Should workplace affairs be avoided?

ETxYellowRose

I believe so. They can cause all kinds of problems.

Starting with jealousy in the work place.
You have each person constantly watching the other to see what they are doing and who they are talking to.
You have other employees wondering if you are getting ahead and promotions by sleeping with the other party.
And then there is always the "what if"....what if yall split up, who is going to end up leaving the company because you will definitely not be able to work around each other any more.

And this is only part of the reasons.

country_girl

yes ofcourse!!

JENAE'

No. As long as it does not compromise you or your job it should be fine. Just be careful.

white rose

yes......

rkilburn410

DUH

Diane the Succubus (PFLAG)

You don't crap where you eat, don't screw where you work...

Makes for one big headache.

Confused

All affairs should be avoided!!!!!!!!!

The Key Master

YES, haven't you ever heard the saying "don't s h i t where you eat" plus your coworkers DO talk/laugh about you and whoever your dating

marrissa

Yes because it brings to much drama in the workplace

Dusty Rose

definitely

sweetpea4192

HELL YES !!! IT'S A BAD IDEA

biÌla

Any affair should be avoided. If you want to go out side your marriage just get a divorce.

coachls

If at all possible

â„¢Spacemanâ„¢

definitely.

raffi

never a good idea

Lady

ALWAYS!!!!

overseas and broke

no. just quit.

Vic

I would say that would depend on the workplace. If it is a job that you could easily replace if things went wrong, or is it a job that you would have problems finding one to replace.

Depends on the size of the workplace. Not good in a small work enviroment as you can't avoid them if all goes sour.

looking for answers

I think so because you could wind up losing your lover and your job.

madtyga2002

it depends on the two ppl who are trying to get hooked up. I met my fiance at the orkplace, she was a teacher as well, we kept it on the hush and kept ppl out of our buisness. Some ppl had questioned if we were a couple but we denied it, told em we were old friends from high school. Now we're engaged and will be getting married next year.

chrissylm37

If you want to be considered the office hor go for it, other than that don't. No matter how discret you think you are, it always gets out. Never mix business with pleasure.

BluePassion

Definitely! If it doesn't work out, then you'll have to deal with seeing this person on a daily basis. And God forbid he/she gets a promotion and then becomes your boss.

Big Bear

I think so, b/c after it breaks up, it's too difficult to face each other and you don't know what the person will tell others.

paulisfree04

depends on who you work with!

uncledad

Sadly it is the sole source for many of 'secure' dating possibilities...

Sadly also a wonderful way to begin new job search for many.

purplepatty

Any kind of affairs should be avoided, but if you use the term affair just merely as description of a relationship with someone in your workplace then its up to the individual how you would feel about still working with them should it all go pear shaped, if its a small company it may be difficult in the end

pinklady23

Yes

darkest queen

yes yes and yes

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