Should my wife be this upset?

openminded

Suggestion.. Grow up, act married and have some respect for yoursef and your wife. I was once married to an *** like you, but now he is gone!!!!

Amy.

you lied too her and went to a casino - then blew money at a STRIP CLUB, when you have a beautiful wife sitting at home waiting for you. She was probaly worried sick about you. You should of atleast called her. I dont think she's over reacting - if i was her id kick ur butt to the curb :)

â™¥áƒ¦.Queenie McCain .áƒ¦â™¥

sweetie, your toast, sorry=(

free_angel

You're lucky she didn't kill you.

â™¦justmeâ™¦

When you step in ****, you really step in it don't you?
Good Luck with that........

catdogpenny

dumb ***! first off don't lie cause the truth will eventually come out.
Explain yourself and only time will tell how things with pan out.

Niel

i dont think she is over reacting. think of u as her position and her in ur position. u would aso do the same prbably. also, i dont think u should tell her about the money now, wait till everything becomes normal. time is the best healer

gypsy g

She isn't over reacting. Leaving to think you are going to be home at a certain time and then not showing up is a sign of disrespect.

THE WRAITH OF GOD IS COMING

You aren't single anymore a strip club you totally violated your your wedding voes.

letterstoheather

If you didn't bother to call and let your wife know you'd be that late, you deserve whatever you get.

There is such a thing as common courtesy.... maybe you could get some?

Its me again

She should kick your immature a$$ to the curb.

lda915

Lets see you lied, you spent a lot of money foolishly, No I do not think she is over reacting. As for lying about working late, you should now really be working late and replace the money. You owe her a big apology and a sincere promise to never do this again. How would you feel if she had done this to you?

LimeyinAmerica

You've been married 3 months and have to go to a strip club and blow $300??!!!!!!!

If you seriously think your wife is over-reacting you need to sit down and have a good look at yourself, seems to me you are nothing but an overstuffed 5th grader who only thinks about himself. I'm surprised that she allowed you to sleep on the sofa, you should have been on the curb.

You need a good kick in the backside.
Maybe she'll kick you to the curb where you should have stayed!

My Hubby's Be Be`â™¥

Oh, you might want to see if Rover has room out in the dog house, cuz this might last a lil while... OK who is kidding, this could last for a long time... "Does Rover have a fridge and stove?"

Bad boy.... Bad bad boy....

bttrfl16

She is def not overreacting you idiot!!! She was worried SICk about you, wondering if something terrible had happened to you! Yet, you blow money at a STRIP club and a casino with the guys, when you obviously have a loving wife, waiting at home to make sure that you are ok...if I was her, I wouldn't have kicked you to the couch, i'd have kicked you to the curb...you are toast, and every ounce of pain she gives you now, you deserve.

mn lady

What you have done is betrayed her trust in her. The money is the least of your problems because she will be more angry that you felt the need to go gambling and then to a strip club.

You have given her the impression that you don't get from her what you need at home. She will think you are out looking for women even if it is not true.

You could have spared yourself a lot of grief if you just called her and told her you were going out with the guys. She is only asking you to respect her feelings as she respects yours.

As for the money you might as well tell her the truth. If you are smart you will apologize and tell her you made a mistake not letting her know where you were. Tell her the guys asked you along and the time just flew by. Say you did not realize you were losing so much money and you are asking her forgiveness. She is still the most important thing in the world to you and you love her.

Good Luck

Tessie

Man, your wife has every right to be upset. Just lay low and let her get over it. Be honest with her. She is going to be so pissed!! If my husband did something like that I would have made him sleep on the couch too. Put yourself in her shoes for a minute or two and think about if you were expecting her to be coming home at a certain time and then was home in the early hours of the morning. I don't know what else to tell you but you are in a heap of heat with your woman. Good Luck and let this be a BIG lesson learned and never do it again.

Betty

Thank goodness I have a much better boyfriend.... If my partner did that to me, he would be out! Women's intuition is telling her you were up to no good. You weren't, you lied to your wife (lying is a HUGE NO NO), you chose to blow your money gambling and on other woman while she thought you were out making money, you spent the time with naked hoochies instead of your wife (completely disrespectful).... I don't know what advice to give you, if I were her I would honestly be over you, checked out emotionally and then file for divorce. You committed your life to her, it's time to step up and act like a real man - not some scuzzy teen. Keep this up and you'll see divorce in your future, and rest assured it will be all your doing.

just m

you asked for it! If I were her I'd have left in the morning and never come back to you.

Grow up. You are married now and you can't just think about what you want you have to think about her too. You should have just picked up the phone and called her. Going to a casino and a strip club is no big deal. My husband goes to a strip club whenever he wants and I know he is always coming home to me. You should have called her and told her the truth to begin with. I figure you didn't b/c you knew she'd guilt you into coming home instead of out w/ friends. I think you need to work on being considerate for her feelings too.

makeloans2

Since you are new to this "marriage" thing, let me introduce you to a term you'll undoubtably hear alot:

"You are SO in the dog house".

Valerie X

The sad part in all this is that you actually took time to type this drivel.

Sounds made-up too.....because if its actually true, you are truly a very unintelligent person.

IcKyViCkY

How long have you been with each other in total? Normally a guy r husband would call their wife/ GF if they were going out somewhere after work. If you won the 150 then you blew that plus 300 at a strip club even I would be a little (well not a little) upset at my husband. But you have to think of where she is coming from too... She did not know where you were and I am sure she tried to call you, but you might not have heard your phone. I would just tell her the truth was it with you and friends of yours at work? I don't know I would only be mad that you came home at 2 A.M. not the fact that you spent money If you had it to spend. If she loves you she will get over it but as the people above said Good luck.. Don't lie to her!!!!

Beatngu

Can we say... you'll be sleeping in the dog house?! Grow up! You didn't respect your wife enough to even call...

priveledged i

Oh brother you are going to pay for this. I had a similar experience after being married for 8 months, and she still reminds me of it occasionally and we have been married for over 20 years. My advice is to come clean and admitt you messed up. I don't think it would have been so bad had you had called her to say you were going out with some friends. Now the strip club thing, I am sure you are going to catch 7 kinds of hell for that one...and rightfully so. $450 at a strip club???? Exactly how desperate are you to see naked women?? Have you heard of the internet or adult movies??

No matter how you look at it...YOU ARE GOING TO PAY SEVERLY FOR THIS ONE BROTHER!!!!!
FYI - your wife should be this upset and then some......

NoSh*t?

Keep this Sh** up and you'll need have to go back to the casino and the strip joint to earn the $450 back for your divorce. I really hope Marriage and "Till death do us part" actually means something to you cuz she'll do to you what i did to my ex - kick him the F*** out for being such a dumb (_!_) Good Luck... Whatever you do DON'T LIE TO HER!!!!

You all think we over react. Put yourself in her place. Look at the time span that you were gone. Did you even consider calling her? You are a married man now. Be responsible and act like one. What da heck are you doing at the strip club anyway?! Let your wife strip for you.

Email me if you have any more questions.

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