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Should my fiance get mad at me when I ask him?

my fiance always gets mad at me when I ask him why he is talking to his ex girlfriends and he always gets mad when they do talk and I ask him what they are talking about, and he never wants to tell me what it is. I'm just curious what you guys think because I really don't think he should get mad at me for it.

I don't ever talk to any of my exs and if I did I wouldn't try and keep it a secret if he was asking.


    




Guytheterrible
Well, maybe you should talk to one of your exes. Then perhaps he'll know how it feels.


Yeah....
as his future wife. you have every right to get mad at him.. not the other way around when it comes to that.

it sounds like he doesn't understand what it means to be married.


stephm9564
Your fiance has NO reason to talk to his ex, especially if it makes you uncomfortable. If your fiance isnt doing anything wrong then he shouldnt have any problem telling you what him and his ex discuss. He really shouldnt be talking to her at all.


••○ PitBuLL ○••
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Um No, but why the heck is he talking to his ex's? WEIRD


audrey c
It sounds like he is doing some thing wrong.
you have every right to know what they are talking about.
and why are they talking anyway.Do they have kids together?
that is the only reason that i can see that they should be talking at all.


Epona S
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He might be getting mad because he is and he is doing or saying inappropriate things to them. Unless you constantly ask and he always says no and doesn't understand why you dont trust him. Im sure you know which scenario is more likely in your case better than anyone else.


J-Luv The Bunny
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Yes you have every right to be. I believe that when you are serious with someone especially engaged that it is time to let your exes go. Exes are baggage and dead weight. If you have truly moved on w/ your life why keep them around? Esp if you are considering marrying someone.

My theory on all men in general and based on my personal experience, when a man gets angry and it involves a female of his past along w/ information that you have no knowledge of and he angrily refuses to divulge, he's up to no good!


jude
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he is a man who doesn't like confrontation or to be questioned about a thing. if it were no big deal why isn't he being honest if he's not ashamed of it? when people feel guilty they will try to avoid being questioned. but this is not a man i would want, because if he is showing this side of himself now, it shows he doesn't have allot of respect or love for u. means he doesn't care about consequences.


Bella
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You should be mad, because he is being secretive about it. What is he hiding? If I were you, I would put a stop to it now. I am married and do talk to an ex, but I do not hide it from my husband. My husband also knows this person and is comfortable with me talking to him. Otherwise, I would not do it. You should be the most important woman in you finance's life. If he cannot make this commitment now, do not think he will do it after the wedding.


jumpinjupiter69
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Hes obviously not ready for marriage. Tell him its off and see what happens. You deserve better already!


kitkat
Two Things:
He is a cheater
You are a doormat


Girly Man
Thats the exact same question as mine...exact wording.....thanks for stealing!!





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