women?

~nicole~

Nope you're not being stupid. Those chats always lead to way more. It's how my exhusband started cheating on me. ONLINE. And then he got addicted to it and couldn't stop.

Jenny Kim

Isn't that sort of what you are doing right now?
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Marina

If you're believing what he's saying and enabling him to continue on, you're a fool. There is no reason for a man to be chatting with other women online while he's married. Why can't he talk to the living, breathing woman he LOVES? Caution.

Star*

you're not being stupid but surely he's allowed women friends. Do you have any male friends? If you trust him you have nothing to worry about because your marriage commitment should be enough!

kitkat

and what's he chatting about? I'd be a little suspicious if I were you, keep your eye on him, hopefully he stops when you get home and chats with you.

wrfine

I do it all the time and the ol lady does it too and there is no harm in it... You want to chat? E me!

Been There Done That

ask him if you can sit on his lap as he chats....if he says no something snake like is going on.

cowgirl_723

I would pull up his coversations and see what he's saying to them. If it's just a friendly convo nothing to worry about but if you go in and he's deleted what he's been talking about or if you discover it's more than just friendly I would tell him to stop.

George S

are you giving him the attention he needs? my wife wants nothing to do with me so sometimes I find myself flirting back with women that flirt with me. makes me feel like i'm wanted. i don't get that at all from my wife. are you ignoring him??

Chris R

Depends.

If he's home, he's home.

If he goes places at night or during the day, keep an eye.

Sometimes it is just talk. I mean, I'm kind of chatting with you :o)

I've been in numerous chat rooms with women. Who cares, it's just text.

Be more paranoid if he starts "meeting people".

iyamacog

No......Sooner or later the chat will develop into something more.
And besides, he doesnt need to be chatting with others. YOU are there for him. If he doesnt choose to chat with you, there's something amiss.......Sorry

Ansem the Wise

Yes married men can chat with other women

linnora_fates

who is he chatting with woman or men? Maybe you should say since it is chatting "only" then maybe we can chat together? I would like to meet your new friend and it will be something We can share as a Couple!.. then you can snoop.. or spy.. or find out if he does not want you to chat with him because he has something to hide!

Margo

talk to him he want to have friends if he let you know about it it is not chating ther just writing to each other
he not doing nothing if you feel he is like I said talk to him!!!!

Good Luck&&&&&&&&&&&&&&

boo

I will keep an eye out for him. In a situation like that one I would wonder what will my husband be chatting about....I'm not married though just an example. I would talk to him first though.

Little miss midget, <33

Of course hes allowed to talk to other women, hes married but it doesnt mean he can't still have lady friends. It is alrite for you to feel how you do but if you love him.. you gotta trust him.

dont hate me cause im honest!

who cares its online. If he goes out and cheats then thats differant.

Gatita

You are not being stupid... that is totally normal.... now lets see you do the same and see what he says????

All your going to be doing is "talking" so he shouldn't see anything wrong with that- - - - right?

Got ya covered!!!!!

If he is flirting he is doing a wrong!
Start talking to guys and see how he feels!
And does that MAN?BOY have a job!?

specialpatient

I guess it all depends on what they are chtting about! Do you chat with men or even younger men?

ziggy_brat

I can tell you from experience that there is most likely a problem somewhere.

moi_le_freak

Don't get your knickers in a twist, you're feeling a little jealous is all. Remember unless he's given you just cause to think that he is doing something more than chatting, trust him.

Hope all goes well :)

Greasy Tony

It's disrespectful!

The_Blonde_Jokester

married men sould not chat with other women i dont think
you sould keep an eye on him and im not a girl but i dont think your stupid b/c you dont no for sure if he is flurting with them or not but keep an eye on him.

michelle

I just caught my husband with pics of other women on his computer . he tired to deny it . he is unemployed and i work . he tired to tell me he called this aid for a cleaning crew with women and skippy out fits and they sent pics but didnt respond back i think its bs what should i do . iam forty and people tell me all time i look like iam in my early 30 and he is 48

amanda

I know what you are going through, I have been married for 5 years and have 3 beautiful girls with him and he was talking with another woman. I had suspitions and they were right. After finding out, he decided to pack and leave the state. He did not even consisder talking about it.

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